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Saying Goodbye to the Managing Broker Who Helped Me Succeed in This Business

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Real Estate Agent with Long and Foster Real Estate VA License # 0225089470

I passed my Virginia real estate licensing test in January 2005.  Shortly after, I went shopping for a place to hang my license.  Two different friends, both in real estate, recommended two different brokerages.  The first one was a real estate brokerage masquerading as the sole business of one agent.  There were promises of many leads, but the head kahuna was to get all the credit for the sales you made.  Unless your Mother was selling her house, then there MIGHT be an exception.  I'd worked plenty of sales jobs and that didn't sit well.  If you earned a client, you should get credit.  But the fear of starting a real estate business from scratch was daunting and the thought of those leads were tempting.  Even though I was moderately annoyed that the big kahuna that got all the credit for my hard work didn't even pop out from behind the curtain to say hello during my interview, in my mind, the next interview at Long & Foster was a formality.

As soon as Eileen Durkan walked into the conference room of Long & Foster Realtors®in Haymarket, Virginia, I felt I'd found a home.  She was friendly, confident and not at all pushy.  She explained her office philosophy that her job was to get each agent up and running in their own right. Help them be as successful as they wanted to be.  Not to take the credit for all their hard work.   She said real estate was a business where ultimately, you were working to establish YOUR name.  Long & Foster offered training, and an established, recognizable Brokerage to back you up, but ultimately, with Eileen and the company, you were working to establish YOU.

The ease of conversation and the friendly atmosphere in her office took what I thought was a slam dunk for the other guy and won me over.  I've never regretted that decision.

 

Eileen's confident competence and easy-going friendliness created an atmosphere that made Long & Foster's Haymarket office a place where a new agent that had no clue where to start, could get a good footing.  Her positive energy flowed downhill.  Experienced agents were there to lend a hand and help newbies like me out.  And in turn, when I gained experience, I returned the favor and helped those that needed it.

Eileen's office was not perfect.  Just like a family, agents are sure to have their disagreements.  But Eileen garnered an atmosphere of plentiful thinking.  There was enough business to go around.  We supported one another and were all stronger as a result.

Our Long & Foster office in Haymarket eventually combined with Eileen's newest office in Gainesville.  There she oversaw the blending of two "families."  Two offices coming together might have been rocky for two other groups, but Eileen's two group of agents welcomed the opportunity to work with one another.

Eileen truly fostered a feeling of family.  She's presided over our business struggles and successes.  She's watched over us in our moments of personal tragedy and celebrated with us in our moments of pure joy.  In fact, she did something I will never forget on my wedding day.

I am positive that I would not be the agent I am today without simmering in the environment Eileen Durkan provided for those first, nearly six years of my real estate career.  I'll miss her when I hit my next transactional issue.  She's a been great listener and always gave very sound advice.  And what I liked best is she was never without her sense of humor.  I'm so glad to have worked for her.   And I'm glad to be part of her retirement celebration today.

I'm sure that the office Eileen has created will take our new Managing Broker under it's wing and make him feel welcome.  That's the level of professionalism she has instilled in us and it will serve us well throughout our careers.

Happy Retirement, Eileen! 

Comments(27)

Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Cindy:  It was flattering to hear that from Boomer.  He's a good guy.  And the Managing Broker he's chosen for us should do very well with our office.

Nov 30, 2010 12:54 PM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

Retire? How dare she retire! And how dare you let her retire! What are you people drinking over there in Virginia? J♪♫♫♪

Nov 30, 2010 01:28 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Jim:  Champagne today!  :)  I'm just glad there is someone out there that actually CAN retire.  Maybe one day I'll get there too. 

Nov 30, 2010 01:30 PM
Trey Thurmond
BCR Realtors - College Station, TX
College Station , Texas Homes

Chris Ann

This is a very nice post and tribute to someone you obviously respect.  I will be the first to say as an owner for 3o plus years it always is rewarding when an agent tells me I made a difference.

Nov 30, 2010 04:19 PM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Chris Ann, Boomer Foster reads your blog?  And likes it?  How cool is that!  And it sounds like you all had a wonderful celebration of your mentor's career!

Dec 01, 2010 02:29 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Trey:  I know there are some that just don't take to real estate no matter what, but folks in your and Eileen's position really do have an impact on the careers of agents just getting started.

Pat:  I love how you say, "And likes it?"  OF COURSE!  He and Eileen made me part of the Social Media Committee at Long & Foster earlier this year, or was it last year.  I can't keep it straight.  2010 has been a blur.

Dec 01, 2010 03:04 AM
Michelle Gibson
Hansen Real Estate Group Inc. - Wellington, FL
REALTOR

Chris Ann - My experience was very similar when I was looking for my first brokerage.  I also had an AWESOME managing broker and wouldn't be where I am today without him. 

Dec 01, 2010 03:48 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Michelle:  It is critical to find a fit when you are starting out in real estate.  Glad we both did.

Dec 01, 2010 04:46 AM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

When one door closes, another door opens. I was really missing the managing broker at my office but then she was replaced with another whom I like just as much. Maybe more. The way you started out your blog I thought maybe you were going elsewhere. Glad to hear you're staying where you are.

Dec 01, 2010 12:37 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Elizabeth:  While I'll miss Eileen, I am sure that our company would not put in someone that was not a fit.  I've known our new Managing Broker as an agent, and very much respected him.  I'm sure we're going to be in very capable hands.  And in time, we'll become his fans as well. 

Dec 01, 2010 02:04 PM
Pat Fenn
Marketing Specialist for CJ Realty Group/Cindy Jones Broker - Springfield, VA

Chris Ann-what a nice post about your mentor and broker.  And shoot when Boomer Foster says he is reading your blog you know management is keeping an eye on you for future success!

Dec 01, 2010 02:35 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Pat:  Never thought of it that way. 

Dec 02, 2010 03:06 AM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Yeah, Chris Ann, maybe you'll be tapped for a management position down the road. It's quite an honor.

Dec 02, 2010 04:47 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Elizabeth:  In the future that might be cool.  For now, I'm happy working with my Short Sale banks in my PJ's.

Dec 02, 2010 08:37 AM
Terry Meyer
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Sound Realtors - Olympia, WA

Chris Ann,  I love to read stories like this.  Eileen seems like she is the type of broker that I work with.  He has been there every step of the way to help make me successful.  I hope your new managing broker is as good as Eileen.

Dec 02, 2010 11:07 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Terry:  I'm sure he will be.  I'm meeting with him first thing in the morning.  I hope to have an introductory post out about him soon.

Dec 02, 2010 01:41 PM
Jackie Connelly-Fornuff
Douglas Elliman Real Estate in Babylon NY - Babylon, NY
"Moving at The Speed of YOU!"

What a wonderful tribute to you Broker. You will obviously miss her and I would too. I am sure your new Broker will be nice but sounds like he might have some big shoes to fill :)

Dec 02, 2010 10:28 PM
Anne Clark
Metro Referrals - Gainesville, VA

I wish I would have been there to say goodbye to her.  I know I don't work there anymore, but she was such a great lady.

Dec 05, 2010 12:37 PM
Tni LeBlanc, Realtor®, J.D.
Mint Properties, Lic. #01871795 - Santa Maria, CA
Tenacious Tni (805) 878-9879

A great tribute to a great lady! Well done!

Dec 05, 2010 01:04 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Jackie:  Eileen will be a tough act to follow, but I think the company made a really wise choice with our new Managing Broker.

Anne:  I wish you had been there too.  It was a great send off.

Tni:  Thank you!  It was a pleasure to write this to honor her.

Dec 05, 2010 01:06 PM