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Holiday Miracles: Having my dad an extra 20 years is best miracle I could have asked for!

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty LLC 200311024

Roddy Clark (Liver Transplant)It all started in 1989, that is when my dad started not acting like my dad. My dad has always been a hard working man making sure our family always had a roof over our head and food on our table. He was a teacher and during those summer months and winter breaks he would take up odd jobs to help with the expenses of raising 4 kids.

One of the jobs that I think made me who I am today was that he was a park ranger for the State of Oregon when I was really young. Since then I’ve always had a love for the outdoors and my family loves to go camping every chance we get. But, in 1989 the job he took that summer was at a fish packing facility.

Though taking this job helped put my sister through college, it almost killed him. Now you wouldn’t think a little thing like a hook catching your finger would be a big deal. Put a band-aid on it and go back to work. (And that is exactly what he did)

What we didn’t realize was that hook would be the thing that changed our lives. That hook was contaminated with Hepatitis C and started immediately attacking my dad’s liver. Within months my dad was acting funny, saying weird phrases and once even took a bath letting the water overflow while eating a shoe. Yes, eating a shoe! Seems when your liver stops working your ammonia levels in your body get high enough you start to hallucinate.

Roddy Clark and Todd Clark at Detroit Lake

At this point Hepatitis C was fairly new and doctors weren’t giving our family much hope. They said more than likely he was going to have only a few months to live unless he was able to get a liver transplant. They also said the odds of that were slim because they had to find a match for my father.

So, our family as hard as it was started making funeral plans just in case and started preparing ourselves for a life without dad. But, we prayed daily that they could find a cure or find a donor for my dad. In November 1990 my dad really started to take a turn for the worse and we knew we didn’t have long.

That is when the doctors gave him a pager that if that pager went off he was to go immediately to the hospital. Well, unfortunately during his time at home that pager never went off and in late November he was put in the hospital for what we thought was his final days. The doctors did everything they could to ease his pain and pro-long his life.

Then on December 17, 1990 the pager went off, they had a match, they had found a donor in Texas. They immediately put my dad in the Life Flight helicopter and took him to the Portland airport where they used the Life Flight plane and flew him to Texas to Baylor University.

Roddy Clark

Baylor at the time was the number one transplant hospital in the United States and I have to say I’m thankful for them every day. On December 19, 1990 my dad got a new liver and a new chance at life. He is one of the longest living liver transplant recipients in the world and the doctors love to see him. You see my dad does exactly what the doctors tell him to do! Most patients go back to a life of eating unhealthy, drinking or other things that can do harm to your body and die within 10 years. My dad has lost many friends that he met during his stay at Baylor.

So, thank you Baylor for making the last 20 Christmas’s with my dad special and our holiday miracle come true.


 

Comments(37)

Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Another chance at life and you're getting to enjoy the company of your dad ... a special miracle indeed!

Dec 14, 2010 03:32 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

Paul, I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I'm glad I didn't lose my dad when I was 20, the world would have lost a very special man if he had. I appreciate what I have and we talk everyday and always say "I LOVE YOU"

Dec 14, 2010 05:27 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Yes, the miracle of life is indeed a Miracle no matter what.  Happy for you and your family Todd :)

Dec 14, 2010 06:01 AM
Dawn Maloney
RE/MAX Trinity Northeast Ohio Real Estate Specialist - Hudson, OH
330-990-4236 Hudson & Northeastern Ohio

Todd, that is so very wonderful!! What a nice day to commemorate each year during the Christmas season. I know his successful life after transplant inspires hope in other people worldwide. What a great blessing!

Dec 14, 2010 06:28 AM
Gerry Michaels
Glasswork Media Arts - Gettysburg, PA
GettysburgGerry Social Meida

Todd, that is a wonderfull story, Thanks for sharing and reminding us all that every day is a gift...

Dec 14, 2010 07:32 AM
Cinnamon Wright
Wilmington Real Estate 4U 910.547.1446 - Wrightsville Beach, NC
Assistant to Tish Lloyd

What a gift your entire family was given on that day.  Your Dad sounds like a remarkable man, may you enjoy many more years together!

Dec 14, 2010 03:20 PM
Robin Dampier REALTOR®
Coldwell Banker King - Hendersonville, NC
Hendersonville & Western NC Real Estate Source

What a beautiful and wonderful story to share with us and especially at this time of the year.  Your dad looks great and wishing you, your dad and your family many more shared Christmas's together.

Sue of Robin and Sue

Dec 15, 2010 06:55 AM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

What a freak accident.  But what a great outcome.  A miracle indeed.

Dec 16, 2010 04:43 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Todd, what a wonderful ending, and to think, it all started with a simple fish hook.

Dec 18, 2010 01:26 PM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

Todd, can't believe i missed this post originally & thank Pat for bringing it forward...it is so touching and incredible a story from a loving son to a dad...

Dec 18, 2010 11:08 PM
Betsy Schuman Dodek
Washington Fine Properties - Washington DC Area Real Estate - Potomac, MD
SearchPotomacHomes.com

Todd, Thank you so much for sharing this. What an unbelievable story and even better tribute to your dad! Happy holidays!

Betsy

Dec 19, 2010 12:27 AM
Irene Kennedy Realtor® in Northwestern NJ
Weichert - Lopatcong, NJ

What an awful period for your entire family, Todd!  So glad your dad found his miracle and that you know to appreciate having him in your life.

Dec 19, 2010 01:09 AM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

You and your family are indeed blessed! That was a gift from heaven, that you could have your Dad a little longer!

Dec 19, 2010 02:14 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Wow Todd what a great story. You're dad is a testament to all the great things that medicine can now do. The doctors love him because he takes their advice & changed his lifestyle. 

Dec 19, 2010 03:09 AM
Steven L. Smith
King of the House Home Inspection, Inc. - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham WA Home Inspector

Todd,

That is a very interesting post and I read every word of it. Congratulations.

Dec 19, 2010 08:17 AM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

Oh Todd,  We never stop to think about something so simple as a hook... We just never know the little daily things that carry something that is going to affect us for the rest of our lives.

I am so glad that your dad got a liver transplant and has been around for the last 20 years... maybe 20 more? :)

Dec 19, 2010 09:16 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Todd, what a touching story. That's the power of prayer. Merry Christmas to you and your dad.

Dec 19, 2010 10:17 AM
Melinda Ball
Coldwell Banker - Winchester, VA
Licensed Realtor in Virginia and West Virginia

Thanks for the wonderful holiday story.

Dec 19, 2010 01:28 PM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Todd... another awesome story. I have had a few close calls with my dad... in 1998, having cancer on his brain stem, coming through that... and last year, having a blood clout outside of his brain and at first, it didn't look good. I always took life and my parents for granted and I needed a few wake up calls. So glad that you have had so many wonderful years with your dad. Thanks for sharing...

jeff belonger

Dec 20, 2010 02:49 PM
Michael Bergin
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - ABR - SRES - Alexandria, VA
Northern Virginia Real Estate

Todd, this is a nice post. Thanks very much for sharing it with us. Best wishes for a Merry Christmas to you and your family. 

Dec 21, 2010 11:47 AM