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Getting To The Moment Of Truth With People

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

Moment Of TruthGetting to the "Moment of Truth" with people in life or in real estate is always an interesting crossroads. It is where the rubber meets the road. All the evidence is IN and it is time to pick a path.

With respect in this case with BUYERS it comes to QUALIFYING to go forward with purchasing a home. OR NOT. You can casually look at a few homes YOU THINK you qualify for but until you actually run all the numbers, interest rates, number of years on the mortgage, income, debt, alimony payments in some states? child support from that ex? Oh, a judgment in the past or foreclosure or bankruptcy. REALITY is tough to look at and you want to play HEAR NO EVIL.

There are answers however.

Just cause you hit the fork in the road, THE MOMENT OF TRUTH is squarely in your lap, does NOT mean you can't some day get a house. There is renting, lease to own programs of all sorts, credit repair, even a systematic plan to save more for a down payment. What about that inheritance influx of cash you will receive in the next six months?

Clients need to sit down with financial advisors, REALTORS, and loan officers and go through the options. A moment of truth is a CLEANSING in real estate and in life and helps you MOVE FORWARD with ALL you finally know. Fear not, as I said in an earlier blog post, the SKY IS NOT FALLING. Just get your hands uncupped off your ears. You don't need ear muffs. You are inside the house!!

Li Read
Sea to Sky Premier Properties (Salt Spring) - Salt Spring Island, BC
Caring expertise...knowledge for you!

Terrific advice!    Great post, Gary.

Jan 21, 2011 09:15 AM
San Antonio Texas New Homes for Sale
www.sanantoniotexasnewhomesforsale.com - San Antonio, TX
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Hill Country

Hi Gary,

 

    Yes,   The moment of Truth !!!    When reality needs to be addressed...... And helping people to own a home......Great post.

Jan 21, 2011 09:18 AM
Connie Goodrich
Keller Williams Realty - McKinney, TX
CRS ABR (McKinney Realtor)Texas

Get a plan of action to improve the hurdle you must jump as a buyer in order to make that home ownership dream come true.  It begins with a discussion with a good mortgage consultant and discovery of what needs to be done.  Great reminder to those seeking to purchase.

Jan 21, 2011 09:26 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Gary ~  Love this post -- you have given this harsh reality some pretty nice words -- leaning . . .

Jan 21, 2011 10:31 AM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

Gary, the ear muffs remind me of the movie Old School...Vince Vaughn tells his son EAR MUFFS each time the language got off color. Client really do have to look and listen in preparation for one of the biggest transactions they will under-take in their lives.

Jan 21, 2011 11:49 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Gary-Great post. The truth sometimes is hard to hear but it is necessary in life.

Jan 21, 2011 12:00 PM
Susan Goulding
Crown Key Realty, Inc; Tracy & Mountain House Sales and Property Management - Tracy, CA
Northern CA - Tracy & Mountain House Real Estate

oh my goodness you mean you are supposed to qualify for a loan?  Great advise.  Our Clients needs us to tell them the truth even if we know they won't like it.

Jan 21, 2011 12:59 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Gary,

I love your phrase: "Just get your hands uncuffed off your ears! " Great presentation and I love the photo!

Jan 21, 2011 01:07 PM
Kim Dean
www.GoSimplyTexas.com - McKinney, TX
Simply Texas Real Estate - Broker/Owner

Gary - I think that having a tough discussion up front about why the buyers don't qualify NOW and help them get a plan together for the FUTURE will really set you up as a CARING expert. Not just a "well...you don't qualify, so don't waste my time" attitude, rather a "I won't sell you something now...but I will later". Great reminder!

Jan 21, 2011 02:37 PM
'The Diamond Group' 'A Cut Above The Rest'
The Diamond Group @ Keller Williams - Lubbock, TX
Lubbock Texas Real Estate

Gary, good post and good advice.  Sometimes NO just means, not right now.

Jan 21, 2011 03:33 PM