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Letting them Go....and being Sad....but also Proud!!

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Mortgage and Lending with Senior Loan Officer at US Bank Home Mortgage NMLS # 273204

Letting them Go....and being Sad....but also Proud!!

 Today my daughter leaves to move to Ensenada, Mexico. She will be
working in an orphanage and a migrant worker camp and working with
Doctors from "Operation Smile" who volunteer to repair childhood facial
deformities. ( http://www.operationsmile.org/) I guess you would say she is doing "missionary work".

 

 She will be doing many things that she probably doesn't know about. I am
sad that she is leaving and worried about her safety. I am still her
Dad, her protector and I can't be there to help her and make sure she is
okay. Yes, she is 21, and just graduated from the University of Oregon,
(GO DUCKS!!!), but she is still my baby girl, my only girl and my
youngest child. And I am blubbering like a big baby right now.


 I am so proud of her.


She has such a big heart and wants to make a difference, maybe not in
the "World", but in just one human beings life. She already has, on a
trip to El Salvador to help a group of health professionals from Peace
Health, she worked mainly with a group of eye Doctors helping people see
and see again. You can read her blog about that at: Alyssa's Blog

She has worked during the summer in Mexico building homes and helping people who really needed it. SHe is a wonderful young woman, and I miss her already.

Writing this is helping me. It is helping me put things into perspective. My "loss" will be many people and children's gain. They will be blessed by her and she will be blessed by them. Thank you for putting up with me and letting me get this off of my heart. It does help!

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Jon, I have a nine year old boy...in 3rd grade...although I am nine years away...I fear that day...lol

Mar 18, 2011 05:51 AM
Jon Cagle
Senior Loan Officer at US Bank Home Mortgage - Eugene, OR
Lane County Oregon - Direct FHA, VA, USDA Lender

It comes all too quickly and nothing seems to prepare us for it!!

Mar 18, 2011 05:56 AM
Jill Kipnis
Move, Inc. - Westlake Village, CA

I've got a one-year-old, and I get misty-eyed just thinking about her leaving, however many years from now! I'm sure your daughter will succeed--no doubt because of the love and support of her father and family.

Mar 18, 2011 06:00 AM
Robert McArtor
RE/MAX Components - Fallston Maryland - Bel Air, MD
Top Listing Agent for Baltimore and Harford County

Great Post....I have to say though...reading the title I thought you were referring to Letting Go of OLD buyer leads....being sad you lost them.....but being happy because they had NO Money Down Anyway!!!

Mar 18, 2011 06:04 AM
Jon Cagle
Senior Loan Officer at US Bank Home Mortgage - Eugene, OR
Lane County Oregon - Direct FHA, VA, USDA Lender

Jill- thanks for you kind comment!

 

Robert-If I had buyer leads I would hold on to them until I could turn them into home owners!

Mar 18, 2011 06:21 AM
Kathy Akers, ABR CRB CRS GRI
Fathom Realty NC LLC - Rocky Mount, NC
Your Trusted Real Estate Advisor

I have a 20 y/o daughter still in college and I dread the day she graduates and moves away.  Now my son is a different story ;)

Mar 18, 2011 09:15 AM
CA COASTAL ESTATES Lauren Selinsky Perez CRS
California Coastal Estates - Aliso Viejo, CA
"Your Real Estate Broker" #oclauren

you should be proud! my son is 22 (0ne of them) and if he could just finish school... sounds like both your kids have together! lucky! and what an amazing heart and work ethic they have... very lucky to have them... their safety is always a concern of us parents... have them keep in touch on a weekly basis...

Mar 19, 2011 06:07 PM
Lee & Pamela St. Peter
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices YSU Realty: (919) 645-2522 - Raleigh, NC
Making Connections to Success in Real Estate

Jon, what a beautiful daughter you have!  It's no wonder you're proud, YOU SHOULD BE!  It's hard when they start to go off on their own...  I know...  But it's because of people like her that our world is a better place.  We'll keep her in our thoughts and prayers...  and YOU please keep us posted!
Pamela

Mar 27, 2011 03:04 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Jon, sounds like a wonderful experience for your daughter, but we WILL pray for her safety!

Apr 06, 2011 04:18 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

Wow, you should be proud, you have one amazing daughter who is willing to travel a very long distance to help others who are in need. Not many kids today would be willing to do that.

Apr 06, 2011 08:16 PM
Jon Cagle
Senior Loan Officer at US Bank Home Mortgage - Eugene, OR
Lane County Oregon - Direct FHA, VA, USDA Lender

Thank you for all your caring comments! She is doing very well and has many things to do everyday.

Apr 07, 2011 04:58 AM
Craig Snead
Quality Home Investments, LLC / Dearborn Heights, MI - Dearborn Heights, MI
Real Estate Investor

Jon, you should be PROUD. She is a product of her parents upbringing. You have raised her right and it shows. Caring for others and giving of yourself is priceless.

Apr 26, 2011 10:39 AM