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Being Bold By Dressing In Your Confidence Pants

By Gary Woltal

Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

September 25, 2011 08:00 AM

Bold Confidence Ask ANY woman in a bar setting what they find attractive in a man. Among the top three is ALWAYS: Confidence.

Especially in business we need to

Be Bold By Dressing In Our Confidence Pants.

We lack confidence sometimes due to being new at something and unsure of ourselves. Well get more practice and training but keep boosting that internal feeling of you got this down. If YOU don't believe in yourself and this is CRITICAL, no one else will. Braggarts are good at being confident. We can take a note from them. Fake it till you make it. Not being genuine, but just ACT as if you are already there. You will go far with confidence. Project as much as possible every day.

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Elizabeth Birmingham

EB Realty - Grand Junction, CO

I have my special hats. I always wear one to keep the sun off but some are luckier than others. I still have the hat I wore to my first over a million dollar sale. I wear it to all my million dollar closings. I am going to get new hat for my coming up mega sale. It will get worn over and over I hope.

Sep 25, 2011 08:06 AM

Tammy Lankford,

Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA

Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Yeah, it looks good on girls too. I wonder if men would ever give than answer in a bar?

Sep 25, 2011 08:17 AM

Gary Woltal

Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX

Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Elizabeth: May you keep wearing those million dollar hats. Looks good on you.

Tammy: I think men like a confident woman too, but women with the attractive man really desire that self-confidence and not the wishy washy limp handshake guy.

Sep 25, 2011 08:23 AM

Connie Harvey

Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN

Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Gary, when I train new agents I tell them that they have to fake it 'til they make it. People want to see confidence!

Sep 25, 2011 08:24 AM

William Feela

WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN

Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

If you don't have the confidence to do the job you will look wishy washy. You will then appear not to be capable to do the job.

Sep 25, 2011 08:26 AM

Sharon Lee

Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN

Retired and loving life

Is BIG boy or girl pants like confidence pants? You just have to be careful that you don't get TOO big for your britches or there may be a sweet lass ready to use a bat on you. LOL

Sep 25, 2011 08:28 AM

Connie Goodrich

Keller Williams Realty - McKinney, TX

CRS ABR (McKinney Realtor)Texas

It goes to mindset. You believe and others will as well. You go in with confidence and all can see and feel it. Experience helps us better present oneself. If you approach with hesitation then it drips off. Very nice post.

Sep 25, 2011 09:08 AM

Deb Brooks

Brooks Prime Properties Wichita Falls Texas - Wichita Falls, TX

Gary, may I wear a skirt and my big girl panties? LOL...confidence is imperative. Good post!

Sep 25, 2011 09:59 AM

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!

Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT

St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Gary, I can relate to being unsure through the learning process...did my first relocation transaction and got through it! Whew! Those confidence pants will go perfectly with my big girl panties!

Sep 25, 2011 11:49 AM

Wayne Johnson

Coldwell Banker D'Ann Harper REALTORS® - San Antonio, TX

San Antonio REALTOR, San Antonio Homes For Sale

Gary, Are those confidence pants the same as big boy pants? My wife doen't allow me to go to bars any more. Could one, perhaps, have too much confidence?

Sep 25, 2011 02:32 PM

Suzanne McLaughlin

Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN

Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

You nailed one of my favorite sayings...fake it til you make it. But, you have to really TRY to make it. Don't just fake it.....does that make sense?

Sep 25, 2011 02:40 PM

Sondra Meyer:

EXP Realty, LLC - Corpus Christi, TX

See It. Experience It. Live It.

Gary, these confidence pants remind me of how some of the younger (college aged) barrel racers like to brag that they are wearing their "big girl panties." One girl even had that written on her horse trailer in huge print. Barrel racing is very competitive and I guess that is their way of saying, I've got confidence.

Well, I just read some of your comments....I guess lots of people are opting for big girl panties. lol

Sep 25, 2011 03:56 PM

Eileen Hsu

Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Manhattan, NY

LICENSED REAL ESTATE SALESPERSON

Confidence is essential in our business. Although I am not sure if you ask the ladies in a bar they will say the same, depending on how many cosmo they have had already!

Sep 25, 2011 05:46 PM

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