When faced with a conflict between others, most of us are more inclined to walk away from the situation than to become involved. If we do allow ourselves to become a participant, it is usually by adopting the position of one at the expense of the other. Of course, such behavior does little to resolve the dispute and may in fact exacerbate the problem. But when you make a genuine attempt to help resolve the situation, you should not be surprised if you’re the only one. We are all complex individuals with feelings and emotions we often don’t fully understand. Sometimes the mere involvement of a disinterested party is enough to help resolve the dispute. Make sure, though, if you are the one in the middle that you don’t allow yourself to get into a position where you must choose between the desires of one person over the other. Work toward a compromise that best suits everyone’s interests.
RE/MAX Integrity - Eugene, OR
Principal Broker
Hi Rich, How true, and what a great stance to take in any situation. You will most often come out looking very professional.
Sep 26, 2011 03:20 AM
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired
Compromise is an easy concept to think about but sometimes very difficult to achieve. The more you practice the better you get! Enjoy your day!
Oct 04, 2011 12:47 AM
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