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"The Rocking Chair Test"

By
Real Estate Agent with Tierra Bella Realty

Rocking Chair TestWhen sickness strikes a member of the family, the real estate sole proprietor is all of a sudden faced with juggling two very important priorities:

     1.  Caring for the loved one in the hospital, and/or

     2.  Keeping the pipeline filled so you can pay for the upcoming hospital expenses.

In a perfect world, one can rely on the staff at the hospital.  But since we don't live in a perfect world, one has to focus on what's most important and urgent...especially if the doctors are moving too slowly, medications aren't transcripted correctly, and your loved one is receiving errant dosages.

That was the unwelcome choice this week. 

Focusing all my energy on my aged mother was the option chosen, so the only real-estate-related item that got "done" was a quick showing between hospital duties.  Everything else was either postponed or handed off.

But it was a fair trade.  The doctors moved faster, the medications were corrected, and the operation was a success.

What does any of this have to do with the Title of this blog? 

When I was in my 20's, a man told me to put everything through the, "Rocking Chair Test." 

"Make sure you always choose wisely," he said, "so that when you're in your rocking chair and looking back at your life, you'll be pleased with the paths you chose, and the choices you made."

I may have a lttle less money in a few months, but right now I still have my elderly mom, alive and well, and home from the hospital.

Choosing to care for her over a few missed opportunites, will surely pass, "The Rocking Chair Test."

 

 

Sidney Kutchuk - Realty Works Temecula Kutchuk - Realty Works Temecula
Realty Works Temecula - Temecula, CA
Realty Works Temecula

Tim:   So nice that you took the lead with the health care professionals!  I found the same thing when my father was sick.  Nobody takes care of family like family!

Jan 12, 2012 12:13 PM
Tim Lamson
Tierra Bella Realty - Phoenix, AZ
MBA

Hi Jane,

They don't have the same vested interest and concern, so it's understandable.  But the staff in those hospitals are only human, so I agree with you...Nobody takes car of family like family! 

Hope you have a successful 2012.

Jan 12, 2012 12:23 PM
Gayle Barton, Forsyth County Real Estate
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY Georgia Properties - Cumming, GA
Cumming GA Homes For Sale (404) 710-0204

Good post Tim.  I have never called "The Rocking Chair Test, but I talk to my son about using the "Will I feel bad about it tomorrow" test...

Jan 12, 2012 12:45 PM
Tim Lamson
Tierra Bella Realty - Phoenix, AZ
MBA

That's excellent, Gayle!  You must be a great, Mom.  I hope your son takes it to heart as matures....

Hope you have a successful 2012.

Jan 12, 2012 01:02 PM