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Snakes in the pool

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Cornerstone Business Group Inc 0225086119

OK, I have to admit that I married a nature weenie.  My wife was the farmer's daughter, but you would never know it.  She's not a big fan of the outdoors, critters, bugs, sweating, livestock, gardening and now snakes in the pool.  MySnakes in the pool son dropped by today to take a swim and was greeted by a snake hanging on to the skimmer opening.  Surprise!

I would agree that finding a snake in the pool with you would be a bit unnerving.  I had a water moccasin charge me while I was standing in a river fishing.  It did make me a bit uncomfortable, but I kept fishing.

Sometimes we find ourselves in situations where there are snakes in the pool.  It's a great listing with a great family and all of a sudden there are snakes in the pool.  The house doesn't sell quickly enough, and you're to blame.  The offers that come in are low-ball offers, and you're to blame.  There aren't enough showings, and you're to blame.  You find out that your clients are weeks from foreclosure, and you're to blame.

No matter how the snakes get in the pool of your life you need to get them out.  What can you do?  You can do what my wife did.  Scream!  When that doesn't produce the desired results you can do what she did next.  Find help.  You may have to call someone who can help, but find help.  It might be a Google search, book research, a webinar, advice from a broker or friend, etc.

Difficult clients, or difficult circumstances come into all of our lives. How we deal with them will determine how long they last and how much they impact our lives.  In the above illustration, information is power.  That goes both ways.  You need for the clients to be straight with you about the reasons they are trying to sell, and you need to be honest with them about what it will take to sell their house.  It's wise to be tactful, but it's necessary to be honest.

It might mean cleaning things up.  It might mean doing a little landscaping.  It might mean reducing expectations on price.  It might mean making the house easier to show.  The sellers need to be partners in the deal from the time the listing is signed all the way through the closing.  Snakes in the pool are pretty rare around our house, but when the cry for help goes out it doesn't take long to get rid of them. 

Comments(20)

Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Hello Mike,

I have run across a few snakes in the grass...but a snake in the pool, that's a little much!  Great analogy, you always have excellent messages woven into your posts.

Aug 13, 2012 07:12 AM
Connie Harvey
Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN
Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Mike, there was a snake on the road when we were running yesterday. Snakes in a listing is a whole other animal. We are always to blame. Doesn't matter what it is.

Aug 13, 2012 07:20 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Thanks, Lisa.  I think I heard my wife scream from my office.  I'm 9 miles away.  8-)

Too often, Connie.  Keep that running up!  Good show.

Aug 13, 2012 07:59 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Mike, If that is a picture of the snake, not one you want to mess with.  And listings with snakes, not fun, but like you said you've got to deal with them.  No fun getting bit.

Aug 13, 2012 09:41 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Bliz, I've been fortunate that I haven't had to battle any on listings.  So far, anyway.

Aug 13, 2012 10:13 AM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Mike...

Nice analogy, but for a snake lover like me, I would rather deal with a snake in the pool than a lot of other things that can come up!

Aug 13, 2012 12:42 PM
Andrea Bedard
Thompson Company, REALTORS® 240.593.2860 - Silver Spring, MD
Fluent in Real Estate & German, M.A. ABR ASP CIPS

Hi Mike, I would have done the same thing Buffy did ... scream! I found a snake in my basement a couple of weeks after Jody deployed. I screamed but nobody heard me, so I ran to a neighbors house for help. thank goodness he was home... Some things are better left for others to deal with!

Aug 13, 2012 01:01 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

I had a boa when I was a teenager.  I named it Rainboa.  I know many don't think they have personalities, but Rainboa definitely had a definite personality.  

Andrea, she nearly did it again when I got home and the snake was no longer in the pool and we didn't know where he went.  8=)

Aug 13, 2012 01:05 PM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Mike, No ddoubt we have all encountered some snakes in our pools or in life.  I think we all know that snakes are scary looking and very threatening but the reality is that most when handled correctly are like putty in your hands.  Just watch out for the venomous ones..I'm talking people here..

Aug 13, 2012 01:20 PM
David Shamansky
US Mortgages - David Shamansky - Highlands Ranch, CO
Creative, Aggressive & 560 FICO - OK, Colorado Mtg

You can treat your profession as a true professional or as a job you are getting yourself through. How you treat others, customers, clients, co workers, vendors etc as well as do you spend time learning and improving yourself is likely a reflection on how you view your job a profession.

Aug 13, 2012 03:24 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Feel weird. It is a real eastate post with some snake presence, and snake presence makes it sort of dangerous.

Aug 13, 2012 04:02 PM
Conrad Allen
Re/Max Professional Associates - Webster, MA
Webster, Ma, Realtor

Hi Mike.  You kept fishing when a water moccasin charged you?  Wow that's being committed.

Aug 13, 2012 08:10 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Mike I hate snakes I know they have their place in the world but not at my house or anywhere around it.  Want the wife to move leave the door open and let a snake get it.  Instant listing

Aug 13, 2012 08:26 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Quite a few of those around, John.  8=)

Well said, David.

Jon, that fellow in the pool sure surprised my son and his roommate.  Yeow!

Conrad, he couldn't overcome the current after a while.  So, I went back to what I was doing.  It did make me extra aware.

That nearly happened here yesterday.

 

Aug 13, 2012 09:20 PM
Kristen Wheatley
Better Homes & Gardens | The Masiello Group - Brunswick, ME
Supporting Success - Best Job in the World!

Great analogy Mike!  Not many snakes around here, but I'm sure we could come up with something...maybe a lobster?  Wait, that doesn't work since we'd just boil the sucker and eat him.

When I was a child, my parents took us to look at homes in Florida.  One had an alligator in the pool!

Aug 14, 2012 12:46 AM
Kathryn Maguire
GreatNorfolkHomes.com (757) 560-0881 - Chesapeake, VA
Serving Chesapeake, Norfolk, VA Beach

I loved this post because it has such a great message about dealing with your snakes.  But that photo gives me the willies!  The head of that snake makes me think it is poisonous.  Yikes!

Aug 14, 2012 03:17 AM
Jennifer Chiongbian
Specializing in all types of Manhattan apts & townhouses - Manhattan, NY
Real Estate Broker - NYC

I am right there with your wife on screaming at the top of my lungs.  But you are right about getting rid of all those "snakes in the pool".  We all know we have been around a few pool swimming around with them...

Aug 14, 2012 05:41 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Now that would be a surprise, Kristen.  Yikes!

It game my wife the willies too, Kathryn.  She's still nervous.  8-)

Yes we have, Jennifer.  Too many of them, actually.  

Aug 14, 2012 09:35 AM
Jim Patton
Aspire Home Real Estate 209-404-0816 - Modesto, CA
Realtor - Stanislaus ,Merced, San Joaquin Counties

Great analogy Mike.  You never know when a "snake" might pop up in this business.   We just have to learn to deal with it and move on.

Aug 14, 2012 10:39 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

I've heard banging them on the head with a shovel does wonders.  

Aug 14, 2012 10:41 AM