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Lessons from Paris

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Charlemagne International Properties BRE# 01147470

When I travel I do my best to be less of a tourist and more of an observer of local culture and trends. It is my goal to observe everything and absorb and incorporate the best into my life.

I recently returned from a trip to France (Paris and Nice) with a side trip to Switzerland (Geneva, Bern and Lucerne). I must admit I did the touristy things too. Yes, I bought perfume in France and a watch in Switzerland, but I also observed the air and city streets of my foreign destinations were cleaner than my American counterparts. Individuals sweeping the streets were observed as well as motorized street sweepers. Their automobiles are smaller, their mass transportation efficient and amazing. However, they are not without their rush hour traffic–when entering the rotary by the Arc de Triomphe the technique appeared to be utter a quick prayer and step on the gas. The locals are thinner, and judging by the number of people walking and riding bicycles they are more active than most Americans, and also more fit.

The food is delicious but the portions are small. No super-sizing was observed. Fresh fruit and vegetable stands are peppered throughout the neighborhoods. Soft drinks are available but certainly not the drink of choice. Yes, the French love their cigarettes, espresso coffee and wine with dinner (and lunch too from what I observed), but, from my limited observation, they stop at one glass and desserts are often shared if indulged in at all. Dining is about not only the food but conversation. I can’t tell you the number of people I observed stretching a plat du jour into a two-hour dining experience.

Travel is a wonderful way to hone your humanity skills. It expands our experiences, educates and allows us to observe life from another perspective. If we travel with open eyes and hearts we can move closer to being less creatures of our own small habits and routines and embrace the best from another culture. We can be inspired by what we see and move closer to being the best person we can be, and that is good for the global community as well as the individual.

Comments(10)

Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Good morning, Norma -- it sounds as if you had a wonderful trip.  Although there are some "touristy" things we "should" see/do, we can learn so many by getting off the beaten, well-worn path and observe.  Your observations relay so much information far more than any guidebook.  Nicely told.  

Oct 22, 2012 02:34 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
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Michael - It was a lovely trip and well worth the time and cost.

Oct 22, 2012 03:32 AM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

There is nothing like those outdoor cafes in Paris.  And that bread.....

Oct 22, 2012 06:20 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Norma,

I love Paris, and the last time we were there it was the three of us.  Ron, my mother, and myself.  My mother who was French kept threatening to move to Paris, so we looked at places for her to buy, but in the end she knew she had become an American with French tastes.  Ron and I had Patricia Wells guide  to Paris which has every interesting restaurant, bakery, hardware store, etc in it, and for 7 days we went every morning to a different croissant place...then on to Nice for a wedding.  A

Oct 22, 2012 07:50 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Norma- I love to do the tourist things but I always want to really "see" the city or town as the residents see it.  And I really enjoy learning how others do things, what they eat, etc.  

 

Oct 22, 2012 02:05 PM
Karen Crowson
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Rancho Bernardo, CA
Your Agent for Change
I've never been there, but would certainly like to go someday. I've made similar observatations about Americans and food. What a great vacation.
Oct 22, 2012 11:13 PM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
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Jane - Yes, a cafe on every corner--the French know how to enjoy life--and break bread with good friends and family!

Oct 22, 2012 11:36 PM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
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Alexandra -  I must admit I stopped to gaze at real estate ads as I meandered along the streets of Paris.  I spent a few days in Nice as well.

Oct 22, 2012 11:38 PM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
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Kathy - I tried to spend time each day observing the locals--what they eat, wear etc.  It was fun being part of their cafe society if only for a week.

Oct 22, 2012 11:40 PM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
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Karen - I decided the French eat whatever they want, just not as much as they might want to eat.

Oct 22, 2012 11:41 PM