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“To All the Kids Who Were Born in the 1930’s – 70’s”

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Mortgage and Lending with A&M Mortgage Group 214765

"To All the 'Kids' Born in the 1930's – 70's"

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes. Then after that trauma, our baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based paints. We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking. As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or airbags. Riding in the back of a pickup on a warm day was always a special treat. We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle. We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this. We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank soda pop with sugar in it, but we weren't overweight because..... we were always outside playing! We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all day because we didn’t have cell phones! And we were O.K. We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem. We did not have Playstations, Nintendos, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms..........WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them! We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents. We ate worms (I didn’t) and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever. We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes. We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them! Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that! The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law! This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever!

The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL! And YOU are one of them! CONGRATULATIONS!

You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good. And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.

I read this somewhere a while back and felt compelled to share!

All good wishes,

Larry Penilla

Larry@LarryPenilla.com

www.LarryPenilla.com

JDo Doe
Barrington, RI

Here here - high five to Larry for posting this rant or rave, not sure, I guess a bit of both.

My mom could beat me silly (exageration, for effect) in the store and some people might even come over to hold me down and help her out - now, you discipline your child in public you have to worry about your kid calling the cops on you using the cell phone you gave him for his 6th birthday!

Anyways, great thoughts and I was born in '74 so I'm still young by many comparisons but my son's world is going to be much different than mine...heck, mine is way different that what is was in the early 90's.

 

Mar 05, 2008 07:25 AM
Matt Yogerst
RE/MAX Realty 100 - Menomonee Falls, WI
Metro Milwaukee Real Estate

There is also the flip side to that... Along with all those good people came all the bad people out there today. Either being raised in the same environment, or were raised by those people. Society forgets that it is those same 'great' people that have made the country into what it is today. These people have neglected their responsibility to their children emotionally, physically (no discipline), and socially (put job first).

I don't mean to be negative, because I do believe there are many GREAT people that came out of that era. But that is mostly because of their PARENTS and the GREAT job they did as parents!

Mar 05, 2008 07:46 AM
A&M Mortgage Group: Larry Penilla
A&M Mortgage Group - Merrillville, IN
Northwest Indiana Mortgages - Home Loans

Matt,

IMHO, Parents get too much of the blame and sometimes too much credit. I love to hear someone give credit when and where it's due. Like when a superstar athelete gives thanks to his single parent poverty stricken, hard working parent. However, we are all ultimately responsible for our own characters, aren't we?

Nathan,

So true - I felt your pain (literally), yet my kids have not. Not sure which is right or wrong, but hitting my kids never felt right, even though I had my share...

Anyway, thank you both for sharing. 

LP

Mar 05, 2008 08:04 AM