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Stop Measuring ROI and Start Measuring Relationships

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Services for Real Estate Pros with The Silent Partner Marketing

The Silent Partner Marketing stresses that social media is about nurturing relationships.I'm going to start this conversation by saying what every marketer wants to tell you, and most don't have the huevos to.  ROI?  Get.  Over.  It.

Now that I've made a few enemies with that last line, allow me to explain.

Your parents.  Your grandparents.  Your aunts and uncles.  If they knew how you were calculating ROI to make business decisions, they'd be incredibly disappointed in you.

If you're one of those business decision makers who has decided to NOT jump into the world of social media because you can't figure out the exact ROI of it, then you have missed the crucial lesson of growing up.

Your upbringing was everything.  The way you were nurtured and taken care of.  Your family spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on you in money and support.  So...what was the ROI?

Can you put a dollar amount of it?

In many regards, the same can be said for social media. I'm not talking about the ROI of your advertising spend.  I'm talking about everything ELSE.

We're constantly having this conversation with clients and prospects.  Everyone want's to know, "what is my ROI going to be if I DO (insert social media outlet here)".

But let me tell you something outright.  Social media isn't about selling.  It's just not.  It's about building and nurturing relationships - much like your family did for you when you were growing up.  And the value of THAT is priceless.

Here's the incredible irony of the conversations about ROI that we have with many business owners.  They'll spend millions of dollars a year on traditional advertising (television, radio and newspaper) where they can't track the ROI.  But that's because they KNOW traditional advertising.  They get it.  They understand it.  Social media?  It's outside their comfort zone.  And so they'll continue to dump millions of dollars into something they know even if they can't calculate an ROI.  Why?  Because it's comfortable.

I don't know about you, but here's where I'm comfortable.  When I walk into the bank and I see a positive balance...because when it came to advertising, I forced myself outside of my comfort zone.

So here's what you need to start doing as a business leader in regards to social media ROI.

1.  Stop talking to people.

That's right - stop talking to people.  Social media isn't about you, as a business, talking to people.  It's about you having conversations WITH them.  Want to know why nobody is answering the questions you're posting on Facebook?  Because nobody CARES.  It's NOT about you.  It's about THEM.  Show ME value.  Answer MY questions.  Provide ME with an experience.

2.  Start tracking and measuring social media ENGAGEMENT.

I could care less how many Facebook or Instagram followers you have.  Because if we were going to play that game of "you show me yours and I'll show you mine", then I could go BUY more followers.  But that does nobody any good, except the company selling false hope and fake followers.  Show me ENGAGEMENT.  Show me CONVERSATIONS.  Big numbers are only as good as the conversions that they lead to.

3.  Be where your customers are.

You don't like Twitter?  Think your customers aren't on Instagram or Pinterest?  Guess what?  You're wrong.  Want to start growing your business?  Get out of your own way.  Want to know where to spend money on advertising?  How about looking at the platforms that allow you a hyper-targeted way of connecting with consumers?

4.  Speak to your customers on social media in the native language of the platform they are on.

Are you speaking the same language when you go from Pinterest to Facebook to Twitter to Instagram to Google+?  Then you might as well be speaking a foreign language.  Trying to talk to people the same way on Facebook and on Twitter is like walking into a biker bar with a bowtie.  Don't be THAT GUY.  More on this in a future blog - so make sure to keep following.

5.  Engage.  Converse.  Repeat.

Imagine the customer who has a bad experience with your business, writes about it on social media, and then shares it with all of their friends.  What is the lost opportunity cost of this for you?  Now imagine responding to it, eating your humble pie, and having that customer come back in again and again and again and tell all of their friends about it?  What's the ROI on THAT?  I'd argue it's priceless.  And yet so many "highly educated leaders" will demand that you demonstrate the numbers.  I'll tell you what.  While you work on the number crunching trying to figure out what relationships are worth, I'll be working on making another business money by helping them nurture those relationships.

6.  Remember - nobody cares about your business.

They don't.  Do you think someone is going to shop with YOU instead of your competition ONLY because you have been in business for 100 years?  Nope.  People don't give a damn about how long you've been around if you can't get them the product they are looking for in the way that they want it.  Nurture relationships by making it all about the consumer.  THEN your unique selling proposition about how long you've been around or how good you are to people comes into play.

7.  Monitor your competition on social media.

Have you set up a thorough process to track what your competition is doing on Facebook and other forms of social media?  NO?  How are you not watching this right now?  Oh, is it because you can't measure the ROI of social media management?  Get over it.  Because guess what?  Your competition is watching YOU and STEALING YOUR CUSTOMERS while you sit around and drink your green tea latte in a peaceful world of ignorant bliss.

8.  Start creating sales funnels through custom landing pages.

If you are doing ANY kind of advertising - traditional or digital - and you DON'T have custom landing pages, then you are failing yourself.  The ability to track and measure is only as good as the value and experience you're able to provide to your consumer.

9.  Start using Facebook Dark Posts.

Actually, DON'T start using Facebook Dark Posts.  As a matter of fact, don't even ask what they are.  Because it's a tool that we've been using for months to more than double and in some cases quadruple the conversion rates of Facebook advertising for our clients.  It's the same reason why we've seen some clients increase their social media spend tenfold while all but dropping out of traditional advertising.  So do me a favor.  DON'T start doing this - because it's the best sales tool we've seen in YEARS and I want to keep it for our clients.  :)

10.  Start having fun.

99% of you take advertising FAR too seriously, which is probably why you're reading this article.  If you want me, as a consumer, to want to do business with you - you'd better make it fun.  Don't constantly republish reviews of your business on social media.  NOBODY CARES.  Don't push your product on Facebook.  Nobody cares.  Share with me content that I'll want to share with my friends.  

There's a LOT of noise out there on social media.  If you want your voice to be heard and your message to be received, you'd better make sure that people are first paying attention.  Be where your consumers are.  Start nurturing relationships.  Track and measure the ROI of advertising - and if you're going to moan and complain about the ROI of social media to me, you'd better be able to first show - in detail - the ROI of EVERY penny you've spent on traditional advertising.

Remember - social media is about relationships.  Start being a little better about having them.

If you found this blog to be helpful or eye-opening, please make sure to share it.  Sometimes we could all use a little wake up call!

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Kyle Reyes is the President and Creative Director of The Silent Partner Marketing, a boutique marketing firm focused on helping businesses grow in an age of exploding technology.
 
Reyes is an acclaimed Keynote Speaker on entrepreneurship, leadership, marketing and social media.
 
The CEO is a former Producer of News and Special Projects, having worked in broadcast journalism for nearly a decade.  His team offers a marketing one-stop-shop, filling the role of a Chief Marketing Officer and support staff at a fraction of the cost of having to worry about the payroll, taxes, benefits, etc.
 
Reyes has appeared in multiple media outlets including Aol.Com, Yahoo and Bloomberg Business. 
 
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Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Barbara Todaro you are the best.  Thanks for your kind words.  :)

Patricia Feager, MBA, GRI, Cert Negotiations Expert, Military Relo Prof thanks so much - my pleasure :)

Raymond E. Camp that's great advice and it will never fail you!

Nov 08, 2014 10:07 PM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Thanks so much, Bobbie Smith - sometimes we all need a kick in the butt!

Debbie Gartner always happy to look at your experiments and offer thoughts!

Nov 08, 2014 10:08 PM
Ann Marie Clements
Remax Realty Group - Gaithersburg, MD
Montgomery County & Frederick County

Kyle Reyes Agreed! Have fun!

Nov 08, 2014 10:09 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Nov 08, 2014 10:12 PM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

I'm literally dying laughing right now, Roger D. Mucci 

Nov 08, 2014 10:14 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Rainbow Rulers!  What else..................

Nov 08, 2014 10:18 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Roger is a riot!

"Don't be that guy".  Great advice!

Excellent post, I hope it gets featured!

Nov 08, 2014 10:30 PM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Top of the morning Lone Wolf.  As always an excellent post and thought provoking.  6 to 8 years ago, I believe,  the traditional engagement, one on one, customer service was forced to come back into the market place.  A benefit to all, except those who refuse to listen and learn.  Mark

Nov 09, 2014 12:06 AM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Thanks, Sharon Tara  - I agree with both of your points :)

Thanks, Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint - we need to continue to listen to our customers and be where they are!

Nov 09, 2014 12:28 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

If we are going to measure something - then let it be colorful.  Leave it to Roger D. Mucci to bring the colorful fun.  Where are the yardsticks?

As for having fun. Sign me up for that. If I have to WORK then I want to have FUN while I work. 

Nov 09, 2014 01:11 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I have always tried to build relationships, rather than concentrating on ROI and it seems to be working.  I figure that the more relationships that I can build, the more business will come my way.

Nov 09, 2014 03:13 AM
Andy Brown-Climer School of Real Estate
The Climer School of Real Estate - Orlando, FL
The Best Real Estate School in Florida

Well written. 

 

A relationship that begins with a check, ends

 

Andy Brown

Nov 09, 2014 04:59 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Kyle an interesting take many of your points are spot on and anyone with half a brain will agree you are giving great advice,Endre

Nov 09, 2014 02:20 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Kyle. It is easy to get lost using social media and stop speaking to your clients. I get lost from time to time and they wake up quickly, as there is nothing like actually having a one on one conversation.

Make it a great week!

Nov 09, 2014 06:48 PM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Kyle, many of my friends and past clients aren't really active on social media. Our kids are and that's what brought us to this venue to begin with. We engage with them but not much else. I don't want to come off as salesy with friends so I rarely post anything real estate related there.

Nov 10, 2014 02:12 AM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Kathleen Daniels the man leaves me without words, hahaha.  Agreed!

Brian England that's what it's all about, baby!

Andy Brown-Climer School of Real Estate - thanks so much...agreed!

Nov 10, 2014 10:01 AM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Endre Barath, Jr. thanks so much brother!

Joe Petrowsky you've got me to kick your butt.

Tammie White I agree it shouldn't be salesy...even on a business page!  That doesn't nurture anything!

Nov 10, 2014 10:02 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Kyle, 

Your comments on ROI hit home hard.  I don't do that on social media but I do it for everything else.  I am going to re-evalute the ROI on other advertising costs as well.   Thanks!

Nov 14, 2014 01:21 AM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Thanks Sheri Sperry keep following for more - and reach out if you ever need to pick someone's brain!

Nov 15, 2014 03:57 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

I wrote a post awhile back... What's Your Mother's ROI? 

Our Moms knew a little something about nurturing ;-)

Nov 18, 2014 03:55 PM