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Do You Have A Sabbath Rest?

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308

Do You Have A Sabbath Rest?

 This year, the real estate market is poised to sell as many homes as way back in 2007, so more than ever it is important to consider - do you have a Sabbath rest? As far back as the book of Genesis, there was a proclaimed day of rest for God's people when God Himself rested the Seventh Day. Don't you think you need one too?

We have a couple of real estate friends whose voice messages alert callers that on Sunday, they will call them on Monday. Last year I worked with one of them on a sale, and we spoke on Sunday, so it's not that they won't take care of urgent matters, but for the general caller, this is one day out of their very busy real estate world that they are taking a break.

We all need a rest. Have you ever been burned out - are you burned out now? A wise person once said that if we don't have our health, we don't have anything. If you don't take a break, burnout will soon follow and guess what happens? You are less efficient, more irritable, and stress can take a toll on your mind, body and soul.

Here's how I do my Sabbath rest many weeks - it loosely follows the Jewish Sabbath, except theirs starts on Friday at sundown and mine starts on Saturday and often before sundown. If there is real estate business, I try to wrap it up by mid afternoon to early evening on Saturday and then put away the technology (except important calls) for the rest of the day and spend time with family and friends. Sunday morning is church, lunch and then enjoy the day. If there are active transactions, they are handled and then Sunday evening is time to look at the week's calendar and make Monday's To Do list. 

Do I break my own rule? Of course. There are times when relocating Buyers demand my weekend time, and when work spills into Saturday evening or Sunday after church, but then I try to grab some time during the week to call my own. Jesus healed on the Sabbath, recognizing that sometimes we have to help people in need even during our resting time.

If you're new to real estate and really gung ho, then you may be burning the candle at both ends. Stop it before you flame out - give yourself a regular break and partying at night doesn't count. If you're a seasoned pro like we are, take care of yourself for the long haul - your family, friends and clients will thank you. 

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About the Author: Sharon Alters works with her husband, Frank. They are in the top 5% real estate agents for production in the Jacksonville Florida area, specializing in Military and Corporate Relocation in the Fleming Island, Orange Park, St. Johns, St. Augustine and Beaches areas. Their local knowledge can help Relocating Buyers find the perfect lifestyle, whether it is a Castle on the Ocean, or a Cottage in the Country. 

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Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Sharon - I follow the same rule.  Sunday is church, family, visit, or go out to eat.

Apr 27, 2015 12:52 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Grant Schneider, it's what we aim for. Sometimes after church we have to dash to an out of town buyer. 

Apr 27, 2015 12:58 PM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

I do showings on Sunday's if I really need to, but I prefer to do contracts on a weekday or sat.  

Apr 27, 2015 01:10 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

William Feela, that is a good plan. 

Apr 27, 2015 01:19 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

I've been planning to do this for over 20 years, but so far have not succeeded. I think I need to try harder.

Apr 27, 2015 09:34 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Taking time off is essential.  I took Sunday afternoon/evening to spend with my husband, but paid dearly for shutting off the phone.  The attitude on folks who didn't hear from me that day was nuts.  

Apr 28, 2015 01:10 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

I agree with you: family and you should be first. One just need to decide for herself, what and who is the most important.

Apr 30, 2015 04:56 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Nina Hollander I find it is best to break it up into two half days and I am more likely to have a true rest. 

Apr 30, 2015 11:12 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Chris Ann Cleland yes, part of that is setting expectations with folks and maybe having the voice mail to remind them.

Apr 30, 2015 11:13 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Inna Ivchenko you are right. Setting boundaries is crucial to long term in real estate.

Apr 30, 2015 11:13 PM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Interesting post and VB tries to make everyday a Sabbath Day ;o)

Apr 30, 2015 11:27 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Sharon. I am successful 90% of the time, as time with family is so so important. Great job with your post!

May 06, 2015 06:03 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Robert (Vegas Bob) Swetz now I would like to know how you do that!

 

May 13, 2015 09:39 AM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Joe Petrowsky that is good to hear. You are so organized, I would expect that you would have that planned in and yes, it is so important.

May 13, 2015 09:40 AM
Bruce Walter
Keller Williams Realty Lafayette/West Lafayette, Indiana - West Lafayette, IN

Sharon, this is a great post and we are not meant to live stress filled lives-so a day's rest is critical.  I am being more respectful of purchasing things in the marketplace or restaurants on Sundays so others aren't forced to be away from their families.

May 16, 2015 04:26 AM
Eric Sztanyo
Keller Williams Advisors Realty - Cincinnati, OH
Cincinnati & NKY Realtor® | TeamSztanyo.com

I've been taking a sabbath for over 12 years now. However, I am getting a LOT of relocating clients due to my YouTube channel. I'm trying to figure out how to make this work. The current plan is to hire great buyers agents to expand the team, but I feel like I need a better system in place to protect this needed day. 

Apr 17, 2022 05:02 AM