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If You are Choking, Swallow…...

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

Often when we are in the midst of chaos, we lose sight of the simple because we become emotionally involved. This happens a lot when you forget to focus and think about what it is you are trying to accomplish. Professional people need to remember their end game,  stay calm and if they are choking: remember to swallow.

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

And breathe.......we had  a scare yesterday with Barney not breathing right. Thankfully we figure it out quickly for the little guy.

Jan 26, 2016 12:39 AM
Andrea Bedard
Thompson Company, REALTORS® 240.593.2860 - Silver Spring, MD
Fluent in Real Estate & German, M.A. ABR ASP CIPS

That's a good one Sheila. I learned a great grounding technique that helps when walking away to have a quiet moment is not an option. I carry a little rock in my pocket (a ring, bracelet etc. works, too)... just feel it, focus on it and breathe. It forces your mind down a different path, away from whatever just made you choke.

Jan 26, 2016 12:50 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Sheila, "stay calm",  that is good advice under any circomstance.  Have a great day.

Jan 26, 2016 01:09 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Oh no Anna. I'm glad Barney is OK.     Sheila

Jan 26, 2016 01:30 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

That's good too Andrea. Thank you.     Sheila

Jan 26, 2016 01:30 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you George. You too.      Sheila

Jan 26, 2016 01:31 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sheila,

What a helpful message.  Happy Tuesday, A

Jan 26, 2016 01:48 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Alexandra.       Sheila

Jan 26, 2016 02:03 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Sheila - that is a good comparison.  You can choke on details when you don't look at the end game.

Jan 26, 2016 02:43 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Grant. I'm glad you took my point.    Sheila

Jan 26, 2016 02:49 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

That is good advice my friend, choking is not a good thing and can certainly be avoided.

Jan 26, 2016 02:52 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks Brian.     Sheila

Jan 26, 2016 02:53 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

That is truely a fine insight when it comes to focus Sheila Anderson  

Jan 26, 2016 05:12 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Paul.     Sheila

Jan 26, 2016 05:22 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Sometimes we need to get out of our own way.  Definitely relinquishing ownership of problems that aren't ours is key as well.

Jan 26, 2016 11:38 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi again Chris Ann. Exactly right. TY    Sheila

Jan 26, 2016 08:56 PM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Good Thursday morning Sheila Anderson -

Absolutely spot on with this one and love the fact the analysis can fit almost any situation.

Jan 27, 2016 08:56 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you John. I appreciate your support.     Sheila

Jan 27, 2016 10:19 PM