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Seek first to understand, then to be understood.

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

Seek first to understand, then to be understood.

 

The quote: 'Seek first to understand, then to be understood.' by Stephen Covey comes to mind when I think of the discord between people anymore.

 

Too many people today are so rigid in their thought processes that they refuse bending to outside opinions.  Despite that, they still wish to be heard and validated.

 

Sitting back and observing online behaviors on social media sites allows me to quietly make an exit if I lack anything constructive to add.

 

Believe me, some days, I'd like to strike out!

 

AR has maintained a respectful stance and most members can have conversations without all out ranting and raving at one another. Don't get me wrong, it does happen but infrequently, thankfully!

 

We are all built differently, think independently and maintain separate beliefs. Giving someone a sincere chance to explain a point or express a thought is necessary for a continued respectful relationship. 

 

Your thoughts?

 

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Buying or selling a home in southern Utah? Call me at 435.632.9374 or contact me at wanda@buynsellutah.com to help because Wanda Can!

 

 

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Harry F. D'Elia III
WEDO Real Estate and Beyond, LLC - Phoenix, AZ
Investor , Mentor, GRI, Radio, CIPS, REOs, ABR

This is excellent advice that most agents should practice in their business

Jun 03, 2017 07:22 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Especially agent-to-agent communications Harry F. D'Elia

Jun 03, 2017 08:07 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

My thoughts?  I agree with you. While I do disagree with many ... I respect their right to a different opinion.  It is not in my nature to "argue" my point ... publicly. I will banter with a friend ... that I know and trust.  

Jun 03, 2017 08:17 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Wanda,  I always love your blogs because they make sense.  Hope you get out on the golf course later.

 

Jun 03, 2017 09:32 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Wanda,

Good reminder, it is so funny how many don't follow that concept!  Enjoy your Saturday.  A

Jun 03, 2017 10:29 AM
Mick Michaud
Distinctly Texas Lifestyle Properties, LLC Office:682/498-3107 - Granbury, TX
Your Texas Lifestyle is Here!

Know your audience and how appropriate your comments are to it.  To inject political or other extranious elements to a conversation that is not about such topics is only asking for trouble and alienation. 

Jun 03, 2017 10:40 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Wanda I stay out of those crazy conversations anywhere. Who needs that ridiculousness. I'd rather have a sit down coffee shop talk with you anyday!!

Jun 03, 2017 01:55 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Good morning Wanda.  I listen respectfully even though I may disagree with the statements made by others. What really ticks me off ,is when I make a statement or write my opinion I get attacked. Sad to say, it has happened to me here in the Rain

Jun 04, 2017 02:27 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Wanda. I think this is marvelous and absolutely on the money. Have a great day.

Jun 04, 2017 07:53 AM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Great advice Wanda and featured to the group:

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Jun 04, 2017 11:04 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Yes, we can all agree to disagree respectfully Kathleen Daniels. There is value in dabating and expressing a differing opinion but we must be careful of the audience!

Jun 04, 2017 03:34 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thanks Will Hamm, glad you enjoyed the message. We did mamge to get out yesterday, tomorrow post will talk about that! Did you golf over the weekend?

Jun 04, 2017 04:38 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

All it takes is a level of respect for the other party. Too many people only want to be heard rather than listening. Happy Sunday Ron and Alexandra Seigel

Jun 04, 2017 04:40 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Mick Michaud, As a young person I learned quick to avoid conversations in public settings, even at BBQs at a friend's house about religion, sports or politics. Emotions come into play and then it can get pretty ugly! I have seen it break a few relationships lately.

Jun 04, 2017 04:45 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Anna Banana Kruchten, CRS, Like my mom used to say, "I ain't got time for none of that!"

I truly enjoyed our time together and would love to do it again. Your positivity is absolutely contagious and much appreciated!

Jun 04, 2017 04:47 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Unfortunately the person who refuses to acknowledge there is more than one side to a situation, will bulldog their way through others James Dray. I refuse to empower them!

Jun 04, 2017 04:50 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thank you Sheila Anderson. I showed houses all day yesterday and then went on a date with my husband so am answering comments today. Glad you enjoyed this message and hope you have had a wonderful weekend !

Jun 04, 2017 04:54 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thank you very much Robert Vegas Bob Swetz for the feature in FRIENDS AT ACTIVERAIN, it is so appreciated!

Jun 04, 2017 04:55 PM