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Are You a Contrarian? Bring it on...Politely!

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Real Estate Agent with Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 228209

Are You a Contrarian? Bring it on...politely!

Contrarian Points of View - Good for Our Industry, if Done so Appropriately

Debate - healthyWeltanschauung - A Comprehensive conception or apprehension of the world, especially from a specific standpoint.

Let's talk about ActiveRain's Weltanschauung #7:  

  • We encourage dissenting and contrarian points of view because our industry is better served by continually examining the status quo. Challenging conventional wisdom is often essential for the evolution of our industry and the development of new opportunities.

 


 

 

Differing opinions are, indeed, what make the world go 'round.  Examining all points of view is always the best practice; if we open our minds to others' positions on specific topics, our businesses reap the benefits of that open-mindedness - and this applies to our personal lives as well.  

Differing OpinionsIn a debate with another agent about her position on setting a list price below $500K to list at $499,900 (on a home valued at $500K), this discussion ensued.  "Have you considered that you may be eliminating a pool of buyers searching in the $500,000 - $600,000 range?"  She could not understand what on earth I meant by that - and she continued to insist that "Buyers love 'discounted' prices!"  Okay, I get your point also but, closely observe the searches that you set up for your buyers in the next few days; pay special attention to the price increments you set.

My point was that if buyers are searching in a very specific price range ($500K - $600K), you WILL miss anything priced under $500K and over $600K.  

 

After realizing that home searches, targeting specific price ranges really would have impacted buyers' search parameters had she listed the home at the 'discount price,'  she decided to try this new pricing strategy and the home immediately sold.  After all was said and Closing was done, the agent asked how these buyers found this house and the conversation led to their price range - intentionally, I'm sure! The buyers said that they had been looking in the $500K - $550K price range and were thrilled to find exactly what they were looking for - and at the very bottom of their range ($500K), allowing them to further improve the home with the money they saved. Another good point:  Had the property been listed at the originally suggested price, $499,900, these buyers would have completely missed this house/listing!  

And, one more point: Because this home was listed at the bottom of these buyers' price range, they did not submit a 'low-ball' Offer - they felt they were getting everything they wanted at the reasonably priced $500K.  A win-win for everyone.  


 


Agree to DisagreeHad we not had this 'debate,' questioning the agent's conventional status quo, her sellers may not have realized a sale quite as quickly and as profitable as the one they did.

 

My bets are on a very different result for all involved!  In this instance, the contrarian points of view of the agent's status quo, better served all parties. Two more points to this:

 

1. Had the non-traditional approach (for that agent) not been presented in a 'have-you-thought-of' manner (pleasantly and not in an argumentative manner), the agent would likely have not thought another second about trying something that was really a bit 'odd' to her.

2. Had this agent chosen to believe that her way is the only way, she and her sellers would have missed a wonderful buyer for the property, possibly received a lower Offer and selling the home could have taken longer as well. She was presented a challenge, rather than an 'argument' and she responded as a good business-minded person would - openmindedly. Seeking others' opinions is one thing but, being open-minded is another!

 


In Summary

BE the contrarian - just in a polite way! 

When you present your viewpoint, do it with finesse, dignity and do so politely! In this world of increasing divisiveness, especially in the political realm, walls are often built because of the presentation of one's particular point of view. Share your points politely and they will be far better received.

 

 

© Debe Maxwell | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | CharlotteBroker@icloud.com | Are You a Contrarian? Bring it on...Politely!

Comments(72)

Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Absolutely, Sheri Sperry - MCNE®! In my example, she was quite nice about it and even gave it a whirl to prove that this approach works and was thrilled that she had an open mind. (And it all started here in the Rain too, based on a comment I left about questioning pricing!)

Have a wonderful week, Sheri! 

Jan 07, 2018 07:42 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Well, I'm happy that you think it's good reasoning, Richie Alan Naggar! It seems to me to be logical but, hey, sometimes others have a better option and I'm certainly open to that!

Happy Sunday!

Jan 07, 2018 07:43 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Well, I'm glad you like it with your skeptical mind, Myrl Jeffcoat!  LOL 

Seriously, I would never label you a contrarian either, Myrl! And, I've never seen the skepticism either!

Hope you have a wonderful week ahead! 

Jan 07, 2018 07:51 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thank you for sharing, Mary Jo Quay! I've seen those deceptive practice posts as well and am always horrified at some of the responses - and the bashing that goes on there. It's totally uncalled for and when you think about it, they're only hurting themselves. Who would ever think about referring them their valued clients? I know I have a list of 'would never refer to' based on exactly your example!

Jan 07, 2018 07:59 PM
Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Great post Debe Maxwell, CRS you can agree but disagree politely...there is no reason to stoop to bad behavior! 

Jan 07, 2018 08:32 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, I love your graphic, Lisa! It's SO true! I think those who tend to 'savor' the arguing just for the sake of arguing, feel comfort in hiding behind their keyboard too. That personality will send me packing faster than any other - I just don't have any desire to partake!!

Have a great week!

Lisa Von Domek 

Jan 07, 2018 09:17 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Debe

I loved your thoughts on this issue, and the example was excellent. It’s really not all that hard to express different opinions, or to be contrarian in a nice way that will better get your point across more effectively...and you just might change someone’s opinion.

Jeff

Jan 07, 2018 09:33 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

"Have you thought of" is a great way to present a different point of view nicely!

Jan 08, 2018 03:38 AM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Good morning Debe Maxwell, CRS, regardless of the topic, if we have a differing opinion, we can certainly express it in a polite way. If we're open minded, we can even learn a thing or two. Great post, well deserved feature. 

Jan 08, 2018 05:27 AM
Nathan Gesner
American West Realty and Management - Cody, WY
Broker / Property Manager

Good article. It would be a boring world if everyone thought the same!

Jan 08, 2018 05:30 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Jeff Dowler! Oh, I agree! When you're open-minded, that helps too but, even then, if someone is forceful and rude in their presentation, we tend to put up a wall of defense and often don't hear good points made. So, presentation is key for all to have a great discussion/debate!

Happy Monday!

Jan 08, 2018 06:13 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Kat Palmiotti! I think so too - that takes down those walls that we often build to defend our positions and makes us respond to the question instead of clamming up!

I hope you have a great week ahead!

Jan 08, 2018 06:14 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

So well stated Debe!

Congratulations on a well deserved Feature.

Your example is a perfect one and a great lesson for all!

Jan 08, 2018 09:12 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thank you, Beth Atalay! It's so true - minds open and communication begins with kind, polite conversation...never (or rarely) with rude or impolite on either side!

Jan 08, 2018 12:26 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Nathan Gesner! Oh, yes, it would be a horribly boring place! Different opinions are welcomed - it's all about the presentation though! ;-) 

Jan 08, 2018 12:27 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Thank you, Sharon Tara! People just respond better to kindness - in all walks of life!

Jan 08, 2018 12:28 PM
Don Hess
KW Elite Keller Williams 1280 Plaza Blvd. Lancaster, PA 17601 - Quarryville, PA

Great point. Being polite seems to be a forgotten concept. "What goes around comes around" was probably meant in a different light, but we can hope that the need to be polite comes around again. 

Jan 08, 2018 01:08 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Debe Maxwell, CRS 
I really enjoyed your clear discussion. In trying to make a point, we MUST allow for the dignity of the other person. You did that and the agent HEARD and understood your point.
Long ago, a Client told me his father had told him  "Always leave something on the table for the other side."  My take on that comment is that reaching a solution - not vanquishing an opponent - is the goal in negotiation and in teaching, as in this case, when you taught about pricing. Thanks for your post! All the best - Lynn

Jan 09, 2018 08:26 AM
Karen Feltman
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group - Cedar Rapids, IA
Relocation Specialist in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

LOVE this post!  It is very true that sometimes we need to be just as concerned with how buyers are searching for a home as well as what the seller wants.  It can be a win-win that way!  Several years ago, I had a listing that had 3 bedrooms, BUT two were on the main and one was in the lower level.  The buyers agent had a search for 3 bedrooms on ONE LEVEL.  Completely missed my listing.  The buyers found the house themselves and asked their agent to show it.  That buyers' agent learned to not set search criteria that way.  Thank you for the post.

Jan 09, 2018 03:14 PM
Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

 That JC Penney pricing is so 2017!   Good for you, Debe, for understanding that people search in brackets that end in 00, not 99.

Jan 11, 2018 02:07 PM