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Seniors BEWARE: Your "Friends" May Be Billing You for what Appears to be Friendship !

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Real Estate Agent with EXP Realty 414-525-0563 57026-90 Broker

 

 

 

grandma                           grandpa

 

 

 

 

  It was our very great pleasure,

to assist a childhood neighbor with the sale of her home recently.  During the course of the transaction...(the house was in bad need of updating and we were able to secure a rehab buyer before the sign went in the ground !)  a distrusting relative demanded a social worker be present for the pre-signing. No problem, I made arrangements for the title company attorney to be at the woman's assisted living apartment with the social worker and myself.  The social worker repeated dozens of times "If there is anything you need at any time, you just call me...I will come next week and bring you ...." On and on....Then the social worker wanted keys to the house so you could "assist in deciding what should be moved where." Well, the woman had already been in her apartment for 6 months and had almost everything she was going to get from her home...I became suspicious.

Always listen to your little voice.....The social worker was NOT a part of the service provided by the assisted living facility as the elderly woman assumed...She was charging her by the hour and a relative had apparently agreed to pay for it..WITH THE FUNDS FROM THE ELDERLY WOMAN !!!!

Seniors...Please, please be careful who you trust....Scams come in all kinds of forms....as does Elder Abuse...Be very, very careful who your trust...there may even be some relatives that you need to watch. If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is...ask your clergy person or someone you know that may have been in a similar situation before you agree to anything. If you are getting lots of attention from someone you met recently....a health care worker, a social worker...find out how the are being paid and by whom...the money you save is likely to be your own !

If you want to sell your home...or wonder what it is worth...how to downsize...and you live in Southeastern Wisconsin, call the Hansons, we have lots of experience with Seniors and we will direct you to the proper resources. Children, if you have parents living in the area, please call us toll free: 877-525-0563, it would be our very great pleasure to be assistance to your loved ones.

Posted by

Sally K. & David L. Hanson, ABR, CDPE, CSS, e-Pro,ILHM, REDS


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Tom Braatz Waukesha County Real Estate 262-377-1459
Coldwell Banker - Oconomowoc, WI
Waukesha County Realtor Real Estate agent. SOLD!

Sally and David

You have agreat sense of intuition. People with their palm out, and why would you give that lady a key?

Good Job?

Sincerely

Tom Braatz

May 24, 2008 04:21 AM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

She will find out shortly she is out on her ear since her son (who lives out of state) found out this is not a service of the assisted living facility. And....She likes to stick her very social nose where it does not belong !  Come see us....grab a BBQ this weekend !

May 24, 2008 04:26 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

I'm actually trying to help a older couple that were my clients until the niece who was supposed to be helping them took their $50,000 to pay for her home that was in default. You need to hire help that is not a part of your family especially if they have a stake in the game.

May 26, 2008 05:06 PM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

Great idea Todd...

    But in this case as in many we have dealt with...the family is the only one who has the authority to hire anyone outside...and the abuse continues....

May 26, 2008 11:14 PM