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Mortgage and Lending with Liberty Home Mortgage Corporation Originator NMLS ID 120117

I was speaking yesterday to a friend of mine who is a college wrestling coach.

 

We spoke about what it takes to achieve a goal. In the sport of wrestling, he was one of the best college wrestlers of the decade during his time, so I guess you can say that he knows a thing or two about achieving a goal.

 

We also spoke about achieving a goal when at the present moment you feel like an absolute failure.

 

I remember drowning in debt and living paycheck to paycheck and running my business off of my credit cards. I sure did not FEEL like I would ever achieve my goal of being debt free, but I woke up every day HOPING for it?

 

We spoke about how we both believe that every single person wakes up every single day and wants to achieve a particular goal, but so many do not and so few do and we wondered why that was.

 

Our conclusion was PURPOSE.

 

Every single day I woke up, I was absolutely determined to pay off my debt. All I cared about was winning THAT day and making money THAT day and paying the debt down THAT day. I had tunnel vision.

 

Every single day he woke up, he told me that he was determined to be the #1 wrestler in the country and all that he cared about was working as hard as he can THAT day and to be the best wrestler on THAT day. He had tunnel vision.

 

Ultimately, he won the nationals (twice) and I have since paid off all of my debt. In comparing our stories, the common denominator was that we woke up each and every single day with a PURPOSE.

 

We stayed focused on that purpose every single day and never lost sight of it until we achieved our goal.

 

To everyone reading this, have a PURPOSE for today and for each and EVERY day.

 

Until next time, let’s seize THIS day!!

 

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James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Khash.

I know my purpose in this business, sadly a lot of agents do not get it.  Hence, the large turnover

Aug 27, 2018 03:03 AM
Khash Saghafi NMLS

I totally agree with you. It happens across all industries and all walks of life.

Aug 27, 2018 03:23 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Good morning. I agree that having a clear goal/purpose is critical. I also think many people might have a purpose, but they allow fear to stop them from taking any forward steps. Fear of success, fear of failure - it doesn't matter which. So I wish everyone the strength to move forward anyway!

Aug 27, 2018 04:06 AM
Khash Saghafi NMLS

I think THAT would make a good series Kat Palmiotti !!!! 5 reasons why people fall short of their goals!!!! 

Aug 27, 2018 04:29 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Go for it, Khash Saghafi - That WOULD make a good series!

Aug 27, 2018 10:25 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Khash! One day at a time! Each day on its own. They add up! Enjoy your day!

Aug 27, 2018 04:27 AM
Khash Saghafi NMLS

Morning in Chicago Wayne!!

Aug 27, 2018 04:30 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Khash Saghafi I seem to have more than one purpose.... and that equates to focusing and not missing a beat....and I continue to see progress....  it keeps me young!!!! and I think that's why I begin my day so early at the gym... the need to stay energized and feel strong and healthy everyday to continue my journey.

Aug 27, 2018 04:48 AM
Khash Saghafi NMLS

I always say Barb that you are simply amazing!! Don't push those people too hard at this morning's workout!!

Aug 28, 2018 02:02 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good morning Khash Saghafi -  I totally relate.  If you have that single minded purpose that it is going to happen and you stay focused it will happen.

Aug 27, 2018 06:57 AM
Khash Saghafi NMLS

I agree Grant and it's just a matter of staying focused on it.

Aug 28, 2018 02:01 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Khash - one day at a time.  One step in front of another. 

Aug 27, 2018 02:50 PM
Khash Saghafi NMLS

The best way to do it

Aug 28, 2018 02:01 AM