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The Closing Gift Conundrum: It Depends...

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In our sixteen years of focusing on branding and marketing in various niches of the real estate industry with both companies and agents, we have seen innumerable ways that real estate marketing professional in all facets of the industry attract clients, and create a referral stream.

 

Closing gifts is one way to assure this will happen. We have heard and read many discussions on the subject as to what works and what does not work when it comes to closing gifts. We have concluded that the appropriate answer is that it depends on the personalities of the agents and the personalities of the people they attract. Remember, the old adage: People like to do business with people like themselves.

 

It is not uncommon to hear that someone with a high-end listing will show prospects homes in a chauffeured limousine, for instance. Or, they will rent a helicopter to view the property if they have a buyer for large tracts of land, ranches or vineyards. They will also wine and dine them at posh restaurants. We have seen the same type of service albeit less extravagant at the mid-range level in real estate, as well as in commercial real estate also.

 

Here is an example of a successful agent who feels that gift giving is the best method to attract those who are ready to buy or sell. We call it, the “treat them as if they ruled the world “system.

 

This agent specialized in luxury real estate. A special gift from Tiffany’s was sent after a listing presentation. It was a clever gift, a silver pen. The attached gift card explained this was the “special” pen for the potential sellers/buyers to sign the closing papers with.

 

This individual had a high enough percentage of buyers/sellers sign the exclusive for this method to justified the cost. At the end of the transaction, there was another luxury gift for the client.

 

This is one way of doing business, it worked for this individual. Even in the age of electronic signing, this person is still spending money with Tiffany’s on other items as the opening gambit. Keep in mind that this is the type of client this individual attracts over and over again, because this agent would want to be similarly treated, if he/she were the seller or buyer. It worked.

 

At the same conference, where were speaking, at we met another agent whose approach was radically different. This person does not give gifts, she spontaneously gets them from happy clients. This is another approach to working with the wealthy or any other type of financial strata that is worth considering.

 

Her stance is that her service is invaluable, her knowledge of the luxury market impeccable. She has an impressive roster of clients who praise her expertise and prowess. These are the clients she consistently attracts. She is a player on an equal footing with her clients who are treated like partners in the process of selling or buying a home.  Although, she does not expect a gift, she often gets gifts from her clients.

 

Find your approach, express it clearly and you will attract the very ones you would like to work with. There is no right or wrong here, it depends on your personality and the people you would like to do business with. As a rule, we gave ourselves a gift when we closed a deal.

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Comments(28)

Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 exactly, that is why we keep harping that no one size fits all.  Happy Thursday.  A

Mar 14, 2019 03:28 PM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

I'm in the camp with Nina Hollander - housewarming gifts are great; before Munchery went defunct, a Munchery gift card was a great way to ease move-in day stress, celebrate the birth of a child, etc. I need to find a replacement for that service.

Mar 14, 2019 05:02 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Alexandra I had clients that loved the blue bag so with that said they received the gift and the bag... other clients liked 100 point Robert Parker rated wines and they got that as well... I  tailor my closing gifts to the person...Endre

Mar 14, 2019 11:51 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Alexandra.

I've always given a closing gift, although it has changed over the years, I still do it

Mar 15, 2019 01:04 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

I always enjoyed doing the personalized thing.  One of my favorite "housewarming" gifts were two blueberry bushes for the buyers yard.  They loved them. 

Mar 15, 2019 04:52 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks for sharing some of your thoughts on closing gifts. 

Most of my sales have not been in the luxury market and I have never made is a practice to give closing gifts.

Mar 15, 2019 06:38 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning again Alexandra. It does depend. I like both the approaches you outlined here.

Mar 15, 2019 08:00 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Endre Barath, Jr. Very nice closing gifts you chose for your clients.  It all really depends, and the personalized thought is what matters.  A

Mar 15, 2019 08:14 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Lottie Kendall I like the idea of housewarming gift, which is a natural conclusion rather than a closing of escrow gift.  However, it does depend on what works for each market ad each personality.  A

Mar 15, 2019 08:15 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

James Dray I always encourage what works, in some place it does and in others it does not.

Mar 15, 2019 08:16 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Carol Williams Love the idea of bluebery bushes.  I tried growing some in Los Angeles, but other than a few leaves, they did not do well.  Here in Santa Barbara County there is a pick your own blueberries farm off the freeway.  Perhaps this year, we will go there, as we both love blueberries.  A

Mar 15, 2019 08:18 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Roy Kelley many in luxury do not give gifts at all, and gifts are not necessarily just for luxury buyers.  A

Mar 15, 2019 08:19 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sheila Anderson thank you for your comment, and as I read the various comments, I am learning even more, because in the long run, it does depend.  A

Mar 15, 2019 08:21 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

It really does depend on a lot of factors, but closing gifts certainly do make a client feel good and special.

Mar 15, 2019 11:57 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Ron and Alexandra- the "it depends" answer is absolutely correct. Some people don't have it in their nature to give gifts and others do. If you're not a gift giver, it might be good to figure out if in what you do, you might benefit from giving a gift and get some help with it. If you enjoy giving gifts, then it becomes a little easier to do!!!

Mar 15, 2019 01:08 PM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

I do like to give personal closing gifts when I can..usually try to make note of things the buyers may be interested..or with sellers, sometimes it's as easy as getting the house cleaned after they move out!!!  SO they don't have to deal with it!

Mar 17, 2019 03:59 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR I love the cleaning idea, and I can imagine how appreciated that would be.

Mar 17, 2019 04:01 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy Streib Sometimes a gift can be a donation to the sellers favorite charity.  I have seen it done also.

Mar 17, 2019 04:02 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Chris Ann Cleland I agree with you.  A

Mar 17, 2019 04:02 PM
Krista Jenkins, REALTOR®
klm Real Estate - Lubbock, TX
Residential sales and retail & office leasing

While I like to give closing gifts, what to give often gives me anxiety. When I have given a gift, I made a concerted effort to choose something useful. Early on, it did not even occur to me to give a gift. I think a lot of it depends on your market. I would love to find that one signature item, but I am pretty confident it is not going to be a Tiffany silver pen - at least for the time being.

Mar 17, 2019 06:39 PM