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Wednesday Edition for 10/14/2020 - Carpe Diem

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Real Estate Agent with DFW FINE PROPERTIES 0506509

 

 

"Carpe Diem"

 

Carpe diem, (Latin: “pluck the day” or “seize the day”) phrase

used by the Roman poet Horace to express the idea

that one should enjoy life while one can."

 

 

LOCAL & NATIONAL NEWS

 

This photograph was snapped at 6:24 a.m. in Flower Mound, TX. The year 2020 will go down in history as the most controversial and unusual year in our lifetime. After dropping off my utility bill at the Town of Flower Mound drop off box, patriots were already lined up, waiting for the polls to open for voters to vote during early voting. The line was long as it was yesterday. Outside the air was still, the sun was rising, the moon and the stars in the sky were brilliant. Reflection at the pond was worth my time.

 

NEVER GIVE UP

 

From experience, if I had stayed home to watch the early morning news, I would have been subjected to the downward spiral of America reported by the media and the politicians who disagreed about filling the seat for the Supreme Court Justice. To get outside my comfort zone to "seize the day," I observed citizens rising up earlier than the morning sun to exercise their right to vote. As the sun came up, I was reminded of the fact that whether there's a pandemic or not, or an election, we must never give up hope.

 

EMPOWERMENT

 

 

When people put away their fears, stop listening to what is being reported by politicians and the media, and exercise their individual rights to get up without fear that's empowerment! During an election, we can "seize the day," and make personal sacrifices for the sake of political due diligence, using 'reasonable care and caution,' social distancing, wearing masks, and practicing personal hygiene daily.   

 

 

 

 

BREAST CANCER AWARENESS MONTH

 

"If children have the ability to ignore all odds and percentages,

then maybe we can all learn from them. When you think 

about it, what other choice is there but to hope? We

have two options, medically and emotionally: 

Give up or Fight like hell!"

---Lance Armstrong

 

HOPE

 

Whether one cares about politics or not, taking personal ownership of our bodies and our lives matters. October is Breast Cancer Awareness month. Hope is a shared responsibility. However, I was surprised when my own mother ignored her symptoms when she could have had more faith in herself to teach me, and my siblings that everyone needs to take ownership for their breasts and overall health. I remember how painful it was to watch how she mourned the death of her younger sister who died at age 50 from breast cancer and I remember their youngest sister mourn the death of my mother and her older sisters who died of breast cancer because they ignored the warnings and did not have enough faith and hope or the will to live. Yes, all three of them passed away from aggressive breast cancer. It breaks my heart, that my mother and her two younger sisters gave up hope. They did not 'fight like hell.'

 

AWARENESS

 

Early on during the pandemic, I scheduled my mammogram with an open mind. On July 20, 2020, I proceeded to have my mammogram without fear. The results were positive. But I would hate to think about the future, if I had put it off because of fear. There is no doubt in my mind, that if I ignored my responsibility to take ownership and do the right thing, my daughter would be less forgiving. I would like to encourage everyone to ask their doctors and the facility questions.

 

This is your life. Have hope. Feel empowered to ask the hard questions about whether or not they can schedule an appointment in a safe environment. Afterall, the facts are more in one's favor that mammograms save lives.  

 

If you are afraid and haven't scheduled your mammogram, all I can say is be empowered. Have hope. And most of all, have courage. "Carpe Diem."  ---Patricia Feager

 

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PATRICIA FEAGER, REALTOR®
DFW FINE PROPERTIES
3575 LONE STAR CIRCLE SUITE 315
FORT WORTH, TEXAS 76177

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Paralegal (Southeastern Career Institute)
Associates (3) (College of Lake County)
KU (University of Kansas)

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"With self-discipline most anything is possible." --- Theodore Roosevelt 

 

 

 

  

Comments(21)

Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Seize the day is enough for me, loved the title and the rest of the post was just over the top, where is the coveted Featured Button?:)Endre

Oct 14, 2020 10:55 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS - Thanks, Paul. I do put a lot into my blog posts but I've reached the conclusion I'm never good enough.

I appreciate you!

Oct 15, 2020 01:08 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Endre Barath, Jr. - Awe! Thanks, Endre.

It is obvious, a 10 year veteran is not FEATURE worthy - or not liked enough! 

All I can do is Carpe diem!!! It's just a matter of time before I'm permanently GONE. I won't be missed. But I do appreciate you, too!

Oct 15, 2020 01:13 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Patricia... great reminder to always act from a perspective of empowerment and to live life with hope and awareness. You certainly have a wonderful way with words.

Oct 15, 2020 05:06 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I wish everyone would have the medical tests they need, likewise men need to go get their prostates checked before it is too late. My sister died of breast cancer, and what many people do not realize, breast and prostate cancer is the same gene, they are linked. That is why when I was diagnosed with prostate cancer I fought like hell. I have battled it twice, and do not consider myself a survivor, hate that term, too much victim in there, I am a VICTOR, like all these ladies who have fought the fight. I have my next check up at the end of this month and am positive it will be a good result. Glad you got checked and did not let fear prevent you.

Oct 15, 2020 05:08 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Good morning Patricia!

It is a shame that your mom did not heed the warnings of her own sister's death and take action to stay healthy. Once hope is gone, all is lost.

As for the news, it is amazing how much goes on in the world that is never reported on. Instead it's the same three or four topics with the same dire predictions which is slanted depending upon the person/station providing the news. We watch 1/2 hour in the evening, well, sort of.  I'm usually buzzing around making dinner and only catch things here or there. I'd prefer not to even see that!

Enjoy your day!

Oct 15, 2020 05:42 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Patricia - is 2020 the most unusual and most controversial year?  Well, I am not so sure of that but usual is overrated and controversy seems to have a place in our life whenever two or more people are involved - sometimes I can experience it in my own mind as I discuss an issue.  

Breathe deeply.  Pause.  Reflect.  Proceed.  

 

Oct 15, 2020 06:28 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Your photos always leave me in awe!  I love the scenes that you capture with your camera and how well you capture them!

Oct 15, 2020 06:28 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Nina Hollander - You summed things up perfectly with your first sentence!

Thank you, so much!!!

Oct 15, 2020 06:33 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 - Thank you for sharing some very important information. I wasn't aware that prostrate and breast cancer were linked by the same gene.

I'm sorry for the loss of your sister. You have gone through some tough times but you came out a victor twice! Pray you never have to go through it all again. 

Nick, I still remember that long journey you went on overseas. You really were running for your life! And yes! You were the victor as a result of that goal you set. Plus, along the way, you met some wonderful people and saw the world from so many different perspectives. What you did, was brave and victorious. I commend you!

Carpe diem!!! 

Oct 15, 2020 06:39 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Michael Jacobs - Thanks for the comment you left.

 

Oct 15, 2020 06:40 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Brian England - I appreciate the compliment, very much!

Thank you!!!

Oct 15, 2020 06:41 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Thursday morning, Patricia.

Take care, be safe and have a great day.

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Oct 15, 2020 07:52 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia that is an excellent sunrise picture.  It would look fantastic framed and hung on a wall.

Oct 15, 2020 08:55 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Good afternoon, Roy Kelley - thanks for the beautiful flower!

I hope you and Doloes are doing great!

Oct 15, 2020 10:24 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

George Souto - Thanks for the compliment!  I'm happy to know you enjoyed the moment I captured. It was a very peaceful sunrise!

May you have a beautiful day.

Oct 15, 2020 10:26 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Patricia, you will not be in  the dustbin of Active Rain,  since you have spunk and you are a fighter too, keep up the good fight Carpe Diem!!Endre

Oct 16, 2020 07:27 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

There’s no better time to seize the opportunity to really know what you wanna do with your life than right now!

Oct 16, 2020 10:41 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Where this takes wisdom is to know when you have real wisdom. It’s pretty much the key to everything!

Oct 16, 2020 10:46 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Such a beautiful post, Patricia, just like you! Carpe diem!

One of Charlotte's first upscale restaurants that offered up a different menu each day (now, with farm-to-table, everyone seems to be doing this), was Carpe Diem. We have always enjoyed dining there - it's small, quaint and the food is divine!

Oct 17, 2020 02:42 PM