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Whisper When you Want to Get Heard

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Real Estate Agent with Market America Realty and Investments, Inc. F3319348

GreggWhisper When You Want to be Heard

 Many years ago when I was living in Ross, Ohio, my next door neighbor was the sales manager for the largest Nissan dealership in Cincinnati. He was a very successful sales manager and had become that sales manager after being Nissan's number one salesman for many years. The thing is, he was a very quiet man. He was not the typical loud, gregarious salesman. In fact he was very soft spoken. So soft spoken in fact, that even as a young man with good hearing, I would have to stop doing what I was doing just to listen to him. 

One day I mentioned to him that I was surprised that his quiet voice and demeanor served him so well in his business. He told me something I never forgot. He said, Gregg, "Whisper when you want to be heard".

 In fact, this is true.  Often you will stop what you doing and pay more attention to a whisperer. Those of you that know me personally know that I am not  a "whisperer", but I know many successful businessmen that are and I do know that a loud presentation does not make up for a lack of content or delivery. 

I consider Market America and Engel and Voelkers's marketing strategies "web-centric".  This is my version of the "whisper to get heard" strategy. When the Fort Myers Newspress, our local paper, had more four color full page ads for new real estate developments than I have ever seen in my life - any where, any timeatover $5000 a shot. I  would "see" many of them every week, but more often than not, I did even read them. In fact, I am certain that most people's eyes glaze over when they see them. You see, theses ads SHOUT, they don't whisper. 

I had been thinking about this "whisper" topic for weeks now; every time I look at the large ads in the paper, the dozens of bill boards, and the TV ads. I know they serve their purpose, but I also believe that a well targeted message with strong content and believable presentation is more effective, as least in the targeted approach of the web. In fact, the pros tell me that large white space around a small ad is more effective.

 Next time you are in a negotiation or a discussion, try pausing, lowering your voice a few notches, and quietly and with determination, state your case.  I think you will be surprised with the increased attention and response you will get.

 

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Ken Land
Fairway Independent Mortgage - Weddington, NC
NMLS#108157

Good info!  I once had a boss that should really read this. 

Aug 09, 2008 02:23 PM
"JT" Prevatte
Former Agent - Fayetteville, NC

This does work.....it also represents the cool, calm point of view.  Great reminder!

Aug 09, 2008 02:26 PM
Eric Reid
Renaissance Realty Group of Keller Williams Atlanta Partners - Lawrenceville, GA

How did the old tv ad go ??? Humm ...

When EF Hutton Talks people listen .. it was not a loud screaming it was two people sitting quietly talking.

There was also the old perfume ad ... if you want to be heard .... whisper

Aug 09, 2008 02:28 PM
Denise Shockey
RE/MAX Aerospace Realty - Cocoa Beach, FL
Cocoa Beach, Brevard County Florida Real Estate

Hi Gregg, WOW!  This really makes sense, I love it.  This will be fun to concentrate on trying it out.  Thanks! 

Aug 09, 2008 02:45 PM
Lori Lincoln And Associates
Top Agent Serving Dighton Taunton, Rehoboth and more! - Taunton, MA
Top Agent Taunton,Dighton Rehoboth &more

Greg,

I spent many years as an account exec for a major cable company and also sold print media. A very wise old gal who was 30+ years in the industry once told me.. "Remember, White Space is Your Friend". Also "People and Animals sell."

Aug 09, 2008 03:43 PM
Rick Maday
Schaumburg, IL
Schaumburg Home Inspector -

Great post Greg.  I found that this works well with my son (he's 7) too.  He knows he's in trouble not when I raise my voice, but when I lower it.

 

Aug 16, 2008 03:00 AM