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It takes courage to be rich

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Real Estate Agent with Market America Realty and Investments, Inc. F3319348

IT TAKES COURAGE TO BE RICH

 

 

 

There is a chapter in the book, "The Millionaire Mind" (Thomas J. Stanley, Phd; Andrews McMeel Publishing, 2000) about the relationship between courage and wealth in this country. He makes a very strong case that wealthy people possess courage.

 

Courage is the ability to motivate your self constantly to overcome fear:

 

 \Cour"age\ (k?r"?j;48), n. [OE. courage heart, mind, will, courage, OF. courage, F. courage, fr. a LL. derivative of L. cor heart. See Heart.] 1. The heart; spirit; temper; disposition. [Obs.]

 

My good friend Michael Ouellette, a top salesman for WCI and an avid real estate investor, uses an expression about potential clients that do not invest. He says. "They just can't pull the trigger."

 

If you have seen your friends and associates making money in real estate and you wish you were doing the same thing, perhaps it is because you lack the courage . "Making critical decisions about your career, business, investments, and other resources conjure up fear, fear that is part of the process of becoming a financial success." You need to have the heart; spirit; temper; and disposition that will allow you to proceed against your fears.

 

Long before the famous Nike slogan, I used to tell investors "Just Do It". But this ignored their fears and plunged them into a realm that they may not have been properly prepared to cope with. It did not DEAL with the fear, it implied that once you got going you would be fine.

 

The best way to develop courage is through preparation and education.  Stanley interviewed thousands of millionaires. These millionaires listed the following top ten processes that help them overcome fear:

 

  1.    Hard Work
  2.    Believing in Myself
  3.    Preparation
  4.    Focusing on Key Issues
  5.    Being Decisive
  6.    Planning
  7.    Being well organized to deal with Big Issues
  8.   Taking immediate action to Solve Problems
  9.   Countering Negative Thoughts with Positive Ones
  10.   Out-working, Out-thinking, Out-toughing the Competition

 

Take risks, don't gamble.  In financial and real estate risks we have the ability to influence the outcome. In gambling we do not. Get to know the difference. Educate yourself, immerse yourself, and inform yourself about these three important steps in real estate: Entry, Management, and Exit.

 

Entry. How to find the right property; how to buy it: How to negotiate it, how to finance it. How to find a good broker, how to analyze the deal, how to negotiate

 

Management.  How to hold, to rent, to improve. How to long to manage.

 

Exit.  Know how you are going to get out of the deal before you get in.

 

I have always said you make money when you buy real estate, not when you sell. But all three of the above are critical to your success. The more you know about these steps, the less fear you will have and the more courage you will gain.

 

Stanley also talks about Mentoring.  Most millionaires have mentors or:

 

- Seek advice from outstanding people

- Consult skilled advisors

- Share concerns with a trusted friend

- Share concerns with a spouse

 

Get a good set of advisors in your corner, get thoroughly knowledgeable about your investment strategy and you will overcome your fears and have the courage to get rich

 

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Mott Marvin Kornicki
Waterway Realtors® • Notary Public & Apostille - Sunny Isles, FL
Miami Notary & Apostille 786-229-7999

Great information and advice! I'll put some of those ideas into action.

Aug 23, 2008 12:28 AM
Margaret Mitchell
Coldwell Banker Yorke Realty - York, ME
Seacoast Maine & NH Real Estate

I think it does take courage to invest in this market.  I agree that you mak eyour money when you buy.  Now I'm going to have to read the book...  Good post!

Aug 23, 2008 12:41 AM
Ron Tarvin
Residential, Investment properties, rehab projects, property management, luxury homes, new construction! - Katy, TX
Broker, Katy, Houston, Cypress 77450,77494,77095

I need to go back and re-read that book and the one before that "The Millionaire Next Door" and get refreshed!  This reminder is so true in all walks of life...it's not an encouragement to be reckless but it is a reminder to get off center, get into action...DO SOMETHING!  Thanks!

Aug 23, 2008 01:05 AM
Steve Loynd
Alpine Lakes Real Estate Inc., - Lincoln, NH
800-926-5653, White Mountains NH

Gregg, I think too many real estate investors don't think about the exit when they enter. It has become clear to me that when a seller says no to a deal he hasn't thought about the loss of holding rather than the re-investment of those funds in a better way. Even successful investors loose now and then and minimizing your loss is as important as - not holding a looser to long.

Aug 23, 2008 01:16 AM
Dean Guadagni
Inner Architect - San Rafael, CA

Hi Gregg,

I represent author Susan Hanshaw and her latest book on change and transition published in June

Susan Hanshaw expouses "A belief is simply an idea that you accept as true. If you change your idea then you change your belief."

If you apply this concept to fears you have a formula for researching new ideas to replace the belief that leads to your fears.

Thanks!

dean

Aug 23, 2008 03:53 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Greg: You've touched on so many good notions here that it is hard for me to resist putting you up at the top of our Optimist board.  Great post, my man, great post!

Aug 23, 2008 11:35 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

I'm glad you are allowing us to re-blog it!  I will post this on our web site.  I want ALL my prospects and clients to read it...

Aug 23, 2008 11:37 AM
Sherry Scales
Austin Texas Homes, LLC - Leander, TX
Realtor, for Austin, TX and surrounding areas

Pull the trigger! I love it!  There is nothing worse than someone who can't make a decision. Right or wrong...you will get no where in life sitting on your thumbs.  Great post!

Aug 23, 2008 01:08 PM
Gregory Lohr
West Columbia, SC

Makes me think of the Nike Slogan...JUST DO IT!

One area that I need the most work on is organization.  I'm implementing a new system this coming week to help me keep better organized.

Knowledge without action...keeps many people standing still.

Aug 23, 2008 04:09 PM
Troy Jowers
Pogo Realty, LLC - New Orleans, LA
New Orleans Realtor

Great post. I'm relatrively new to the commercial side but have such a great client bse nationwide to tap into that I could no longer hang back in the comfortable residential market. This was a help. I'm be picking up the book today!

Aug 24, 2008 01:55 AM
Gregg Fous
Market America Realty and Investments, Inc. - Fort Myers, FL

Troy,

I am a big reader and a fan of books that motivate me.   (Generally they are not in the "motivational" isle at Barnes and Noble.)   My all time favortie is Ayn Rand's Atlas Shrugged.. I have read it at least every two years since High School.  One of my columns years ago listed my top ten books.. Thanks for the comments.I think i will udate the list and post it on AR!

 

Gregg

Aug 24, 2008 02:03 AM
Tanya Venable
Orlando, FL
SEO, Mobile SEO, and Internet Marketing Consultant

Greg, Great info!  Thanks for sharing. I totally agree, it take courage and smarts.

Aug 24, 2008 02:26 AM
Gregg Fous
Market America Realty and Investments, Inc. - Fort Myers, FL

AHhhh Tanya...I wish that were true -- but courage  and "courting chance" are much more important than smarts.  How many of us know peole that are rich and think, "Heck, if HE can do it, I certainly can."  But some how we never do.

 

Gregg

 

 

Aug 24, 2008 02:34 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Gregg, I love your last comment here!  You are so right!  I have observed so many people over the years who, in spite of seeming a little "slow", have managed to amass huge fortunes.  Courage and persistence definitely trump "smarts"!

Life is ripe with examples of incredibly gifted and able individuals who never quite make it...  Being daring has paid off beautifully for me.  Call it crazy, call it whatever you wish; my ability to have "thick skin" and come back again and again has served me well. 

If you want it badly enough, you'll get it...  Being smart, good looking, well educated...  these are mere perks, not necessities... 

Aug 24, 2008 06:49 AM
Gregg Fous
Market America Realty and Investments, Inc. - Fort Myers, FL

Many times we outsmart ourselves. we out think, we out plan, we re-work, we worry, we re-plan, but we do not succeed. If we wait for all our ducks to line up, we will never get in the water.

I always enjoy meting CAN DO people.  You ask, and they say - no problem.  "How you gonna do it?"

"I don't know - I will figure out when I get there."

I LOVE that guy.

By the way - being smart, good looking, and well educated dont hurt!  (LOL)

Aug 24, 2008 10:49 AM
Emily Cressey
The River Rock Group, LLC - Shoreline, WA

Hi Gregg,

 

I was just reading through your post and saw you mention Mikey O in Mass! :)  How do you know him?  He is an old buddy of mine from Mentor Financial Group, LLC.  We worked on putting together a proposal for some real estate coaching some time ago.  He is a great guy.

Now you're a friend of a friend! :)

Take care,

 

Emily

Aug 24, 2008 01:40 PM
Gregg Fous
Market America Realty and Investments, Inc. - Fort Myers, FL

Not sure it is the same Mike.. The one I know is in Punta Gorda Florida!

Oct 24, 2008 01:16 AM