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Are You Just Burning Daylight?

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

Clock In TrashI thought while driving with the setting sun today how the sun gets lower and lower in the sky as we approach the shortest daylight of the year at around Dec. 21st. Then when most of us switch to standard time weekend after this weekend the evening daylight hours will have melted away (AGAIN).

It was a stark metaphor for me for the idea if the daylight hours are your time to get things done, what truly are you getting done? Or,

                   ARE YOU JUST BURNING DAYLIGHT???

The preciousness of time comes to us when we are robbed of it or the sand left in our hourglass is forecast to be very limited. It is true we all have finite time. Most of us just don't know how long that candle will burn.

Face it, we all waste time. Probably gobs of time. We know when we waste time when we look back on what we did and apply that judgment call. But how can we STOP wasting so much time that we do?

We have to learn from our mistakes. Think of all the time wasters: Traffic, lines in stores, selling houses for unmotivated sellers, other people wasting our time, meetings, dumb classes you take that don't amount to a hill of beans or are not useful, on an on. Surely in life there also is sacrifice for others which could be considered a waste of OUR time but we choose the sacrifice. How about too much TV, too much Internet?? 

Tine Tunnel

The reason we should stop wasting time is they are not making any more of it. We do not manage time, we spend it. Spending it doing what we want to do with it is what we should be striving for. Do we have to spend it working in areas that are not optimum for our life? Sure. But there are areas of your time that are very much under your control.

I have no time for telemarketers anymore. I use the word No so liberally nowadays it takes people back in surprise that it only took a nanosecond to hear that word.

You must get a handle on what is working and not working with your time and best as you can "stop wasting it." I think from cancer survivors and even just getting older, people finally figure this one out.

Good luck with keeping that sun up high in the sky longer each day you live. It can be done. But you have to be aware of it that it is YOUR life. Not someone elses.

Team Honeycutt
Allen Tate - Concord, NC

Great post and you are right. During this time of year it is extra important to have a written out daily agenda. That way we stay focused on the tasks at hand and make the most out of our workday.

 

Chris

Oct 24, 2008 04:29 AM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

No!! What a definative word and yet so misunderstood. Like, what part of no.... and No you've had enough. Does people really use that word correctly.

Oct 24, 2008 09:34 AM
Terrylynn Fisher
Dudum Real Estate Group - BuyStageSell.com - Walnut Creek, CA
HAFA Certified, EcoBroker, CRS, CSP Realtor, Etc.

Enjoying every moment is the key.  Just think of the things you did that you might not have...maybe would have said no... and then met someone interesting or wonderful and/or learned something amazing that may not have changed your life, but certainly your awareness, your thinking and/or challenged you.  Spend your time wisely.  Time will pass whether you make good use of it or not...so enjoy every minute. It's a choice.   Thanks for provoking thought, as usual...

Oct 24, 2008 07:01 PM
Greg Gorman
John R Wood Properties - Naples, FL
Naples Florida Real Estate

If more people learned how to say no, they'd find more time. Always say yes when we can be helpful and when we're interested and leave the other stuff out. No guilt, just grace and a smile! Thanks for sharing & Greetings from Paradise.

Realtor Greg Gorman & Team Paradise Logo

Oct 25, 2008 04:08 AM
Scott M. Stulich
Signature Realty Group, LLC. - Dundalk Sparrows Point, MD
"REALTY becomes REALITY"

I always weigh the options of where my time is best spent. I like to take a look at the day I just spent running around and try to make the next day more productive.

Oct 25, 2008 11:00 AM
Sylvia Barry
Coldwell Banker Previews International (#1 Marin_Sonoma_San Francisco_North_Bay) - San Rafael, CA
Marin and Sonoma Real Estate Leading Expert

You not not kidding, Gary.  I have so many things I like to do and with what feels like 24x7, I am still behind.  I gonna be more organized and prioritize.  Thanks for the remidner, we will all be so much better for it!

Oct 25, 2008 11:43 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

I have severe case of A.D.D, which may not sound like a great excuse for wasting time, but..........Was that a gnat?

Oct 26, 2008 12:01 PM
Trey Thurmond
BCR Realtors - College Station, TX
College Station , Texas Homes

Focus!  That's right. I am tired of the word "multi tasking."  Quality product, and premier service are a direct result of individuals focusing on the task at hand.  We can only show one home, or write one contract, or go to one closing at a time. Now more than ever closing ratios are so important. Focus. Right now I am focusing on AR.  An hour ago I was on kitchen duty and left it shining. We should do our best at everything we do instead of trying to do an average job at too many things.

Oct 27, 2008 02:17 PM
Team Honeycutt
Allen Tate - Concord, NC

So true, so true...if I could just eliminate the time wasting people in my life I'd have the world at my fingertips.

Oct 28, 2008 01:45 AM
Sandra Paulow
Aspen Properties, Inc. - Pinetop Lakeside, AZ
REALTOR, Associate Broker, GRI, SFR

Gary,  While I enjoy the change of seasons and the cooler fall temps., I do miss the daylight hours.  I hate getting out of bed in the dark and it gets dark so early that there is no time to get anything done before it is full dark in the evening.  I think we all enjoy the sunlight hours and I know I am a morning person for sure.  My creativity comes to a screeching halt about 2:30 in the afternoon and I hate starting projects late in the day.  I want to get up and hit it and be ready to relax by mid-afternoon.  It doesn't always work out that way but I sure try to schedule my time accordingly.  Great Post - How are things in Texas?

Nov 01, 2008 09:42 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Thanks for all the great comments. I enjoyed reading them all and I hope the readers enjoyed going through them as well.

Sandra: In my area of Texas being on the western side of a time zone in Daylight Savings time we have very good sunlight in the evening, even till about 8:45 p.m. in June, early July. With standard time it is dark about 5:30, but I have lived where it is dark like at 4:30 to 5:00 p.m. which seems very early, so I can sympathize with that early darkness.

Nov 01, 2008 09:49 AM
Sandra Paulow
Aspen Properties, Inc. - Pinetop Lakeside, AZ
REALTOR, Associate Broker, GRI, SFR

It is still kind of dusk here now until about 6 but then it is dark for good.  We never go on daylight savings time in Arizona.  I have never really figured out why except that in summer it would be light until midnight.  It stays light very late here in summer.  On the 4th of July they can't even think about starting fireworks until after 9 and then there will still be light in the sky on the western horizon.  I just like daylight, I am not a night owl, that is for sure.

Nov 01, 2008 09:55 AM
Christina Vagnini
Eagle Nationwide Mortgage Company - Summerville, SC
Senior Loan Officer, SC

So true! Plan your work and work yoiur plan or life will work you! Great post.

Nov 03, 2008 12:45 AM
Kathy Carson
Lynchburg eXp - Lynchburg, VA
Realtor, Lynchburg, VA, VA Homes - Lynchunberg,Bedford, Campbell

Good Post - I need to get back to my regular organized day!  I have let things slip lately!!!  I think I'm tired!!!

Thanks for your post!

Nov 06, 2008 04:34 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Great thoughtful stuff as usual.  The other day it was getting dark, sunset at 4:30, yuck.  You have to keep 'your time' close and guard it thruout the day.  Lots of time wasters out there.  Not AR though!

Nov 06, 2008 05:06 AM
Sonja Adams
Keller Williams Realty - Purcellville, VA

I am always on the go....people tell me I get more done in a day than 90% of the world out there  - lol....but that doesn't mean Im' always efficient...I have horses and enjoy the 8-9 mos. out of the year riding about 5 days a week...during this daylight savings time, I tend to ride less during the week...its my time to refocus and get organized again...time to get efficient...then come Jan. 1, I always notice that the days have gotten slightly longer...just in time for new years right? There are ways to become more efficient so we can enjoy the luxuries of time not wasted off enjoying our lives! great post.

Nov 07, 2008 03:06 AM
Kristin Hunteman
True Title Company - Clayton, MO
Escrow Closing Officer

I was just thinking about this today -- trying to get more accmplished while the sun is up.  Just means I need to get an earlier start each day! :)

Nov 11, 2008 08:47 AM
Joddie Roberts
Mountain Real Estate and Property Management - Spokane, WA
Your Spokane Realtor - Spokane, WA

I have to tell you Dec. 21st is my favorite day of the whole year (or whichever day happens to be the shortest.)  It's my favorite because it means the next day I gain a little bit more light, and then a little more, and then a little more...of course, you probably know which day is my least favorite too.

It's true about the waste, and although at the beginning of the year I cut out things that were unproductive I realize there are still things that cost me a lot of time.  I'm in the process of redefining all of that...thanks for affirming what I knew to be true!

Nov 14, 2008 08:15 AM
Cindy Bryant
Redesign Etc. Home Staging - Houston, TX
"Houston Home Staging Pros"

Well written as always.  I need to make better use of mine. I'm in a million different directions.

Nov 14, 2008 03:41 PM
Susan Gonzalez Faux painting murals atlanta
Marietta Mural & Decorative Design - Atlanta, GA

As a cancer survivor I can tell you--the only time that is wasted is the time you are away from those you love. All the rest is just "stuff we do".

I could be having the worst day of my life....but I can always say "At least I'm not having chemo today!!!!!!" and I always feel so much better.

Live... love.... laugh

Nov 16, 2008 11:33 AM