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I Am SO VERY Thankful........

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine NH and Maine Broker



...for friends and family, co-workers, couches, electricity, heat, hot water, phones....

Portsmouth NH - North Church Steeple - Ann Cummings NH REALTOR 2008

Those of us who make our homes in New Hampshire, as well as parts of Massachusetts and southern Maine have been dealing with the nasty aftermath of what's being called the worst ice storm ever to hit this area.  At one point, over a million of us were without power, and were told it could be days or more than a week before it could be restored.  A state of emergency was declared so that aid and federal assistance could come in.


Our power went out Thursday evening, and because we rarely have power outages here in the Portsmouth NH area, most of us just went to bed secure in the knowledge that our power would be back on well before we woke up the next morning.  NOT! 



Being the early riser that I am, I woke up while it was still dark.  My power was still off, my heat was off, and my phone wasn't working.  So, I decided to get dressed and go see what I could see, never expecting to see my whole town in total darkness.  I drove through neighborhood after neighhood, seeing total darkness, not a light to be found in any home or down any street where street lamps always lead the way home.  One section in the heart of downtown Portsmouth had power, about a 2 block stretch, and only one side of that street, which struck me as really odd.  All the coffee drinkers seemed to have some kind of honing sense, as they all converged on that small area downtown where there were 2 coffee shops open.  I have never seen so many people walking around in one area holding coffee cups ever.  Coffee drinkers must possess some kind of sixth sense to have known to flock to that one spot in town where there was still electricity!

I continued driving around, in total astonishment at a totally dark town and to try to get warm as my house had been getting a little chilly.  I went back home, walked around a bit trying to figure out what to do.  My office finally got power on late morning on Friday, so I went there to hang out awhile and stay warm.  All day Saturday, no power, no heat, very sketchy phone service in many areas.  I drove 3 towns away before I could get cell service so I could check on one of my sisters who lives about an hour away.  Their power was out, too, and they'd had a tree crash into their house.  Her power came back on late Friday afternoon, and I was glad since she has 2 kids. 

I ended up spending Friday night on one of the couches in my office, not fitful sleeping, but warm and happy to have someplace to lay down on.  Eventually other agents made their way into the office Saturday morning when word started spreading that we had power.  I suspect some spent the night there last night, when their power had still not come on.

Portsmouth NH Lights - Ann Cummings - Portsmouth NH REALTOR
My power finally came back on late Saturday, just as I was making my final stop back home to put anti-freeze in the drains and head to a room I finally was able to get at one of our local hotels.  Every hotel was booked solid, with all them being booked up for Sunday and into Monday as well. 

Anyway, as I was walking up to my house on that last stop, I realized I was seeing every light in my house shining brightly.  I stopped in my tracks, looked around, closed my eyes tightly then opened them again, and the lights really were shining.  I came inside, with my eyes watering with sheer joy, and then looked across the street and down the street, making sure I wasn't just seeing things, or that I had been hoping so hard for this that I was dillusional.  And I wasn't!!  The tears were running down my face at this point, I was so happy for the things we just take for granted every day.  I didn't even notice that my house was warming up, oh how nice that felt when I realized it!

I quickly called the hotel to let them know I now had power back on, and they told me not to worry, that they could sell that room a hundred times over.  I went back to my office to move my things back here to my house, and then I just sat down and cried.  At times, during this whole ordeal, I felt so alone in the dark.  Bear wasn't here with me to help us get through this, to tell me everything would be okay, that we would get through this just fine.... 

  • I am very thankful for my friends who called to check on me, even though they were also without electricity and heat themselves. 
  • I am so thankful for my family who continued to check on me and give me encouragement.  I am very thankful for co-workers who made sure I knew I could call on them if I needed anything, and they were all in the same boat I was in but knew I was alone at my house. 
  • I am thankful for the beautiful office I work in, for the couches we have, and for it being located where it is because it had power and heat long before most of the area did.  Power there came on mid-morning on Friday, and most of us were without power until Saturday night.  Some are still without power and heat, and it may be days before they get it back.

And I am especially thankful for the crews who live and work here in New Hampshire, and for all those crews who traveled from other states to come up here and get us back up and running, some of whom had no power and no heat in their own homes here in NH.


While we were going through this, I told my dad at one point I felt like I was in the twilight zone.  One of the agents I work with said as she was driving around in her car trying to keep warm on Friday that she felt like a refugee.  So many feelings of displacement, and being totally out of sorts - it was very disconcerting to all of us.  We are so used to the basics, and not-so-basic things, just always being there.  When they're not, we don't know what to do at first.  But we soon banded together, began checking on each other, looking out for each other to make sure we had things to get through this as best we could.

My Special Little Bear

I will always be grateful
for those who took time to do the simple things like checking in on me, offering me shelter in their homes even though they, too, had no heat or power, for those friends who live in my computer who checked in as well.  And I will be thankful when all who were impacted by this storm get their power and heat back, too.  I called friends who don't have power back up yet and offered my guest room and couches to them, and offered warm showers as well.

I got to sleep in my own bed last night and be warm.  This morning, I woke up and realized I was in my own home where it really was warm, and I silently rejoiced.  I took the longest warm shower today that I think I've ever taken, just because I could......

Yep, I am SO thankful for so many things......

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Martha Brown
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc., Annapolis MD 21403 - Annapolis, MD
Your Homes Around Annapolis Agent

Ann- Thank goodness your electric is back on. The experience had to be unnerving for sure especially being by yourself. You are one brave women driving around in the dark but what a story from doing so. Now go get that woodstove :)

Dec 16, 2008 01:23 PM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

Wow I had no idea.........even though we're going through one of the coldest spells on record......our power was only out for about 9 hrs........the things we so take for granted.........a not so pleasant reminder.....

Dec 16, 2008 03:51 PM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Hi Martha - I am so thankful for the electricity I now have, and for the crews who worked so hard to make that happen.  They're still out there working because so many are still without power.  Hopefully everyone will be back up soon.  Driving around and seeing my beautiful town completely dark was so unsettling to me, very strange to see that.  I'm going to have my chimney inspected very soon, and to have whatever work is needed done, and then I'm going to learn how to use it.

Hi Liz - I am really hoping that this kind of weather isn't a forecast for what winter is going to be about.  I've lived here in this area for many years, and have never experienced something like this, and I'm hoping it's a once-in-a-lifetime event.....hoping!


Ann

Dec 16, 2008 08:14 PM
Michelle Harris
MichelleHarrisHomes.com - Dallas, PA

Great stuff.... I always try to look at the gifts in my life (health, family, opportunities that others don't have, etc) and believe that whatever you give attention to grows.... Cultivating a "attitude of gratitude" has been on of the greatest gifts I have given to myself and others around me. Happy Holidays!

Dec 17, 2008 01:26 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Hi Michelle - that 'attitude of gratitude' is a great one to have, and one that I try to emulate as well.  And this experience has certainly reminded me to be quite grateful for the basics that we so often overlook.

Happy Holidays to you as well!
Ann

Dec 17, 2008 05:32 AM
Midori Miller
Talk 2 Midori, LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Online Marketing For Real Estate Professionals

Ann-I have been a little stressed..and was actually writing you an email..but I am sooooooo very happy you are warm again.  I guess I freak because its been a long time since I've been in the real cold....not sure how I would or could react to that extreme weather..at least to someone who has lived in Florida for the past 39 years... I am crying with you..that would have made me one happy girl!

Dec 17, 2008 12:41 PM
Inna Hardison
ha media group - Orlando, FL
Wordpress for Real Estate & Design, Print HaMedia Group

Ann - so glad it's over!!! I will attest to the very special honing (sixth) sense that us coffee drinkers have.  With the hurricanes of 04 we had no power for 7 days, and I'd never before seen so many people argue over a cup of coffee at the only place in town that had it... It's as if their lives depended on it.... Oh yeah, hubby and I were right there screaming and fighting over our well earned cups of brown stuff:-) I am not proud of that-

Can't imagine being without power up north though... I would probably just freeze to death.

Dec 17, 2008 02:30 PM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Hey Midori - Yep, getting my power back on made me one very happy camper, that's for sure.  Spending the night in my office on one of our couches wasn't great but it was so nice to have a place to lay down where it was warm and had lights. 

You just never do really know how you'll react to a situation like this.  First off, I could never have imagined this happening in my town to start with.  But it did, and we all found ways to cope and get back.  It's the cold that gets to you, once it sets in, it's hard to get rid of, and when the temperature our houses started getting into the low 40's and the 30's, a bit of fear sets in as well.  You worry about pipes freezing, and the damage that can ensue from that - nightmares that can be.  No lights can make you nutty, too, and combined with the cold, well it just drains you of all energy.

I was one of the fortunate ones in that I only went 2 1/2 days/nights without my power.  Far too many others have gone far longer than that, and it's scary to think that there are still too many going through yet another day in the dark and freezing, with no hot food and no running water.

Ann

Dec 18, 2008 02:06 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Hi Inna - I have never had coffee, so have never developed that must-have craving.  I love the way it smells when it's brewing, but I tasted it once many years ago and it was just gross-tasting to me.

The freezing cold makes it so hard for so many without power.  You can take no lights, but no heat for a week at this point really takes a toll.

Ann

Dec 18, 2008 02:08 AM
Diane Aurit
LKN Realty, LLC - Mooresville, NC
Lake Norman Real Estate

Ann, I had no idea!  What a frightening experience.  I am so glad you are okay and back home.  Isn't it amazing how much we take for granted in life until it/they are taken away.  A while back we were focused on our blogs...this truly helps put things in perspective.  I wish I had been there for you.  I am so grateful for you being there for me.  Hugs!

Dec 18, 2008 05:40 AM
Michele Connors
The Overton Group, LLC Pitt & Carteret County - Greenville, NC
Your Eastern North Carolina Realtor

Wow, we really do have comfortable lives..it takes something like this to open our eyes and clear  our vision.

  Just think there are thousands of people, including children  this time of year homeless and suffering in the dark and freezing cold temperatures alone.... and hungry.

Dec 18, 2008 11:22 PM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Hi Diane - oh you are so right!  Something like this certainly does make the whole blog issue go to the back burner for sure.  I am thankful I got my power back on so quickly compared to so many around me.  Good friends Jay and Monika McGillicuddy just got theirs back on this evening, EIGHT days with no power, no heat, no running water in this cold weather up here.  I canNOT imagine what that would be like.

You were there for me, even if you didn't know it...  ;-)

Hugs back to you!
Ann

Dec 19, 2008 10:46 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Hi Michele - I hope to never take the basics of our lives for granted again, and it did make me think about all those who deal with that in their daily lives.  We do a lot of things locally to help people in those situations - donations to local food banks, feeding families at holidays, providing families gifts, blood donations, provisions for homeless shelters, etc.

Ann

Dec 19, 2008 10:49 AM
Gena Riede
Riede Real Estate, Lic. 01310792 - Sacramento, CA
Real Estate Broker - Sacramento CA Real Estate (916) 417-2699

Ann, I had no idea. While reading I realized how much we really do take for granted and how terrifying it is when the most mundane things of life are no longer available to us. Glad to hear that all is well and you are warm. Happy holidays and take as many long warm showers as you want, you deserve it!

Dec 21, 2008 01:17 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Hi Gena - we have come to appreciate very much our electricity, our heat, our hot water, and so much more because of that storm.  And many of us have stocked on things that we never would have thought of now, too.  Those long warm showers felt so good!!

Merry Christmas to you,
Ann

Dec 21, 2008 06:41 AM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area

What a touching post Ann. I was in the dark when you posted it. Thank you for offering up your house to us...we almost came up but just didn't want to leave the house unattended. Thankfully we have power...a full 8 days after we lost it and as unbelievable as it is some are still without power.

Dec 21, 2008 08:57 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Ann the longest that I have every been without power was three days, and that was not a plesant experience.  I can't imagine what it was like to be without power for as long as many in the Northeast were, and in a cold Winter month to boot.  Glad that your power has returned and hope that you will never experience anything like that every again.

Dec 21, 2008 10:18 AM
marti garaughty
garaughty.com - Montreal, QC
a highly caffeinated creative type...

 hi Ann, I'm just stopping by to send you all my best wishes for the holidays and a wonderful 2009! Thx for being my friend, you make the Rain so special!

Dec 24, 2008 08:36 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Hi Monika- there was hardly an hour that went by that I wasn't thinking about you and Jay, and hoping that I'd get a message from one of you saying you had your power back.  I was elated to get mine back when I did, and am thankful for more things now than I ever gave a lot of thought to previously.

Hi George - I can't imagine what so many endured without power for as long as they went without, and unfortunately, there are still some without today.  I hope I never have to go through that again either.


Ann

Dec 25, 2008 04:59 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Hi Marti - thank YOU for being MY friend, and for the special comments and messages from you over the last few months.  They have meant so much to me - thank you.

Merry Christmas, and thank you for ALL you do for all of us!
Ann

Dec 25, 2008 05:01 AM