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You asked What I Want for Mother's Day

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty of California, Inc. CA DRE #01490977

 As Mother's Day approaches I thought I would share some thoughts with you. These are NOT MINE, but those of my wife, Kay, who wrote the following. I cannot take any credit for this, other than to have asked for it to be shared publicly.

Perhaps it will inspire you personally.

Or you might share the notion with someone you love - children, siblings, friends and neighbors.

The tremendous power to do good in our world is at our fingertips, we need only share the idea so that others may be inspired to do what they can, and perhaps should.

This is not an attempt to deprive anyone of money for their products or services, but to consider our social consciousness and awareness, and find a way that we might help those in need.

Perhaps this is the greatest gift of all that we can give the Mothers of the world.

When you consider the impact of this small gesture, it boggles the mind as to what can be accomplished.

Consider this my challenge to you. What can YOU do?

Dear Child of Mine,

You asked what I want for Mother's Day.  After thinking on this, I have now finally come up with a list for you.  Thank you for asking.  I love you very much.

CARD  Please pick out a wonderful card for me.  Look at the price of it, add in the tax, and add in the cost of the postage.  This will probably be about $3.50.  Please take that money and put it in the cup of someone asking for money on the street.  This person in need is someone's child, maybe someone's mother.  They should be treated on mother's day.  (So please do not give the money to Hallmark Cards, or the government and post office for taxes for war that kill mother's children.)

FLOWERS  Please choose a beautiful arrangement for me.  Look at the price of it, etc. as above.  This will probably be anywhere from $10 to $50.  Decide on an organization helping children and please send a check in that amount to them for mother's day.  These children all have mothers, and will some day, perhaps, become a mother.  They need someone to "mother" them today with your check. 

BEAUTIFUL SCARF  Please consider a beautiful silk scarf for me, one with striking colors and exquisite flow.  Take the price of it (perhaps $50-$75) and find the local shelter for women or abused women.  These women are someone's children, and perhaps they are somebody's mother themselves.  Send enough money for that beautiful scarf to her via that homeless shelter.  I do not need that scarf as I have plenty already but someone at that shelter needs a clothing item.

SUMPTUOUS BRUNCH  Find the best restaurant in town and call and ask how much their Mother's Day Brunch is this year.  It will probably be $50 - $75 dollars.  Find your local food pantry or community free dinner.  Be sure to go to their next event and take the Brunch money with you as your contribution for your meal or your food. 

TELEPHONE CALL  Please call me on Mother's Day.  The sound of your voice and your report on what you have bought for me is all I ask. 

I love you because you have a giving heart.

Love, Mom

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Kelly Sibilsky
Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD. - Lake Zurich, IL

My boys never buy me gifts. Not for Christmas, Mother's Day or even my birthday. My boys (ages 17 and 14) donate to charity! They've donated to support me when I walked in The Breast Cancer 3-Day. They donate to Habitat for Humanity. For Christmas, I got a lovely donation to WINGS (Women In Need Growing Stronger). It's a way of life that I hope they pass on to their children. Kudos for a great post.

 

May 07, 2007 01:29 PM
Kelly Sibilsky
Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD. - Lake Zurich, IL

My boys never buy me gifts. Not for Christmas, Mother's Day or even my birthday. My boys (ages 17 and 14) donate to charity! They've donated to support me when I walked in The Breast Cancer 3-Day. They donate to Habitat for Humanity. For Christmas, I got a lovely donation to WINGS (Women In Need Growing Stronger). It's a way of life that I hope they pass on to their children. Kudos for a great post.

 

May 07, 2007 01:29 PM
Lisa Dunn
Edina Realty - Minneapolis, MN
www.TwinCitySeller.com
This is a nice post...very thoughtful.  My Mom, while she encourages tithing and volunteering would be miffed if she didn't get her hand written note from me and Mom's Day!
May 07, 2007 01:47 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Kelly - THank you for sharing your thoughts. You have instilled a wonderful spirit of giving in your boys.

Lisa - I appreciate your comments. Handwritten notes are wonderful too! There's room for both.

Jeff

May 07, 2007 01:49 PM
Kristal Kraft
Novella Real Estate - Denver, CO
Selling Metro Denver Real Estate - 303-589-2022

Jeff ~  good post and a wonderful reminder of the power of Mothers around the world.  We influence the lives of so many little ones. Seeing them grow up with a good caring heart is the best reward a Mother can receive. Nothing is more rewarding than a job well done.

kk 

May 07, 2007 02:10 PM
Irina Netchaev
Pasadena Views Real Estate Team, Inc. - Pasadena, CA
Pasadena CA Real Estate
Jeff, what a powerful post... thank your wife for me.  :-)
May 07, 2007 05:14 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome
Jeff, Your wife, Kay, is beautiful and so are you for sharing this. Thank you!
May 10, 2007 01:23 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Thanks you KK, Irina and Margaret. I am so glad you stopped by and found this meaningful. I thought it was pretty cool. Happy Mother's Day!

Jeff

May 11, 2007 07:38 AM
Rick & Ines - Miami Beach Real Estate
Majestic Properties - Miami Beach, FL
Jeff - Happy Mother's Day to your wife and to all the Active Rain Moms and to all the moms reading this as well.  If the world would think like your wife, we would certainly eliminate a lot of the evils that surround us.  Thanks so much for sharing.
May 12, 2007 03:55 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Thanks for stopping by to share YOUR thoughts, too, Ines.

Happy Mother's Day to you as well.

Jeff

May 13, 2007 02:51 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Jeff...Please share the following video with your wife. I would like to share a "Motherly" moment with her :)

 

I am wishing her my best today and all the special days to come. TLW...ROAR!

May 13, 2007 02:55 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Thanks you for the lovely thoughts, TLW.  I hope YOUR day, and all to follow  are filled with joy and happiness.

Jeff

May 13, 2007 03:10 AM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Jeff - thanks for sharing this note of your wife's.  She must be a very special lady, you can tell from her words that she wrote.  Very special.....   I hope she had a wonderful Mother's Day and that she got her call.

Ann

May 13, 2007 09:57 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Thanks so much, Ann. I will pass along your kind words. And yes, she is pretty special - we celebrate 28 years this July. Hard to believe!!

Jeff

May 13, 2007 03:11 PM