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Some Buyers are a Needle in the Haystack

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Real Estate Agent with Douglas Elliman Real Estate in Babylon NY

buying a home on long island nySome Buyers are a Needle in the Haystack

Not too long ago, in a land far, far away, banks gave mortgages out like candy. If you had a heartbeat, you got a mortgage. It was pretty much that simple but look where it got us.

These days, unless you have seriously excellent credit, income and little debt, you have to put 20% down for a conventional mortgage. So, what happens when a buyer has a six-figure income, credit scores of over 800, a stable job, preapproved for up to $400,000 with a well-known Long Island credit union, and only has to put 3% down? Punishment for being a responsible person.

When submitting good offers, we were met with resistance. "No one can put down 3% these days!" "Your buyer will have to go to our mortgage broker". Give me a break. When you have this type of buyer, who by the way doesn't come along that often, they can put 3% down if they choose to do so. Just because we do not see this type of buyer that often, doesn't mean they do not exist. It doesn't mean they won't be able to get a mortgage either just because they are not preapproved with a major bank.

Then I was asked "why doesn't your buyer want to buy a home for $400k+?" First off, that is really no one's business. But, his response was he wants to be able to continue contributing to his investment accounts like he does now. He'd rather live in a  modest home than have a larger home that could become a ball and chain. Who really wants to live like that? I know I don't.

Some of us choose to live our lives the way we do. I live in a two bedroom townhome in West Babylon. I could afford to live in a much larger home but then it would be like running a small business and I already have one of those. My buyer feels the same way. We all work long hours and to have to come home and maintain a larger home each day would be time consuming. It would leave little time for other things like spending time with family and friends.

The next time you come across a buyer like mine, be grateful that they are making a really good serious offer and embrace the fact that they are a responsible buyer. A buyer like this doesn't come along every day.

Comments(33)

Amanda Christiansen
Christiansen Group Realty (260)704-0843 - Fort Wayne, IN
Christiansen Group Realty

Sounds like a wonderful buyer Jackie!  Great post and very well said.  We live in a modest home with a big lot for our doggies.  We could afford more, but why?  Image?  Nah.  We're okay where we are.  Congrats on the feature.  Well deserved!  

Aug 09, 2012 11:20 PM
Jackie Connelly-Fornuff
Douglas Elliman Real Estate in Babylon NY - Babylon, NY
"Moving at The Speed of YOU!"

Hi Vanessa, Here too with FHA. It doesn't make sense to me. There are more worries with FHA if the home needs work than a buyer with excellent credit/scores, income, etc.

Aug 09, 2012 11:20 PM
Jackie Connelly-Fornuff
Douglas Elliman Real Estate in Babylon NY - Babylon, NY
"Moving at The Speed of YOU!"

Hi Michael, exactly!

Hi Jared, Thank you and we should all have buyers like this one!

Aug 09, 2012 11:21 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Jackie..... the listing agent should thank her lucky stars that the buyer is so well qualified....  everyone is spooked these days.... conservative buyers are good buyers and good decision makers....

Aug 09, 2012 11:25 PM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Our prices for property listings so much lower that cash sales, owner financed land means no banks. Mortgages are not needed from some place with the FDIC sticker on the glass double doors and banker's hours pasted for all to see.

Aug 10, 2012 12:04 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Buying smart is the way to go...We tried it the other way and the industry crashed...remember?

Aug 10, 2012 12:04 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Jackie, They'd rather that your buyer eventually be one of the foreclosed who bought too much??  Crazy.....

Aug 10, 2012 12:12 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Jackie, I really appreciate you sharing this. We need to be respectful of all offers and not judge the buyer by his choices.

Aug 10, 2012 12:54 AM
Chris and Dick Dovorany
Homes for Sale in Naples, Bonita Springs and Estero, Florida - Naples, FL
Broker/Associate at Premiere Plus Realty

You are right.  Real good qualified buyers are far and few between.  When you get one treat them well.  The rest can be thrown back into the pile to have them call when they become a good buyer which I believe most will not.

Aug 10, 2012 02:00 AM
Lyons Mortgage Services, Inc.
Lyons Mortgage Services, Inc. - Astoria, NY
The Lender You Can Trust

Jackie,

At Lyons Mortgage we have conventional mortgage options for qualified borrowers with less then 20% down.  In some cases the borrower can put as little as 3% down.  Conforming rates and much less monthly MI and no up front MI.  Good qualified buyers have options if they are working with knowledgeable realtors and banks. 

Aug 10, 2012 03:01 AM
Sandy Acevedo
951-290-8588 - Chino Hills, CA
RE/MAX Masters, Inland Empire Homes for Sale

Hi Jackie, so true... who wants to be house rich and cash poor? These clients are very wise.

Aug 10, 2012 03:41 AM
Nan Jester
Exit Real Estate Gallery Jacksonville Beach, FL - Jacksonville Beach, FL
Realtor, Exit Real Estate Gallery

You are preaching to the choir.  Love to see someone who has earned success and had the good sense to protect it by not buying foolishly.

Aug 10, 2012 04:31 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTORĀ®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

I would jump at a offer from a client like that! None of us like pouring money down the drain. Responsible people don't make banks money!

Aug 10, 2012 04:34 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I have a lender who will do less down with no PMI on a conventional.  They love well qualified buyers.

Aug 10, 2012 08:37 AM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Jackie, congrats on the well deserved gold star.  I always let my clients know that they don't have to and don't want to top themselves out.  Just because the bank says you can spend X dollars doesn't mean you have to and most all agree.  Love what you penned..."Punishment for being responsible".

Aug 10, 2012 08:46 AM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M
Jackie - After the last few years of economic turmoil, many buyers don't want to push the envelope and stretch to the limit.
Aug 10, 2012 12:29 PM
Beth Paterson
Reverse Mortgages SIDAC, LLC, NMLS #1790592 - Saint Paul, MN
CRMP, NMLS #342859

Sounds like a smart buyer!  And they certainly shouldn't be judged or punished for their smart decisions.

Aug 10, 2012 01:24 PM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

I've had quite a few buyers that deliberatly want to put as little down as possible because they make a lot and want to use the deduction of the mortgage interest.

Aug 10, 2012 02:48 PM
Pat & Steve Pribisko
Keller Williams Greater Cleveland West - Westlake, OH

We are still in a lender's market that has changed 180 degrees.

Aug 11, 2012 12:54 AM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Jackie, yes, I do work with buyers who have great income but nothing much to put down. They do buy homes and close on time !

And there are some buyers who want a lot for nothing -even when they can't afford.

Aug 11, 2012 01:22 AM