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Being a Buyers Agent Can Be Hazardous to Your Health!

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Real Estate Agent with Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 228209

Being a Buyers Agent Can Be Hazardous to Your Health!

Happy to be showing homes!Well, at least mine!  Two weeks ago today, I had planned to take the day off.  Then, one of my favorite clients phoned me to ask if I could take them out for an hour to show them 4 homes. OF COURSE--I just adore this family and have a wonderful time looking at homes with them--and, naturally, this is one of my favorite things to do--so, it's not really like work to me at all!

So, we headed out and saw two, simply gorgeous homes then headed for our third.  As it happened, the third home that we were scheduled to show was having an Open House. Here in Charlotte, Open Houses are generally very quiet and this one was no different.  We were greeted at the door by the agent who is listing the property and we said we'd let him know if we had any questions.  

 

 

Beautiful backyard

 

 

We proceeded to check the first, and most important thing to these buyers, the back yard and returned from the beautiful tiled patio overlooking the backyard, into the kitchen to see this lovely new construction home that had simply everything that my clients could want.  We were exploring the kitchen, adjacent to the 'drop zone' and the garage; the kitchen had gleaming hardwoods for which we were admiring.  

 

 

 


YIKES!I stepped towards the drop zone, not realizing that this area was about 4 inches lower than the kitchen until it was too late--I missed the step and tried to catch myself with my left (dominant) arm but, it was too late.  My momentum was too much weight for my arm to hold and my arm wound up in a horrific contorted position.  As I lay in the floor, in a DRESS, mind you, I yanked my arm back to my side to avoid my clients seeing me in that position.  I was in absolute agony but, did not want my wonderful clients to see me that way!  The other agent and my clients put their heads together and decided what to do, which was to call 911.  The wife rode with me in the ambulance and phoned my hubby to meet us at the hospital.

 



Down for the count!

 

I don't remember much of the rest of the evening except that I had been told by the ER physician and the Orthopedic physician on-call that I would need surgery as I had a couple of fractures that would need repair.  I was sent home to seek the expert advice of a shoulder specialist the following day and would go from there. 

 

 

My hubby took my camera out of my purse and began snapping photos at the hospital while I was completely OUT!  He's shown everyone my 'fly-catching' photos and laughs hysterically saying that's the first time he's seen me speechless in years!!


X-Rays

 

The following day, my hubby took me to see the specialist, who told me that I would be in a sling for 6 months and that he would see me back in 3 weeks--no surgery was required!  WooHoo!  I was still a bit loopy from the medication that I was given the night before at the hospital but, I only knew that I was thrilled that surgery was not required.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Scratching head!Wait a minute--SIX MONTHS in a sling?  That didn't sound right.  After 3 days of agony and assigning my buyers out to my team members and having them manage my listings for me, I was very frustrated.  At 10:00 on Wednesday evening, one of my physician clients that had been shown homes by one of my team members for me on Monday and Tuesday, phoned me to say that she just didn't think that my diagnosis was correct & that she and her staff recommend another shoulder specialist  and instructed me to phone his office the next morning.

 

View from my roomWith reluctance and after three begging, pleading phone calls to the physician's nurse, I got them to agree to review my X-Rays and see what this second-opinion physician's thoughts were. On Friday, I was told not to eat or drink anything and come into his office, where I was promptly informed that I HAD to have surgery.  I pleaded for 45 more minutes so that I could go photograph a new listing so that while I was in surgery, the listing could be pre-marketed by my assistant and I would not have to wait for the photographer's shots 3 days later! Luckily, he said okay and the last thing I did was hand my camera disc over to my hubby to tweak the photos and get them ready for MLS!  

Wonderful Care at CMC

 

As it turned out, I had to spend 4 days in the hospital--I had extensive surgery including plates and screws to my fractured humerous (arm) and shoulder, muscle and tendon repairs, a bone graft to fill in the ball of my shoulder which was shattered so badly, it could not be repaired and a rotator cuff repair. They told me that literally, my arm was only 'attached' by skin!

 

 

I think the worst part has been learning a dictation system and typing one-handed for two weeks! I've missed commenting on AR but, I've been able to keep up with everyone else--just reading when I have a moment that I'm alert enough to do so!!

Hubby happy that he can help!I began my out-patient rehab yesterday and feel like this should soon be over.  I'm only allowed passive range-of-motion to my dominant arm for the first month until the bone graft 'takes' but, hopefully I'll be able to breeze through therapy and get back in the swing of things by the end of September! Thanks to all for your well-wishes and I do apologize for not returning each and every email as it takes FOREVER to type with one-hand!  

 

My voice recognition service does not translate well and that takes just about as long!!  My hubby has been awesome and I am most grateful for he and my family, friends and clients who have been giving up their time to help with meals and general household duties--I don't know what I'd do without each and every one of them.

So, the next time you're showing homes, remember to be confident in where you're stepping and avoid those sunken rooms!  (They should be OUTLAWED anyway!!)



Comments(253)

Mary Strang
Viroqua, WI

Debe, Gosh, late to read this! Once I fell down on a patch of ice at a rural property and fractured my ankle all in the line of duty. As it turned out shortly there after, the listing expired unsold. Never even a sympathy card from that seller, they re-listed with another agent and actually were not very nice at that point. I guess maybe thought I might sue. I didn't, good luck on your rehab and advise to all home sellers and agent, put up a warning sign for those sunken living rooms. Yes they can be as dangerous as an icy driveway. 

Sep 14, 2009 01:41 AM
Carrie Sampron
Home Smart Realty Group - Highlands Ranch, CO
ABR SFR & Kathy Sampron (303) 931-3629 Highlands R

Debe:  Oh . . . my . . . gosh!  I hope you are feeling considerably better these days.  My sister and I often walk out farm and pass out materials and many of the homes have a small step leading to the front door and I can't tell you how many times I've always fallen - now I am completely freaked out and more careful that is necessary!

Sep 14, 2009 10:30 AM
Jeff&Grace Safrin
F.C.Tucker 1st Team Real Estate - Valparaiso, IN
SpousesSellingHousesTM

Take care Debbie & Eat lots of good fresh foods for calories needed for healing -thank God for your loving supportive family!

Sincerely,

Grace

Sep 18, 2009 04:09 AM
Dr. Stacey-Ann Baugh
Century 21 New Millennium - Upper Marlboro, MD
A doctor who makes house calls.

Oh my goodness.  I am so glad you are beginning to mend.  It is so frightening how quickly things can go wrong.  Wishing you a speedy journey back to 100% functioning.

Oct 04, 2009 02:27 AM
Deb Brooks
Brooks Prime Properties Wichita Falls Texas - Wichita Falls, TX

Oh Debe, I had no idea till this moment. What a heart wrenching story my dear friend. I so admire you and your writing and your life and all that you do as a professional and....well, I'm sounding gushy now. Did I mention that I admire you? OMG, I do hope you are better and I apologize for being so tardy in learning of this. My life has been tough lately but your story makes me feel as if I have no excuse.

Take care and I adore you.

Deb

Oct 17, 2009 03:08 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Sorry to take so long to get back to this post but, I do want to thank you ALL for your love and support!  It's been a pretty crazy two+ months and I'm only about 1/2 way through rehab now!  HOWEVER, the bone graft took very nicely and so, my plate and screws are on 'solid' ground!  I'm still on passive (with very little of me assisting) motion but, am making progress by the day.  I'm writing a 400K point post and think I'll update my 'arm' status there!

Thanks again!

Nov 07, 2009 04:06 PM
Frank & Jodi Orlando
Frank & Jodi Orlando Get Us A Home Realty Atlanta Homes Sale - Cumming, GA

Glad to hear, some folks even get to sleep on occasion ;-)

Nov 07, 2009 07:08 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

What's sleep, Frank?!  I have seriously been getting very little lately but, am still functioning--I've learned that I don't need the 6 hours that I thought I did before this all happened!!  LOL

Nov 08, 2009 01:19 AM
Frank & Jodi Orlando
Frank & Jodi Orlando Get Us A Home Realty Atlanta Homes Sale - Cumming, GA

Ohhhh fun football next week!!!!!

Nov 08, 2009 01:43 PM
Frank & Jodi Orlando
Frank & Jodi Orlando Get Us A Home Realty Atlanta Homes Sale - Cumming, GA

You got me beat, sometimes 3 hours, sometimes 7. I never know..  Ahh self employed,....

Nov 08, 2009 01:51 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Frank:  Don't remind me!  We had a horrible evening--did I tell you that we need a new quarterback?!  Or, we COULD use the prefectly excellent one that is sitting on the bench!  ARRGH!

As for the sleep--I can't WAIT to get back to sleeping in a bed and going to bed at a decent hour!!  This couch thing STINKS! 

Have a great week...

 

Nov 08, 2009 03:56 PM
Frank & Jodi Orlando
Frank & Jodi Orlando Get Us A Home Realty Atlanta Homes Sale - Cumming, GA

Yeah, Jake just isn't what I remember seeing in games gone by. Can you possibly take on more responsibilities during your recuperation Lol?

Nov 08, 2009 07:29 PM
Blatt + Cutino
Coldwell Banker Realty - Monterey, CA
Broker-Associate 831/206-8070*Call today*

So sorry! You did a great job with the story!

Dec 04, 2009 11:42 PM
Robin Evans
Coldwell Banker Advantage - Cary, NC
Building relationships while getting results.

Hey Debe, 

I just read your "Fall" post and click the link to this one.  Holy cow!  I'm so glad that you are doing well.  I read your blog and have blog envy because of the deals and pictures in each one.  I had no idea that many were completed typing with one hand.  That is amazing.  I love the pictures.  So funny that your husband was clicking away while you were out.  I also have to agree, "I hate sunken rooms".  What are builders thinking?  They must think that it looks cool, without giving any thought to how easily it would be to fall.  Again, thanks for the great post and for the inspiration.  I am now headed back to the "Fall" post for more inspiration. 

Sep 26, 2010 11:15 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

WOW Debe Maxwell, CRS I'm glad I clicked on the link in your answer to a question this evening. Obviously I'm 8 years late but I still feel your pain.

Sep 12, 2017 06:36 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, it's been a long time since anyone has been on this post, Bob "RealMan" Timm! I have to say, it feels good to be able to type and not have to one-hand peck a response to you!  

Yes, it was a crazy time! As it happened, we had my car upfitted for my husband (who is a quadriplegic) to drive with a tripod handle so, I got a doctor's order to drive with adaptive equipment and went right back to work!

I still have a nice incision but, thanks to an amazing surgeon, an extraordinary therapist and a lot of family & friends' prayers, I am back to normal! Life is good! God is great! 

Sep 12, 2017 07:24 PM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Life is good! God is great! AMEN!

Sep 13, 2017 05:56 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Debe - I caught this from the link you left on an answer to a question.  A Drop Zone.  I did not know what that was before reading and after reading ... I am still unsure.  I think it is a room one steps down into.  

In any event, this is a horrible thing!  So good to know that is all behind you now. 

Did your clients buy that home ? 

Sep 24, 2017 07:46 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi, Debe -- like Kathleen Daniels, I saw this post via a link in an answer.   And like Kathleen(again) --- I think we both need some education regarding "drop zone" --- are these like the conversation pits that were popular in the 1970s?   Those sunken rooms around fireplaces?   

I digress...and now since I mentioned Kathleen twice, I'm beginning to think about cherry pie...but there's none in the house.  

Oops -- off course --- thank you sharing this post via the Q&A section(it was written prior to me joining AR).  Your advice to be careful when we are "out there" is an important one and glad you learned from the experience.

Sep 24, 2017 07:54 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Kathleen Daniels! A 'drop-zone' is the area coming into the home from the garage - people typically drop their coats, shoes, backpacks there. Sometimes there are furniture pieces in the area for storage. Here is a picture I just snapped of my drop zone.

 

Drop Zone

And, yes, it's SO nice to have the accident behind me. I have some residual 'weakness' in that arm but, because it's my dominant side, I was bound and determined not to let it change my life...and it hasn't!

So, this one was listed at $1M, if I recall correctly and they bought one from me after my surgery for $1.4M. That house wasn't the right one for them and I'm happy they didn't buy that one either - the builder and his agent never even bothered to phone me to ask how I was doing! They sat on that house for a very long time too - Karma baby!

Sep 24, 2017 10:13 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I always thoroughly enjoy your comments, Michael Jacobs!!  And, a good cherry pie would be DIVINE right now!  

See my comment above to Kathleen Daniels' with regards to the drop zone!

And, yes, I'm THRILLED to have this behind me and learned a valuable lesson not to drop plans with family (or friends) to head out the door with clients on Sundays...or any day, for that matter! 

Happy Sunday, Michael!

Sep 24, 2017 10:20 AM