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Do YOU Give Good Phone?

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty of California, Inc. CA DRE #01490977

The phone, in many ways, has been replaced. Email, texting, and voice mail have become the standard way of communicating, in our business and outside it. Indeed, many people are surprised when we answer our phones and even thank us for doing so. And so often we hear people complaining about the inability to actually speak with someone on the phone, whether it's another agent, a vendor, or a retailer - they have to deal with voice mail, or some complicated voice activated system. And let's not get into the lack of returned phone calls. 

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But assuming you use the phone, and answer, at least from time to time, the question is... 

Do you give good phone?

It's not unlike thank you notes that have gone by the wayside in our age of email. Handling a phone call properly seems, for many, to have become a forgotten skill. Perhaps some people never even learned because of the relianMy Blackberryce on technology these days. 

So what are the elements of giving good phone? 

First, part of giving good phone is in how you answer the call. There's attitude and there's what you say. One of my pet peeves (yes, it may be just me but I don't think so) is people do not identify themselves when they answer a call. They simply say hello. I think that's fine at home but from a business perspective, it's a problem. Since it is easy to misdial, folks need to know they have reached the person they want to speak with. They can't tell that if you answer only with "hello." 

But more importantly, we are running a business - indeed, we ARE a business - and businesses identify themselves as such. It's part of being professional. 

Attitude is also important. So often you reach someone and they sound as if they resent your call. Maybe they don't, but the intonation in their voice and the manner in which they answer says otherwise. Do you smile when you answer? Do you act as if you are glad they called instead of it being bothersome or an intrusion? 

An important thing to keep in mind is a call IS, likely, the FIRST IMPRESSION the caller will have of you and your business. If they have been reading your blog, or corresponding by email then perhaps this is somewhat less important. But since you don't know until you find out who is calling, why take the chance of creating a bad first impression? One which can be difficult to counteract. 

The phone also gives you the opportunity to have a dialogue (well, most of the time). To have an exchange of information, to ask questions, to seek clarification, and, yes, to be friendly, personal and conversational, and establish rapport. It's much harder, I think, to do so in email. And because so many do not answer the phone a conversation can be a way to set you apart from the competition

One last thought. Pay attention to your caller and the conversation. Don't multitask. Ask questions, provide information, and really listen to what they are telling you, or not telling you, so you get the most out of the call. 

You may find the phone may be your best tool in your business,

if you give good phone.

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Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Jeff, my phone is probably still the most important tool in my box.  So many of us depend on email to communicate when we should punch in a phone number.

Sep 27, 2009 03:14 AM
Lorrie Semler, REALTOR® in the Dallas area. Call/text 972-416-3417
HomeSmart Stars - Addison, TX
Real Service. Real Results. Real Estate

Before I had my real estate license, I used a listing agent to sell a home and she never answered her phone. She set aside 2 times a day to return calls.  I hated that.  Another pet peeve of mine is call waiting, whether the receipient of that second call answers it or not.  That fade out of the current conversation is so annoying.  I've had call waiting disabled on my phones.

Sep 27, 2009 03:20 AM
John Rakoci
Eagle Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
North Myrtle Beach Coastal Carolinas

Lack of communication is the biggest complaint of agents according to a study recently completed. I'm TRYING to work with a listing agent now that only answers email and returns calls about every other day. Never answers calls.

Sep 27, 2009 03:29 AM
Theresa Bolin-Alberico
Chicago Title Insurance Company - Mesa, AZ
Chicago Title Gilbert

Jeff,

 I agree with the don't mulittask when on the phone give full attention!  however I am guilty of not stating my name when I answer the phone.  I do identify the company, but a few years back I had an issue with a stalker so from the day forward I omit my personal info when answering the compnay phone.

Sep 27, 2009 03:54 AM
Debbie Aldrich
The Watts Group Real Estate - Cottonwood Heights, UT
Salt Lake City Realtor - Salt Lake County, Cottonwood Heights

Jeff

Voice inflection is a major component in phone communication.

Sep 27, 2009 04:04 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Jeff.I could not agree with you more.. A friendly  professional voice on the other end is so important.Not just for clients but for other Real Estate professionals as well..A simple "hello" is not professional..Identification with a smile on your face is so important..I was taught to answer the phone with a smile.. because it could be seen through the phone..I still believe this to be true..Thank you

HELPFULHANNAH

Sep 27, 2009 04:24 AM
Kim Boekholder Utah Real Estate/ PECO
Results Real Estate 801.580.5624 - Draper, UT
Broker Results Real Estate/Leasing Specialist PECO

This is so true.  I too have disabled my call waiting.  I hate being put on hold and I hate missing out on conversations because of constant phone calls coming in.  Its very important to answer your phone, but make sure your clients understand that you have additional business going.  I had a client/friend once that felt she could call me almost hourly and demanded I answer her call and talk for as long as she wanted every time.  Long story short I ended up firing my client after a $900 phone bill and a lot of verbal abuse because I wasn't able to answer her every call.  So make sure your clients know that you'll do your best to answer all the calls as they come in, but there will obviously be times when you can't respond due to other appointments.

 

Always remember to smile as you answer the phone, it makes it impossible to sound grumpy.  My kids always laugh at me when I do this but boy does it work.

 

Keep smiling

 

Sep 27, 2009 06:37 AM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

Definitely right, Jeff. The first words out of the mouth of someone at the other end of the phone, and the tone of their voice,e clue me in as to whether I am going to have a good eperience with them or not.

And, Lorie (above) that is most definitely a Tom Ferry graduate.  That I really can't stand.  He instructs people to only return messages twice a day between certain times and the message says so.  Right, I am going to sit by the phone and wait for that call back....

Sep 27, 2009 08:42 AM
Terry & Bonnie Westbrook
Westbrook Realty Broker-Owner - Grand Rapids, MI
Westbrook Realty - Grand Rapids Forest Hills MI Re

Don't get me started after going through 2 or 3 extensions and then finally talking to someone only to find out they can't help me. Recently after a wander through a government maze of calls and the third person that could not help me or direct me to the correct person I heard a reoccurring comment as they sent me on to another extension"Good Luck" . I hope I never have to say that to someone calling me for assistance.

Sep 27, 2009 02:00 PM