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I Love You . . . I Love You Not

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Real Estate Agent with Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103

I'm one of those people who thrive in the sun.  Winter depresses me, with its limited daylight, giving wayocean to darkness long before my body clock has time to adjust.  So it surprises the heck out of me, even though we've suffered relentless, record breaking heat in the northeast, laced with oppressive humidity for the most of the summer, that I've spent weeks secretly wishing this torture was over.  An alien concept since from the time I was a little girl in school I looked forward every spring to this season with its promise of a break fom the regimen of homework and curfew, and a time strictly for fun.  I longed for the smell of the ocean and the feeling of sand in my toes, even amused by the inevitable crunch of sand in my food, and I lamented its brevity.  I never could understand how ten weeks of summer could feel so much shorter than the same ten weeks in the dead of winter.  Now, here we are, at the very end of August, and for all intents and purposes, calendar notwithstanding, the summer is over.  There's a sadness in that after all.  In a very short time, as if responding to a cosmic trigger, the weather will start to change, setting in motion mother nature's challenge to make it through another winter.

treeThe one thing I never understood was fashion's edict to abandon our white shoes and handbags, for something more appropriate to the season the minute Labor Day slipped into our very recent past.  Community pools are drained, children are back in school and tans begin to fade.  A strange and positive byproduct of the transition of seasons for me, has always been a sloughing off of old bad habits for a renewed and hopefully better version of myself.  This year it comes in the form of two challenges, the 30 in 30 here, and Roger Mucci's weight loss and healthy eating group (Take It Off In The Rain) to begin on September 7th.  I intend to make it to the finish line on both, a svelte, hopefully more giving blogger.  Hope to see many of you right there with me.

 

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Author:  Geri Sonkin, real estate broker associate/stager/decorator, serving the Long Island real estate market.  For more information, visit www.LongIslandsBestHomes.com or www.AtHomeOnLongIsland.com

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Mary Kay Hopkins
Mary Kay Hopkins, LLC e-PRO, GRI, CRS, CRB - Lake Charles, LA
e-PRO,GRI,CRS

Oh Geri, I understand your weather-conflict!  And, I join you in accepting the two recent challenges.  Pulling for both of us.

Aug 31, 2010 09:40 AM
Richard Shuman
The Only B.S. I Have is from the University of Massachusetts - Lake Mary, FL
Real Estate Broker - Orlando Area - Love Referrals

The phrase, "Be careful of what you wish for" comes to mind.

In the summer we want colder weather in the winter we want warmer weather. ven down here in Florida, January and February can be too cold for comfort and we find ourselves wishing for summer. Then summer comes around and we say, "What were we thinking?!"

The mixed blessing is.. nothing lasts forever

Aug 31, 2010 10:20 AM
Geri Sonkin
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103 - Merrick, NY
Long Island Real Estate & Staging Expert

Mary Kay - I am saddened by the passing of a season we never quite had this year.  As for the challenges.  I have great faith in both of us.  Meet you at the finish line.

Richard - You must be psychic.  Be Care What You Wish For - You Just Might Get It was my working title of this article.  That "nothing lasts forever," is awfully reminiscent of my mother's "this too shall pass."  It all does, doesn't it.

Aug 31, 2010 10:59 AM
Elyse Berman, PA
LoKation Real Estate - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824

Geri,  I love the change of seasons.  I used to look forward to it when we lived in NY, especially the fall.  We don't see much of that in south Florida.  

Best of luck to you on your new endeavors!

Aug 31, 2010 11:09 AM
Geri Sonkin
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103 - Merrick, NY
Long Island Real Estate & Staging Expert

I know Elyse and I really do love all the seasons -- well, except for winter. :)  I would miss it if I lived in a place that was always hot.

Aug 31, 2010 11:12 AM
Robert L. Brown
www.mrbrownsellsgr.com - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids Real Estate Bellabay Realty, West Mic

I don't think summer is truly over just yet. In Michigan wait a couple minutes and things change right before your eyes.

Aug 31, 2010 11:59 AM
Joshua Zargari
MJ Decorators Workshop LI staging and home decorating - Lynbrook, NY
MJ Decorators Workshop

I will take San Diego any time...

Aug 31, 2010 12:33 PM
Pat Haddad, ABR, CRS, ePRO, GRI
Keller Williams Indianapolis Metro NE - Carmel, IN
Carmel, Fishers, Westfield IN Real Estate Expert

Geri---I could have written this.  I definitely identify with everything you said---all except the sand in between the toes.  Lived in Ohio in my youth and there are not many beaches there!  I had hoped to sit out on my deck in the evenings this summer and read some books, but I never got that done--guess there is still a small bit of time.  Did not know about Take It Off In The Rain---will be checking that out!!

Aug 31, 2010 12:43 PM
Emmary Simpson
Las Cruces Homes and Land - Las Cruces, NM
Serving Las Cruces, NM

Living in Southern NM, I always welcome winter!  We rarely get snow here.  If we do, it'll be melted by noon the same day.  I did live in Northern Virginia for a few years and that kind of winter I can do withou!

Aug 31, 2010 12:43 PM
Debra Davis
Keller Williams Realty Atlanta Partners - Snellville, GA
Realtor - Atlanta, Decatur, Snellville, Loganville

I like the change in seasons too. It also gives you a chance to wear different styles of clothes, and shoes. But that's another story.

Aug 31, 2010 12:49 PM
Geri Sonkin
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103 - Merrick, NY
Long Island Real Estate & Staging Expert

Robert - With temperatures today in the 90s and a promise of more of the same tomorrow, summer is not over.  It's just that I feel like a skier perched at the top of a mountain of snow, about to push off.

Joshua - I have to agree with you, San Diego is a great choice.

Pat - It's just going too bloody fast.  I'm excited to be participating in the healthy eating/living, weight loss challenge of Take It Off In The Rain.  It's somehow easier to do with support from others.

Emmary - I could see myself living in a place where snow melts by noon.  If last winter was any indication, it could melt by noon here too, but that noon could be in April. :)

Debra - I do appreciate the change of seasons, but I'd rather have two of any of the others than one winter. 

Aug 31, 2010 01:10 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Hey Geri, I have to say this was by far the fastest summer ever! I do enjoy the changing of seasons, brings new sights, smells and foods to the table :)

Aug 31, 2010 05:08 PM
Geri Sonkin
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103 - Merrick, NY
Long Island Real Estate & Staging Expert

Laura, it did fly by, even though some days were a struggle to get through, with that crazy heat.  I was watching the Rachel Zoe Project before and they were showing a scene from the winter, with slushy snow.  I wonder if it's too late to ask for a do over. :) I'm already dreading winter.

Aug 31, 2010 05:22 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Summer flew by...........but I look forward to all the seasons and the changes Geri.  Looking forward to getting started on the 7th with our healthy eating program, exercise and weight loss..........we'll have a good time and get through it together.

Sep 01, 2010 02:33 AM
Pat & Wayne Harriman
Harriman Real Estate, LLC (203) 672-4499 - Wallingford, CT
Broker/Owners, Wallingford CT Real Estate

We're with you, Geri! Although it's still gonna be in the 90's for a couple more days, then we get hit by the outer fringes of Hurricane Earl on Friday, and Saturday is supposed to be seasonably warm. As for the  weight loss, we've been watching our weight since 2002 and we have lost about 45 pounds, but lately it's been a chore to be consistent with losing weight. Gonna try to keep focused now, thanks for the nudge!

Sep 01, 2010 02:48 AM