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Have you Ever Thought your Post "Laid An Egg ?"

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Real Estate Agent with New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County

Well... it finally happened.  I thought I "laid an egg."  I thought I "wrote a bomb."  How else could I phrase it ?  Let's see.

Ummm... I thought I "lost my touch."  I thought I forgot how to write ?  I am guessing that this has been something many of us Active Rainers have experienced from time to time. 

Anyhoo... back to my story.  Last night, as I was watching the Delaware Primary Election returns on cable... turning back and forth between MSNBC and FOX... I wrote what I thought was a pretty decent post...

I put forth quite a bit of effort... checking all my facts, getting out my Canon Rebel XTi camera and taking about twenty pictures... right off the television screen... to make sure I had a good one for the post I was writing.

So... I tweaked the post... hit "Post Blog Entry"... took a look at it... went back into "edit" mode, made a change or two, re-worded some awkward grammar phrasings, hit spell-check, did my own second "proof-read"... and then hit "Post Blog Entry" again.

I felt it was a decent post.  Felt it should stimulate some good conversation.  I had not written a political post in a long time.  I had been trying to "get away from them."  Much too much "fighting" went on in the comments, and honestly, I was simply tired of all the grief.

 So, I hit submit, I got into my jammies, told Mollie T Cat it was bedtime, and "off we went" to dream land... feeling pretty good about writing what I thought was a decent post.

Then... came this morning.  I got up, hit the "brew" button on the coffee maker..., made some toast, turned on the computer, and hit the "My Blog" button to "see all the wonderful comments" that I just KNEW had been made on my "Delaware Primary" post.

There were ZERO comments.  Nothing.  Nada.  The comment cupboard was bare.

Ouch !  What happened ?  So, into my "detective" mode I went.  Opened the post, went into edit, then submitted again, looked at the comments.  Nuttin' Honey !

So... my mind started to melt.  No comments.  Nobody loves me any more.  My Active Rain life as I have known it... is OVER.  I thought... maybe I should try Tweeting.  (never... that was just me trying to be funny)

Wow... how could that happen ?

Has it ever happened to you... Bloggers and Blog-ettes ?  You wrote what you thought was a good post.  A "decent" post.  You took your time, tried to make it a good post.  Checked everything... and then... It Bombed ?

Ummm... I thought I "lost my touch."  I thought I forgot how to write ?  And, I am guessing that this has been something many of us Active Rainers have experienced from time to time. 

Has it ever happened to you ?  If so... what was your reaction ?  How did it make you FEEL ?  "Touchy-feely" me is curious.

Have you ever thought your post totally "laid an egg ?"

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Mike McCann Nebraska Land Broker
Mike McCann - Broker, Mach1 Realty Farm & Commercial Land Broker-Auctioneer Serving Nebraska - Kearney, NE
Farm & Commercial Property For Sale 308-627-3700

Karen Anne...I usually get in trouble when I talk politics and did not want to make any declamatory remarks either way so I kept my fingers zipped...for now...

Sep 15, 2010 09:03 AM
Cara Marcelle Mancuso
Golden Girls with SW Desert Homes - Tucson, AZ
Call a Marana neighbor, I'm THERE!

You've got SUCH great blogs.  I've written some myself quite thoughtfully, and then some just plain neighborhood informational, and gotten more comments on those.  I don't think I've built up my readership all that much yet, and I try not to get personally attached to what I write. (well I TRY) I also don't express strong opinions about stuff - so I'm pretty  wallflowerish, although I try not to lurk too much. I also try not to get personally attached to whether or not someone might respond (or not) to a comment I spent some time compiling. I guess you can call me eggs over-EASY.... 

Sep 15, 2010 09:08 AM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

I'm with Geri, I never comment on political or religious posts.  You write so well and have many comments, so this is probably the reason for the lack of them on that particular post.  No worries, this one is making up for your loss :)

Sep 15, 2010 09:47 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Write enough posts and eventually you do lay an egg.  Are you sure it wasn't still in Draft mode.  I've done that to myself before. 

Sep 15, 2010 09:49 AM
Jack Mossman - The Nines Team at Keller Williams in Stockton
The Nines Team At Keller Williams - Stockton, CA
The Nines Team at Keller Williams in Stockton

Karen Anne - I made a call this afternoon to just tell you "thank you" for all the guidance and wisdom that you share so freely.  I have noticed, that sometimes it's timing .... you can post one minute, pour a cuppa and go look and you are page three!  Then you just have to wait for your subscribers to catch up!

Sep 15, 2010 10:25 AM
Joan Mirantz
Homequest Real Estate - Concord, NH
Realtor, GRI, CBR, SRES - Concord New Hampshire

I feel your pain....especially since I was off here for a while and a lot of the folks that were my "regular" back and forths (who could be counted on) either aren't on or aren't on as much!

I also think many of the political commenters aren't here any more...
Oh....and you haven't lost your touch!

Sep 15, 2010 11:20 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

Karen Anne I have become a pro at laying the proverbial egg on ActiveRain. You don't even comment on some late night ideas I may spring =(

Sep 15, 2010 11:31 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hey pain - what pain?  Get off the chicken or is it the nest?  I don't know but I do know I've been there and it's aok.  Most folks never comment on market updates or some hyper local posts.  That's fine as I'm writing for my local folks.  I rememer when I first started here it took some time before anything got commments - but I just kept on and on.  You beautful & sweet Karen are so darn funny I can't imagine anybody not enjoying your back and forth conversations!  I for one love em!

Sep 15, 2010 12:47 PM
Ellie McIntire
Ellicott City Clarksville Howard County Maryland Real Estate - Ellicott City, MD
Luxury service in Central Maryland

Dearest Karen Anne. I did read that post last night, but I did not know enough about the subject to comment. I did not want to look dumb. As an immigrant I am still learning the entire political game. Just yesterday I left most of my ballot card empty because I had never heard of the people!

I would have clicked the "LIKE" button if it had one!!!!!!!

Sep 15, 2010 02:37 PM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Karen Anne, I just came from commenting your political post...doesn't look like and "egg" to me.  I feel the same as Jane in that I try to stay away from political and religious issues as both can be very annoying and frustrating debates....I'm also well aware of the "egg" theory!!!

Sep 15, 2010 05:16 PM
Terri Flight
RE/MAX Regency - Northern Virginia - Manassas, VA

At the point I am writing this, there are now 17 comments on the post you referred to as "laid an egg."  I always enjoy your posts, which is why I have subscribed.  I'm only online in the mornings, and only about 5 days a week.  I have not happened to read your last few posts, but pulled up your blog for some good reading this morning.  Keep plugging away, and good luck with the 30 day challenge. 

Sep 16, 2010 03:13 AM
Claire Record
Keller Williams Realty--Boerne Hill Country - Boerne, TX

Oh, Karen...you will never lose your touch!  You're one of my favorite bloggers.  I haven't been on AR for a few days...so I missed your political blog.  Even if I had read it...I'd probably refrain from saying anything about it because I have been nailed to the cross for some of my opinions lately.  I'm a little gun shy.  Do you think that maybe that could be the reason others didn't write too? 

In my book, Karen...all your blogs are good eggs.

Sep 16, 2010 04:29 AM
Eric Kodner
Madeline Island Realty - La Pointe, WI
CRS, Madeline Island Realty, LaPointe, WI 54850 -

Karen Anne - We've all been astonished by a post from time to time that receives zero comments.  I'm a big fan of your writing!

Sep 16, 2010 11:31 AM
Jenny Kotulak
RE/MAX Real Estate Centre Inc., Brokerage - Oakville, ON
Broker - Oakville Ontario Real Estate

OK Missy there is NO way that any of your posts would get no, zero, notta, zilch comments.  I'm sure you went to bed bleary eyed and pressed the draft mode again instead of public??? I betcha.

Anywho I guess I should pop over to see your little political post but I guess it probably isn't very Canadiancentric.

You lay an egg???  Only golden ones my dear.

Sep 16, 2010 05:02 PM
John Grasty
for real estate results in the Tri-Cities. - Port Moody, BC
Your Tri-cities REALTOR, neighbour and volunteer.

Well... it finally happened.  I thought I "laid an egg."

After 17 comments at last check Karen Anne, I'd like to order a carton of one dozen please. Or how about a flat of 24?

:-J

Sep 16, 2010 06:58 PM
Tim Maitski
Atlanta Communities Real Estate Brokerage - Atlanta, GA
Truth, Excellence and a Good Deal

It happens to me all of the time.  I wonder what's the matter with people around here.  Why don't they recognize a great post when I write it?

But then I just figure that people aren't ready for my ideas and thoughts yet.  So I just continue on.  Eventually people will realize how good my posts really are :) 

If I like my post and think I hit it just right, I'm a happy camper. I feel good. I feel a great release.  Some day I will be found.    

Sep 17, 2010 01:21 AM
Marie-Denise Kratsios
Daniel Gale Sotheby's International Realty - Huntington, NY
Where ever you are, that's where I'll be!

Oh boy, can I relate.  I had 3 or 4 withn the last 2 weeks that didn't have comments.  No need to worry about your posts--they're wonderful and I can only hope that one day I will receive the number of comments that you seem to average.  Keep on writing.  Good stuff.

Sep 17, 2010 01:22 PM
Gina Nugent
Donohue RE - Palm Beach, FL
Real Estate Agent - Palm Beach, FL

Karen Anne! Lay as many eggs as you want, I will still read it and even though I am an AR member only for a few weeks, I know you well enuff that I for sure find something homorous and thoughtful in your stinky post....you rock, and are one of my favorite people here......

Oct 06, 2010 07:11 PM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Gina in # 41:  Since you are a relative Newbie... here is a tutorial post that I think you might find useful.  I just looked at your Profile, and checked out your Groups, and you need at least about twenty more.   Using the Active Rain "Groups Feature."

Also... I might suggest that you Subscribe to my blog, and also I invite you to Add me as an Associate.  Just a suggestion.

Oct 06, 2010 07:19 PM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Marie-Denise in # 40:  I looked at your blog and your posts just now, and you really write very well.  You SHOULD be getting more comments.  I looked at some of the posts closely, and saw that you do not usually list the posts in the maximum of FIVE Active Rain Groups.  You are much too invisible... and need to have more folks read your posts.  That will really help as far as comments are concerned.

Here is a tutorial post that I wrote recently about the Active Rain Groups feature.  ** Want More Comments ? Using the Active Rain "Groups Feature" Will Really Help !  I really think that after you read this... you will see the value in always including your post in five of the Active Rain groups.  Hope this helps, and if more questions, please ask.  Okay ?  <smile>

Also... I might suggest that you Subscribe to my blog, and also I invite you to Add me as an Associate.  Just a suggestion.

Take care...

Oct 06, 2010 07:25 PM