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When your spirit is crushed, so is your desire to win

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590

If you are a sports fan, you will know spirit plays a major role in a game.  If the player's spirit is high, they play hard, theysports spirit are motivated to move around quickly; they want to win. On the other hand, if the spirit is low, they are dragging, they make mistakes that shouldn't make, and eventually may lose the game.

Many times we let others to crush our spirit, with or without knowing it.  For example, if someone else is ahead of their game, it may seem like we are going no where, just flowing around aimlessly.  We don't have the spirit to fight, to win, and we allow that to crush our spirit.  

We need a game plan when we play, we have to stay alert, watch where the action is going. We are trying to win, to stay ahead of the other team.  We may occasionally lose a few points, but we have to think quick to catch up, get back into the game, we want to win.

It is easy to get distracted, but we shouldn't let it stay long with us.  Stay in the game, keep our spirit high if we want to win.  Even if there is a coach on our side, and we have cheerleaders cheering us on, it is still up to us how to play the game to win.

Do you want to win?  Are your spirits high or will you let your spirits be crushed and lose this game?

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Stephen Sainte-Martin
Realty Direct Boston - Boston, MA

Rita:

This is when perseverence comes in---you have to hang in there.

Stephen

Sep 18, 2010 04:02 PM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Rita, you may have written the perfect post. Excellent.

Sep 18, 2010 04:09 PM
Pat, Ben and Martin Mullikin
M3 Realty - Brookfield, WI

Are you playing to win, or are you playing not to lose? Are you competing against someone else (singular or plural) or are you competing against yourself, and tracking your OWN numbers. I have observed that sometimes when competing against others, agents may take undue risk and do things that may walk a fine line of ethics or law - just to get that next deal locked up and beat so-an-so.

Sep 18, 2010 04:13 PM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Stephen, hang in there and keep the chin high, don't let others crush your dream.

Charles, you think? lol, thanks!

Pat, it is true.  Some agents will do anything to achieve their goal, no matter their spirit is high or low.

Sep 18, 2010 04:21 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Rita, Despite what life hands you, pressing on is important to continue moving forward. Granted, we will be tested and sometimes pushed hard but it's important not to let other people determine your outcomes. Great post!

Sep 18, 2010 04:32 PM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Wanda, we sure face lots of test everyday.  If we don't keep our faith and focus, we can lose every game easily.

Sep 18, 2010 04:40 PM
Lora "Leah" Stern 914-772-4528
Coldwell Banker, 170 N Main Street, New City NY 10956 - New City, NY
Real Estate Salesperson

Rita, its mind over matter.  Attitude is so often a determining factor in life.  If your attitude is not a positive or winning one, your less likely to succeed.

Sep 18, 2010 04:41 PM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Lora, many times people let the others to affect what they want and think.  If we allow our weak moment to take over our thoughts, it can go spiral.  

Sep 18, 2010 04:54 PM
Eileen Hsu
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Manhattan, NY
LICENSED REAL ESTATE SALESPERSON

Good post Rita. It is true that we have to be very mentally strong being in our business. It is through focus and determination with goals in mind that keep us in track.

Sep 19, 2010 12:05 AM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Thanks, Eileen!  I think it applies to life in general, if we feel defeated, we will be defeated.  

Sep 19, 2010 02:04 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Rita, what a great post! You are so right, crushing spirits can damage everything. We need to be mindful of this on both sides, not to let our spirits get crushed and not to be a spirit crusher.

Sep 19, 2010 08:23 AM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Andrea, many people feel down very easily, and I truly understand how it feels.  I am not born with a silver spoon in my mouth.  The only way to make things going is to try to make it work.  When someone becomes soulless, they just allow themselves to be defeated.  Hang around with people with high spirit can help to lift the low ones up.  

Sep 19, 2010 08:47 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Hey Rita great up lifting post! Yes many times people we be quick to "crush" the stressfulness that lay a head of you.  I have seen clients, friends go throught exactly what you describe.... and even people do this to me...very annoying and sad but, as you say (and mom said) just keep pushing forward. You will have people not believe in you, so you need to believe in yourself :)

Sep 19, 2010 08:54 AM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Laura, Carole always gave good advice, sometimes I felt like she was my mom, too. :) I think people tend to be jealous very easily, they really don't like to see others being successful.  They hope they will crush and burn, how sad for someone to think like that.  Trust me, I went through the same thing when I first started real estate, the worst is those are the people who are related to me.  They didn't crush my spirit, just open my eyes very well to see how they really are, and I am glad I didn't let them hurt me.

Sep 19, 2010 09:01 AM
Loreena and Michael Yeo
3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. - Prosper, TX
Real Estate Agents

Rita - I learnt just recently (a year exactly) about how powerful the MIND is. I also realized what I "feed" it is important. I want to thank you for sharing this. I want to tell you, I want to walk hand in hand with you on this one. Girl power, girlfriend.

Sep 20, 2010 12:37 AM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Loreena, mind is an interesting thing. It can make us to do so many things beyond our belief, use it wisely.  Sky is the limit!

Sep 20, 2010 03:49 AM