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Mother Jailed For Sending Her Children to a Better School

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Kelly William-Bolder, an Akron, Ohio mother wanted her children to get a better and safer education for her children than was available in her own school district. So, she sent her kids to a neighboring school district that her father lived in.

Ms. Williams-Bolder was discovered and went to trial where she was convicted and sentenced to 10 days in jail.

Granted, Ms. Bolder cheated the system that was in place. She lied for her children. She violated the law. But should she have gone to jail. Her story is an indictment of a system that is failing, especially minority children.

Too many areas around the country have poorly performing shool districts right next door to highly performing districts. I understand the system is normally based upon property tax revenues and the districts with higher property values can fund better school buildings, materials and programs. But somehow this is just not right.

I am not proposing redistribution of wealth, but somehow, we need to find a way to make educational opportunities equitable. And we need to do it not by taking away from those that are going to quality schools, with quality tools and facilities. We need to do it by lifting up and revitalizing those systems that are failing.

There are many good ideas out there on how to do this, many great brains. We need to get past NIMBY, we need to get past stubbornness in adminstrators, unions and parents, and do what is best for all children. We need to eliminate the conditions that drive parents like Kelly Williams-Bolder into doing what she did. While she did violate the law, I cannot find fault in her actions.

The full story can be found here.

John Meussner
Mortgages in AZ, CA, CO, DE, FL, GA, IN, MD, MN, MT, NC, NJ, NV, OK, OR, PA, SC, SD, TN, TX, UT, VA, WI - Fair Oaks, CA
#MortgageMadeEasy Fair Oaks, CA 484-680-4852

Nice post, Mike.  I completely agree with you.  Some laws SHOULD be broken, and this is one instance where I find nothing wrong with what the mother did.  Better education=better opportunities...isn't that a parents goal in raising their children?  To ensure they have all of the opportunities of the world available to them? 

Education is certainly a broken system

Jan 26, 2011 05:21 AM
Jamie Daws
Town & Country Realty, L.L.C. - Brown City, MI

That's awful! Any decent mother would have done the same thing. Here in Michigan we have school of choice.  We are very fortunate to be able to decide what is in our childs best interest instead of the government doing it for us.

Jan 26, 2011 05:24 AM
Charles Buell
Charles Buell Inspections Inc. - Seattle, WA
Seattle Home Inspector

Mike, I am afraid that social "equality" will always require redistribution of wealth---or whatever you want to call it that doesn't sound like redistribution of wealth.

Jan 26, 2011 05:27 AM
Nick Dailey
RE/MAX Affiliates - Union, KY
RE/MAX: Northern Kentucky Real Estate - NKY MLS - Short Sale

I especially can't blame her knowing the troubles Akron is currently facing.

Jan 26, 2011 05:39 AM
Broker Nick
South Florida Real Estate & Development, Inc. - Coconut Creek, FL
Broker Nick Relocation Broker Service

Sentenced to ten days in jail for lying about school zoning? How about lying about where you were born and became President?

Jan 26, 2011 05:46 AM
Paul Walker
Equity Fifty Five Realty, LLC - Scott AFB, IL
Scott AFB IL Area Realtor

I can't blame her for what she did. She is trying to get a better education for her children. If it was up to me we would do away with the "Free Public School System" that is not free and replace it with any school that wants to open, whether it be a church based school (any church, mosgue, synagouge, whatever) and any corporate school whether it be owned by Boeing, Proctor & Gamble, or any group that wants to start a school that they think there would be interest in. It needs to teach the ABC's and the 3 R's but could focus on science, technology, arts & music, business, balancing a budget and checkbook (for all I care since this isn't really taught), but anything that children would be interested in they could focus on. Children would see their parents writing a check to pay for their education each month, and children would like the school because it teaches them whatever they are most interested in learning. If the children don't like that school or decide it is not teaching what they want to focus on they can see if another school in their area teaches or focuses on another area of learning. A percentage of the tuition would be "tax deductible".

Jan 26, 2011 06:10 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

WE have a program where you can go to a differnet school than the one in your neighborhood, If that district has room.  
Hard to blame a parent when they just want something better and tries on thier own to get it!

Jan 26, 2011 10:00 AM
Wallace S. Gibson, CPM
Gibson Management Group, Ltd. - Charlottesville, VA
LandlordWhisperer

...no mention of WHY one school is BETTER than another?  Curious!

Jan 26, 2011 10:17 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Mike

This is a little over the top. 10 days in jail I don't think so.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Jan 26, 2011 11:25 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

John - thanks, educational opportunity is something that definitely needs to be a equal, but excellent, playing field.

Jamie - but this was in a different township, not sure school choice applies

Charles -equal opportunity does not necessarily mean social equality and does not necessarily require redistribution of wealth

Nick - I am unfamiliar with Akron's problems but do know that the disparity is in a lot of places

Nicholas - sometimes it isn't about Obama, this is one of those times

Paul - excellent ideas, but, I think the implementation would end up leaving a lot of kids behind

William - that sounds like a start

Wallace - I believe it was indirect in that it mentioned that the other school district was wealthier

Lou - yeah, especially now since she will not get her nursing, or was that teaching, degree.

Jan 26, 2011 12:33 PM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

Ridiculous, she was trying to help her kids. I am a firm believer in schools of choice. Parents know their kids best and should be allowed to pursue every opportunity for them.

 

Jan 26, 2011 01:17 PM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

Hey Mike! For years we have had an open enrollment system here in Minot but this year we had to shut it down. The reason is many of the schools have no room for any more students. It's not an Exodus from one school to another it's a shortage of space due to our oil boom and the huge influx of new people. It's a good/bad problem to have.

Jan 26, 2011 02:52 PM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Missy - I am not sure how school choice would work between different towns, but, I agree

Bob - you have an entirely different problem there it appears, how fortunate

Jan 26, 2011 03:50 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

I am so sorry to hear that... It's a shame...

Jan 26, 2011 11:20 PM
Jesse Skolkin
Independent New York State Certified Real Estate Appraiser - Fresh Meadows, NY

I saw the story yesterday, and the worst part of it in my opinion is that the mom was studying to be a teacher, and with a felony conviction will be unable to do so.

Jan 27, 2011 12:52 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

C - just another tragic story in America

Jesse - a terrible situation for all

Jan 27, 2011 01:09 AM
Jon Budish
Resident Realty - Fort Collins, CO

But! If you're in the country illegally, not only do we owe them an education, but they deserve in-state tuition to colleges? Obama-ites should be so proud!

Jan 29, 2011 06:20 AM
Mike Saunders
Retired - Athens, GA

Jon - but this is not about illegals or Obama, but about a pair of local school systems

Jan 29, 2011 07:35 AM