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Emotionally Disconnecting Sellers

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with 3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. #9001154

As much listings that I take, one of the challenges I face (next to pricing) is emotionally disconnecting Sellers from their houses. Some understand with a clear mind (to get the most for their money) while others feel hurt thinking what they have is purrfect!!!

Buyers know that they can change out window treatments, repaint a wall or change out the carpet into hardwood floors (at least a good real estate professional would constantly reiterate that), but our job (both Sellers and Listing agents) is to appeal to the broadest audience in taste

 

Window Treatments: Scallopy, lacey and fruit motive draperies are signs of the 90's and some houses built in 2000 still carry the decor. Some are custom-made and that means they came with some hefty price tags. Another objection is that having "custom-made stuff" is better than $10 more up-to-date valances. How could that be? Also, jacquard or even solid prints are better than fruit-motive fabrics.... Vertical blinds are out and regular panel drapery is in.

       

Wallpaper: Wallpaper is out and wall colors are in. Sellers feel that buyers can remove them if they did not like it. That way, they can choose their own colors. Buyers on the other hand realize how difficult it may be to remove the wallpaper and if there was a house that had wall color versus wallpaper, they choose the "wall color" in a heartbeat (generally). Also, busy wallpaper prints are distracting. The key to selling a home is to sell wall and floor spaces, not to give Buyers a headspin at the busy wallpaper print. Another seller - and - buyer divide. Just take a look at this real-life example:

  

Need I say more?

Wall Colors: Think soothing instead of boldness. Neutral beige, tans, light sage, light grays (with the right choices of artwork and window treatments) appeals to most buyers instead of purples, reds, blues and greens. I have heard Buyers say they are not too excited about the "Dark Pink Poodle" wall but almost never hear that they did not like the neutral beige on the wall. Also, if they are bold color people, they almost know they have to paint while the neutralist buyers are often afraid to see boldness in the walls and often think about the amount of work and primer that needs to go into "fixing" the walls.

  

I can almost go on and on about various items in the house. But you get the picture.... I could go on about the Why We Need To Do Them, but disconnecting Sellers remain to be a challenging. How could you ask someone to do that when a family is built around it? We could talk about how de-plainning/ de-personalizing the house brings them more money, sells the house faster, but the clients have to trust you enough to let go. Some Sellers take it easier than others.

The constant challenge we (who really did not have the emotional connection to the client's stuff)  have to face.

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Drew Riley
Spa Realty, Inc Team Riley - Hot Springs, AR
good info to follow!
Sep 25, 2007 06:30 AM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro
Lorenna, excellent advise!  I loved the comparison examples you gave.  Sometimes  a picture is worth a thousand words. Have you taken one of the staging classes? I have been thinking about taking one. 
Sep 25, 2007 12:32 PM
Cindy Lin
Staged4more School of Home Staging - South San Francisco, CA
Host, The Home Staging Show podcast

This is great advice. It's tough to do it, but sellers need to treat their homes like products to be able to let it go and make the max profits.

Cheers,

Cindy 

Sep 25, 2007 04:23 PM
Jackie Peraza
Perceptions AdverStaging(TM), LLC - Framingham, MA
Home Stager - Framingham, Massachusetts

Loreena - the makeovers are terrific.  Did you do those for your clients?  Lucky clients if you did

Jackie

Sep 25, 2007 04:44 PM
Loreena and Michael Yeo
3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. - Prosper, TX
Real Estate Agents

Drew: Thanks for reading my post. 

Marchel: I took the staging class early this year. I cannot tell you how much it helped me look at "staging" with a whole new outlook. I used to see it as home decorating.... which is not. I definitely encourage taking the class.

I also got to know Karen Otto from the class. She's an awesome stager here in Plano. Believe it or not, I have other agents that call me about staging and asking for my referrals. You know whom I send them to - because I am not in the staging business.

Cindy: It's so difficult to say it politely and for them not to talk it the wrong way..... Almost impossible.

Jackie: Yes, the clients did the makeovers themselves per my recommendations. Believe it or not, it only took them less than 24 hours to get an offer.

Sep 26, 2007 12:32 AM