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How Good Are We, People?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408

A few days ago I walk into my office and my son, who works with me, said that one of the agents we know quite well was in trouble. She has just sent him an e-mail and she desperately needed help.

My guts have that elusive sixth sense that my head doesn't, and they started telling me that this was going to be a hoax. I told the guts to shut up and listen to the story.

Well, it was simple. Poor Virginia went to London for the weekend. Her purse wth money, documents, credit cards was stolen. She had contacted her bank, but it would take a few days for them to get her a new card, and meanwhile she needed to get o a plane.

Could we help her with some money, and she would pay us immediately upon return.

My guts started playing drums and some victorious tune. They felt the hoax.

I told my son that it was a hoax, but he was hesitant. He said it came from Virginia's e-mail.

kindnessNo, it didn't. We went to headers and, yep, it was redirected. We immediately called Virginia and left a message for her on her voice mail.

Later we got another e-mail, from the same e-mail. But this time my guts told me it was real. She wrote to please, not to send any money to anyone, that some bastard(s) had hijacked her e-mail address, and, of course, she did not go to any London or any other place for that matter.

She also wrote that she was very thankful for the outpour of support and offers to help.

And I thought that maybe bastards help us understand how good we are as people. If they are exploiting our kindness, empathy, honesty, it means we have it.

We still have it...

* Image courtesy of SweetOnVeg via FLickr.com under Creative Commons License

April Swenson
Coldwell Banker Ocean Shores Brokers - Ocean Shores, WA
CRS and Managing Broker - Ocean Shores Real Estate

I heard of this happening to a past client of mine.  I received an e-mail that she was out of money, etc (the same as you).  Although, I e-mailed her back and asked whether she was ok.  Apparently someone hacked into her e-mail account and sent this e-mail out to her contacts.  So, I hope people are made aware of this scam.  Thank you for writing this blog.

May 22, 2011 05:09 PM
Kathleen Vetrano
RE/MAX Gateway - Falls Church, VA
Helping YOU Achieve YOUR Dreams

These emails have been going around for a while now.  Waiting for the new creative follow up idea they come up with.  Caution is warranted because you know it will be thought of. 

 I feel sorry for the person who really does end up needing help when this does happen to them.

May 22, 2011 05:17 PM
Jenny Kotulak
RE/MAX Real Estate Centre Inc., Brokerage - Oakville, ON
Broker - Oakville Ontario Real Estate

Yah, I'm pretty good at smelling a hoax also.  I think if someone was in dire straits they would pick up the phone and call rather than send an email.

May 22, 2011 05:27 PM
Steven Wright
Home Real Estate - Aurora, CO
CRS - Home Real Estate - 720-989-5283

Thanks for the warning.  I will watch to make sure I don't get any of these kinds of emails.  If I do, I will check them out.

May 22, 2011 05:27 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Liz - it was exactly how we felt, and I was glad she had so many people calling trying to be of help.

May 22, 2011 05:27 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Karen - I appreciate both your understanding that this is  not about bastards, but us, and your hint about Jewel, and, as you can see, I embedded the song here.

thank you

May 22, 2011 05:28 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Guys, please, please, please. this is not a warning, this is not about people creating scams, this is about us, kind and caring people.

And this is about the joy that we are still kind and caring... not to how to tell a hoax...

This is what it was about.

May 22, 2011 05:32 PM
Lindsey Hasford
Edina Realty - Elk River, MN
Bringing you home...

I know very few people who would ask for that kind of help through email. Good to check your gut instincts before running to aid on that one.

May 22, 2011 05:32 PM
Pamela Seley
West Coast Realty Division - Murrieta, CA
Residential Real Estate Agent serving SW RivCo CA

Scamsters will not stop at anything. Other people's kindness is what they take advantage of.

May 22, 2011 05:46 PM
Lloyd Binen
Certified Realty Services - Saratoga, CA
Silicon Valley Realtor since 1976; 408-373-4411

That happened to me last year when someone hacked into my g-mail account.  Same scam and same story.  Please send money to me in London.

It created a big hassle for a couple days.  Luckily the e-mailer didn't say where in London to send the money.

May 22, 2011 06:00 PM
Judith Abbott
Coldwell Banker Residential - Dallas, TX

The first time I got that email, it claimed to be from a friend who splits her time between Dallas and London.  She is someone who has sufficient life experiences, resources and friends that it would be right at impossible for her to ever be stranded in any foreign capital anywhere in the world.  I was pretty certain it was a hoax.  None the less I made discrete inquiries.  It was indeed a hoax.

The 2nd time, again, it was for someone else who it would be unthinkable for them to be truly stranded anywhere.  They could figure their way out of anything, anywhere.  They can because they have.

The 3rd time it happened, it claimed to be from another friend, again, someone who could make a single phone call and tap into financial and personal resources that most of us can only dream of accessing.

After that, I just stopped paying attention to them.  I spend a silent moment of pity for the person involved, a kind of virtual equivalent of saying a prayer, ...because I know that it will take several days for them to untangle the mess created by having your email contacts list hijacked.  Bless 'em.


Thanks for the post!

May 22, 2011 06:19 PM
John Michailidis
Real Property Management of Sarasota & Manatee - Sarasota, FL
Real Property Management of Sarasota & M

Well everyone, this is really me, and I would love to go to London, so if you would all just send me some money . . . ;-)

May 22, 2011 06:38 PM
Wale Adewoyin
1st Crown Realty Corporation 503-512-6200 - Saint Helens, OR

Its a shame when people waste their minds on unproductive schemes.

May 22, 2011 10:27 PM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

That is so awful that people would do that.  How ere you able to tell it was redirected?

May 22, 2011 10:46 PM
Gail C. Harris
Resource Network, LLC SFR, AHWD, ACRE, SMAR Board Director - Chesapeake Beach, MD
Reach the BEACH with Gail C. Harris (cell: 703.868

If I see an email that says, I need money, or to be redirected, I just delete it.  Liked the Jewel video.  Nice.

May 22, 2011 10:48 PM
Bob Jakowinicz
National Realty Centers Livonia--Bob Jakowinicz - Livonia, MI
Michigan Real Estate Agent-- MI Real Adventures

I haven't seen that one in awhile.  Nice to now that so many would help out too bad how hyper-vigilant we have to be over everything being a scam 

May 23, 2011 01:43 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Jewel and Hands is one of my faves Jon about kindness. Glad you had the HOAX detector up and running strong. That one is one of the stupidest cries for help out there.

May 23, 2011 03:23 AM
Broker Nick
South Florida Real Estate & Development, Inc. - Coconut Creek, FL
Broker Nick Relocation Broker Service

People still want to exploit the goodness in man - and to destroy the trust we have in the word of people.

May 23, 2011 03:44 AM
Karen Baker
Sunset Beach and Beyond Realty - Sunset Beach, NC
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Jon ~ I have the gut feeling quite often and somehow the gut always knows the right thing to do! Whew, glad to hear you went with your gut!!

May 23, 2011 12:12 PM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Jon we have to listen to our gut. same thing happened to me last year when I got an email from my travel agent saying about the same thing.

May 24, 2011 09:35 AM