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Kindred Spirits in the Rain

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Grants Pass, OR 199909023

Kindred Spirits in the RainKindred Spirits in the Rain.  I've been asked a few times about my reference to Kindred Spirits.  If you've ever watched any of the 'Anne of Green Gables' series, you know exactly what I'm talking about.  For those of you who haven't had the lovely pleasure of seeing a clip, here's my definition of a Kindred Spirit (KS)...

A Kindred Spirit... is someone you feel an instant connection with.  You can laugh with them and cry with them and you never feel like you're being judged by them.  Kindred Spirits are always there for you, celebrating your achievements and encouraging you when things go horribly wrong.  A Kindred Spirit is very intuitive, so much so, they can often finish your thought or sentence.  Sometimes they know you better than you know yourself. 

Upon first meet of a Kindred Spirit, you feel like you've known them your entire life. Kindred Spirits feel a genuine love for people. They relate on a very deep and soulful level. There's a fluency and ease to their relationships and they communicate effortlessly.  And... Kindred Spirits never try to fit a square peg in a round hole.   

Kindred Spirits have a wicked sense of humor and they're not afraid to show their playful side.  They can be silly and serious in the same conversation, which is what makes them so lovable.  They make you smile and you crave their presence.  You always know where you stand with a Kindred Spirit as they tend to wear their heart on their sleeve.  They are kind, considerate, respectful, courteous and caring human beings.   

Kindred Spirits are highly sought after souls... when you find one, it's like finding a buried treasure.  They exude joy and they make your life richer in every way.  Do you know a few Kindred Spirits in the Rain?  I do!

 Kindred Spirits in the Rain - Mel Peterson

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Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Melinda, What no gents in that picture? I guess that might be a tough pic to find. I totally get your kindred spirit point of view.

 

Do you mean Anne of Green Gables starring Colleen Dewhurst? Loved that one.  Of course Prince Edward Island reminds me always of my home State of Maine.

Jun 16, 2011 11:17 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Totally cool Alexandra!  Kindred Spirits need to stick together!

I knew you'd get it Charles... and gents are totally welcome here ;)  Marilla was a gem, wasn't she?!  A tough exterior, but she truly loved that Anne Girl. 

Jun 16, 2011 11:25 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Yes, I know a few here in the Rain too Melinda and they keep me laughing, learning and loving! Great post!

Jun 16, 2011 11:36 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Ahhh Melinda a post that is music to my ears!  I feel like I'm surrouned by so many Kindred Spirits both here in the Rain and in my life.  They're my favorite peeps!!!!  Cause they've got TUDE!

Featured in BananaTude!

Jun 16, 2011 11:43 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Me too Wanda... and it's a great feeling!

Ahhh Anna... Coming from you, that's music to my ears :)

Jun 16, 2011 11:51 AM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Oh, Melinda Girl !  What a fantastic post!!!!  I had a perfect AR day!  There are a lot of wonderful people in the Rain, but hard to find a true KS.  This really made my day.  Matthew and Marilla were the BEST!  LOVE YOU!

Jun 16, 2011 12:59 PM
Kristine Ginsberg
Elite Staging and Redesign, LLC - Short Hills, NJ
NJ Home Stager

Melinda - why yes I do and you are one of them - great sense of humor, adrenaline junkie and a positive attitude! Nothing like AR for meeting like-minded people - who else would I have gotten to know such a great girl! Suggested kindred sport!

Jun 16, 2011 02:35 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

OK, Melinda--you have just described my best girlfriend and I to a "T", right down to Anne of Green Gables!!! Oh, my gosh, unbelievable. From the very moment that we met, we were INSTANT friends, and have been best buds for 28 years...wow. When her mom suddenly died very early one morning, she called me. I raced over there. Later that day, we hunkered down in her bed and sat side-by-side and watched Anne of Green Gables and laughed and cried....

I am reading a book right now that you have to at least check out....The Girls From Ames, a biography of girlfriends who have a forty year friendship--marvelous. Jeffrey Zaslow is the author.

Let me know if you end up reading it--I would love to talk w/someone about it!

Jun 16, 2011 03:32 PM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

To my three lovely ladies... Mimi, Kristine & Gayle ~ This post is so befitting you girls.  I feel like I've known you ladies my entire life... such Kindred Spirits indeed.  I feel a special connection to all three of you!  Each one of you add such pizazz to my little world... giving me smiles and laughter all day long.  What friendships we have kindled here.  If we could bottle this, we'd be drunk and rich off this elixir for sure... it's good stuff!  Mimi... I'll see you (soon) when I turn 50... it's all about the cupcakes girl.  Kristine... I'm prayin for ya and I'll be there in Spirit on surgery day... you rock girl!  Gayle... my new Oregonian bosom buddy, we'll start our own book club... I'll read it, I promise!  Can't wait!

Jun 16, 2011 04:11 PM
Sonja Patterson
Keller Williams - BV - College Station, TX
Texas Monthly 5-Star Realtor Recipient for the Hou

Melinda, I love this post!  KS friendships are such a gift/blessing!!  My daughter's class read Anne of Green Gables this year, so we will have to get ahold of those videos! :)

Jun 16, 2011 04:23 PM
Brian L. Sirota, Esq.
Bristar Realty (Realtor/Attorney) - Orange, CA
For Solutions: (714) 501-7660

To boldly go where few men have gone before. (Charles, you're a brave one!)

Jun 16, 2011 05:11 PM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Sonja ~ Welcome girl... and a huge ditto!  Watch the videos, they are classics!

Brian ~ I was wondering when you were going to show... my fellow Bosom Buddy & KS ;)  You're in good company with Charles. 

Jun 16, 2011 05:16 PM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Melinda, I have met many a kindred spirit here in the 'rain.... isn't it great!!!!

Jun 16, 2011 11:22 PM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

I'm gonna read it, too!  We'll add Rebekah and start an AR BOOK CLUB.  How fun would THAT be?  Really a fantastic post, KS.

Jun 17, 2011 05:58 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Fun post Melinda. I love it - thanks for stopping by my blog and leaving me the sweet note and invite to check out Kindred Spirits.  I look forward to getting to know you better via Active Rain - and all the other "Kindred Spirits" we meet along the way.

Jun 17, 2011 08:45 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Melinda,

Your post is so joyful and soulful too! It's exactly what I needed to hear and you expressed yourself with such clarity that I hope that I can be a kindred spirit too. There is something unique about the kindred spirits you described and when we meet people like that, as you say, you know it, almost immediately. Perhaps that's why I've noticed the great posts you've written. Melinda, you truly are a joy and you bring sunshine in the RAIN.

Patricia

Jun 17, 2011 10:21 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Me too Andrea... AR is a special place for kindred spirits to gather!

Mimi ~ Let's include Rebekah in our lunch plans!  You girls are cupcake material!

Thank you Debb... I call em the way I see em... and I see you as a KS!

My dearest Patricia ~ Were we separated at birth?  You fill my soulful cup with your lovely posts!

Jun 18, 2011 11:08 AM
Julie Booth
Fidelity National Title - Federal Way, WA
Keeping the parties informed of the escrow process

Love this post!  We have all made connections with people that felt like we have known forever and you have described this feeling beautifully.  Love it, love it, love it!!

Jun 19, 2011 08:59 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Melinda-Active Rain is an amazing place to meet kindred spirits. I am glad you have found some here. The 3 gals you mentioned are awesome and special ladies. Have yourself a great week,

Jun 19, 2011 10:58 AM
Melinda (Mel) Peterson
Grants Pass, OR - Bend, OR
The Savvy Broker - ABR, CRS

Thank you Julie... or may I call you Jewels =)

Sharon ~ Thanks a whole bunch my dear sweet lady!

Jun 20, 2011 06:49 PM