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PAY IT FORWARD: Help an agent with a short sale and invite her to join Active Rain

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Real Estate Agent with Alain Pinel BRE 01367196

Paying it forward by helping others the way I was helped.

When I was a newbie 

I was a sponge, soaking up everything I could to be good at my job. It was easy to spot people who wouldn’t mind helping me get my feet wet. Many times, I’d ask another agent to look over my contracts to make sure I did them right. Someone else will caution me about safety such as not jumping up to show property to people who  called asking to see a property without getting information about them, or getting proof of who they are (like copy of driver’s license).

My turn to help

With experience under my belt, it was time to pay it forward. Since I am still one of the few agents in the office doing short sale listings, a co-realtor asked for advice on how to handle a potential short sale listing. I recommended that she complete the company’s version of the CDPE (Certified Distressed Property Expert) class so that she is better prepared. I printed documents and walked her through what are required for the short sale (lender, state and company required documents).

Since she was new to the company, I also showed her how to do the CMA (comparative market analysis) using the company’s in-house and branded system that draws from the MLS.

When it came time for the listing presentation, I went with her so that I can help explain to the seller what to expect in a short sale. The seller kept asking me questions which I would answer, then I would steer the conversation back to what my co-worker will and can do to sell the property.

Co-listing? No…you can handle it

My co-worker offered to have me co-list with her, and do a 50-50 split. I demurred, and told her that she can handle it.  She needs the money (all of it). Further, she needs the exposure and the experience, and she should take the listing on her own. I reassured her that if she needs help along the way, that I will be there with her, that I’ll be in the background, helping any way I can.

Introduced her to blogging on Active Rain

While talking with her about marketing strategies, I mentioned that I am actively blogging on Active Rain, and that 40% of my business is from the internet (blogging, answering questions online, etc).

So I invited her to join Active Rain, and she accepted.

What to blog about

And the next time we saw each other again, I congratulated her on signing on. She asked what to blog about. I told her about what other successful people do --- they blog about their local markets, and their own experiences professionally as well as personally. I guided her where to search for information about blogging style, format, etc.  

Happy?

Now, I don’t know who’s happier. She for getting some needed help. Or me for paying it forward in honor of those who helped me before.

 

In a way, this is also a BEST BUSINESS PRACTICE because we thrive on the practice of the Golden Rule. Helping each other get better in our jobs also help elevate the profession by building trust and respect.

Comments(11)

Marco Giancola
Beachfront Realty - Miami Beach, FL
Realtor (305)608-1922, Miami Beach Florida

Great morning to you Ms. P. Nice post and great job!

Oct 05, 2011 10:41 PM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Way to go!  Share what we know and grow the community.

Oct 06, 2011 12:21 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Pacita, you are certainly the best of the best. We learn from each other, and it is best if someone we learn from is like you!

You are featured in the Positive Attitude for the Weary Soul Group!

Positive Attitude for the Weary Soul!

Oct 06, 2011 12:27 AM
Michael L. Brownstead
Brownstead Real Estate, LLC - Frisco, TX
ABR, GRI, MRP, SRS, 1SG US Army (Ret.)

Pacita, great info, it is always good to help new agents, it brings more value to our industry!

Oct 06, 2011 01:00 AM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Hi Pacita -

You summed it up perfectly with In a way, this is also a BEST BUSINESS PRACTICE because we thrive on the practice of the Golden Rule. Helping each other get better in our jobs also help elevate the profession by building trust and respect.

 

Oct 06, 2011 02:34 AM
Anja Kerstens, 669.270.8034
Compass - Morgan Hill, CA
GRI, NHCB, CDPE, CHS. Silicon Valley Homes

Pacita --

The personality I sense in this blog is a true representation of your truly unselfish character and it doesn't surprise me that you are going out of your way to help others. When I met you for the first time you did the same for me; introducing me to others and you had an enquiring mind.  You showed interest in other REALTORS and their ideas or struggles not boosting your own accomplishments.

Until we meet again.

Oct 06, 2011 06:58 AM
Pacita Dimacali
Alain Pinel - Oakland, CA
Alameda/Contra Costa Counties CA

Marco --- you're up early! I had just gone to bed after posting this blog (and then laid in bed to watch "Pirates of Silicon Valley" story of Steve Jobs and Bill Gates). Thanks for the good wishes.

Cindy --- I once asked a realtor who was teaching contracts class why she was so helpful. And she told me the better other realtors are in our company, the better we all look as a whole. That unselfish philosophy stayed with me.

Andrea --- thank you for the feature. It helps all of us to help each other.

Michael --- my sentiments exactly.

John --- thank you. I truly believe in the golden rule.

Anja --- how sweet of you to drop in. Thanks for the compliment. Hope we get together again real soon, and it won't be at the Gilroy Garlic Festival.

Oct 06, 2011 07:09 AM
John M. Scott
BRE # 01442690, Scott Keys Properties - San Francisco, CA
Broker / Owner San Francisco Bay Area

Pacita, you have got the gift. What else can I say?

Oct 06, 2011 03:43 PM
Pacita Dimacali
Alain Pinel - Oakland, CA
Alameda/Contra Costa Counties CA

John

Thank you so much.

My parents have always been kind, helpful and generous. If I could come close to who they are and what they've done for others, I will be so happy.

Oct 06, 2011 04:32 PM
Doug Bullwinkel
E Mortgage Capital, Inc. NMLS 1416824 - Roseville, CA
Mortgage Loan Officer NMLS #281609

Good Karma Pacita.  You get out of life what you put into life so you have some good things to look forward to.  Thanks for your helping hand to the newbies.

Oct 06, 2011 06:54 PM
Pacita Dimacali
Alain Pinel - Oakland, CA
Alameda/Contra Costa Counties CA

Doug -- you're right about karma. In any culture, we have a saying or phrase for helping others.  You reap what you sow. Good things beget other good things. Karma. Golden Rule. Etc. Let's hope more people subscribe to this thought.

Oct 06, 2011 07:57 PM