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Big Dog vs. Little Dog or Who Gets to Sleep on the Bed?

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My father passed away suddenly and unexpectedly from a heart attack last July. He and my Mom had gotten a little Australian Silkie Terrier named Kitty Marie about 10 years before to be a companion to their Yorkie, Bubba.(full moniker - Bubbalicious, don't ya love it)  Mom and Bubba were gone but Kitty remained. An orphan.

She was all alone. Abandoned.  An orphan, like me.yorkie dog alone in driveway                           

I brought her home with me and the retraining began. 

 She is 8.5 lbs. soaking wet. 

 I am  petite  but more than 12 times her size. 

The "Big Dog" is 25 times her size.

It took less than 1 week for her to get us trained.  We were a little slow but showed promise.

 A little background here: We have never had a little dog. My husband had a Great Dane/Wolfhound mix growing up and also raced sled dogs for a couple of years. We always have had dogs, beloved family members, BUT I never thought I would like a "phoofey" little dog.  You know the barky, whiney type that run the household like a canine tyrant.

I like a dog to smell like a dog and act like a dog. I consider freshly dug craters in the landscaping and big wet smoochey kisses just part of life with a dog.  Soooo, I didn't think a little barking prima donna would fit in too well with our previous dog profile, but I had to bring Kitty home.  She was all I had left of my parents.  My hubby, TW, (affectionately known as "The Big Guy" but for this tale, "The Big Dog") kept his own counsel on the Kitty subject. (We have been married 39 years for a reason)

big dogNow, I need to tell you that my parents spoiled Kitty rotten. She was fed tidbits of chicken, ham, & bacon in a doggie gourmet way -prechewed- from the table and wasn't real crazy about dog food.  Hhhmmmm..wonder why??  She always slept with my parents in their kingsize bed as well. Life was good for Miss Kitty.

Now back at the suburban ranch, The Big Dog declares, "no dogs in our bed !!!"  setting his posture on Kitty's sleeping quarters. I am compliant (remember the 39 year thing) and put her bed next to ours on the floor. We go to bed. She whines, barks, tries to jump up, and generally raises hell about being left off the bed where The Big Dog and his petite pooch are trying to sleep. After 5 minutes which  seems much longer, Kitty is removed to the back room, bed and all, to teach her a lesson and let us get some sleep. This is the pattern for 2 days.  We don't get much sleep and Miss Kitty goes on a hunger strike.

 

I won't go into details here, it gets nasty. Just sum it up as a $ 250.00 lesson that entailed a trip to the vet, 2 late nite trips to the pet store to get a $5.00 an ounce can of special dog food, close perusal of $5.00 an ounce dog offal, and lots of worrying about whether a now svelte little Kitty would pull through.  The Big Dog jokes that the free dog is costing about $35 a pound.

I'm sure you can guess the end of the story.

It was determined Miss Kitty could come back into the bedroom-in her bed only.  She slept but decided a predawn trip outside was needed.  After 2-3 days of not much sleep and a well-aired dog, it was determined Miss Kitty could probably come up on the bed, " if she would settle down."bed

WELL, Miss Kitty has settled down, right into

the down comforter, snores like a long

shoreman, and thinks "Life is Good!"

 

If you and your dog are looking for a home in

the Grand Rapids Michigan area, we are a team

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Bonnie & Terry Westbrook
Westbrook Realty - Ada, MI
Grand Rapids MI Real Estate

Kathleen, you broke me up!!! Sometimes they make us look so silly! Sound like Sam knows he has found a good thing.

Looking for fleas in GR....

Nov 19, 2007 12:27 PM
Kate Elim
Dockside Realty - Spotsylvania, VA
Realtor 540-226-1964, Selling Homes & Land a

Bonnie...The truth is we took Sam's bed into the hotel with us but she knew, just as we did, that it was just for show.  Sam is a rescue dog.  We rescued her from the SPCA and she rescued us from a (temporarily) dogless life.  It's proven to be a great match.

Kathleen

Nov 19, 2007 12:36 PM
Bonnie & Terry Westbrook
Westbrook Realty - Ada, MI
Grand Rapids MI Real Estate
Dogs that get a second chance, like Sam, know they have hit the doggie lottery!  We adopted a sweet girl from the Humane Society and she was a wonderful friend and companion. I'm so glad Sam found you!
Nov 19, 2007 12:43 PM
Kate Elim
Dockside Realty - Spotsylvania, VA
Realtor 540-226-1964, Selling Homes & Land a

Bonnie...Thanks.  We are very grateful to have her.  Sam is over 13 now and more special to us each day.

Kathleen

P.S.  Must admit I fell in love with the Bernese Mountain dog the first time I saw them on tv.

Nov 19, 2007 01:09 PM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495

Bonnie:  It sounds like a whole lot of trouble, and you sound like one very patient person.  ...which is great for your clients, and says a lot about you as a business woman!  Thanks for posting.

Mike in Tucson

Nov 19, 2007 09:00 PM
Donna Yates
BHGRE - Metro Brokers - Blue Ridge, GA
Blue Ridge Mountains
Bonnie:  I enjoyed the story and can relate very well.  I have a cocker spaniel who is now 13 years old and although she's a small dog, it's amazing just how much room she will take up on the bed.  I have found myself hanging on to the edge so as not to disturb her slumber! 
Nov 20, 2007 12:59 AM
Bonnie & Terry Westbrook
Westbrook Realty - Ada, MI
Grand Rapids MI Real Estate

Mike: Thanks for reading & commenting on my post. Aawww, she' no trouble, she's our pal.

Donna:  Yes, I  know what you mean, I find myself not turning over if it will disturb Miss Kitty.(:-(

Nov 20, 2007 02:10 AM
Dawn DeGroff
Fredericksburg Realty, Inc - Fredericksburg, VA
I don't know how little dogs do it...but they do!
Nov 27, 2007 07:19 AM
Eric Webster
Five Star Real Estate - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids, MI, Five Star Realty

Great story, and Kitty Marie is pretty cute! (I've had the pleasure). 

Our pets certainly do train us.  My Izzy scars are healed, because I'm not as slow a learner as I used to be.

Nov 27, 2007 11:51 AM
Bonnie & Terry Westbrook
Westbrook Realty - Ada, MI
Grand Rapids MI Real Estate

Dawn: I don't know either, but I'm smitten. She is just too darn cute. Thanks for stopping by.

 

Eric: Izzy is quite a character! I'm waiting for his story to appear here, too. I need blogs to comment on and I'm sure there are B.A.'s out there.

 

Nov 28, 2007 12:35 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

We don't have any dogs because we're never home long enough to take care of them. So, it's cats, birds and fish for us. It used to be just a cat, but he was lonely, so we got cat number two. Turned out he didn't care much for cat number two, so we got cat number three to keep cat number two company. I'd get another cat, but my husband would move out.


Dec 05, 2007 01:05 AM
Bonnie & Terry Westbrook
Westbrook Realty - Ada, MI
Grand Rapids MI Real Estate
Elizabeth: Trying to accomodate pets can get complicated....sounds like you have plenty of company!  Thanks for commenting.
Dec 05, 2007 01:11 AM
Collette Lee
Tower Realty - Riverside, CA
Beautiful dogs, great to see a happy ending!
Dec 05, 2007 05:31 AM
Bonnie & Terry Westbrook
Westbrook Realty - Ada, MI
Grand Rapids MI Real Estate
Thanks for the comment Collette. Yes, we are happy with our little dog.
Dec 05, 2007 07:01 AM
Debbie Malone
Londeree's Real Estate & Property Management - Lynchburg, VA
From Lynchburg To The Lake (434) 546-0369
Too funny Bonnie! Our westie will sleep wherever he pleases which is usually right at or on my feet (we don't want to disturb THE DOG) and barks if I go to the kitchen to make coffee because he can't get off the bed by himself! Glad to see compromises can be made and that things are working out for Miss Kitty!
Dec 19, 2007 01:58 PM
Gayle Balaban
The Best Spot Realty/Waterfront Real Estate/Ooltewah Real E - Chattanooga, TN
E. TN Waterfront Real Estate
Sounds as if you need to have another large bed next to yours so everyone has plenty of room. 
Dec 20, 2007 12:42 AM
Bonnie & Terry Westbrook
Westbrook Realty - Ada, MI
Grand Rapids MI Real Estate
Debbie: Oh, yes, sounds familiar. Miss Kitty can't jump down from the bed either, so if you forget and leave her up there! Well, she lets you know about it!!! Westies' are the cutest!
Dec 20, 2007 12:52 AM
Bonnie & Terry Westbrook
Westbrook Realty - Ada, MI
Grand Rapids MI Real Estate
Gayle: I'm not sure Miss Kitty would like that, she likes to be touching one of us while she sleeps.  We might escape in the night??
Dec 20, 2007 01:05 AM
MAUREEN STACCATO
Springfield, MA

that is just too funny-

We only have our one dog- Tiny. She is a Chihuahua and she is the love of my life. My husband doesn;t like it if she is in the bed with us. I try to sneak her in but when he comes home from work (2nd shift) he usually removes her from the bed,

Dec 20, 2007 01:47 PM
Bonnie & Terry Westbrook
Westbrook Realty - Ada, MI
Grand Rapids MI Real Estate
Maureen: I sympathize with Tiny, what can one little dog do that is so terrible? But I understand how it is. Life at home must be simpatico.  Thanks for commenting.
Dec 21, 2007 12:51 AM