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Holiday Balance: Giving the Gifts Worth Giving

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with CELLing Realty CalBRE #01445865

This morning I awoke to the most beautiful Sunrise; pinks, oranges, turquoise and yellow. The sun was not visible yet, but the scattered clouds were changing colors as the sun slowly rose over the horizon. A crescent moon sat boldly in the sky , a reminder of the night that just passed. 

The Grand Canyon.... a flaming red sun coming out of nowhere making the land appear to be on fire as it reflected on the desert floor...a sunrise, not too long ago over the Colorado River...beautiful, majestic, the dawning of a new day. These are my memories, my gift to myself.

Assured Photography Grand Canyon

 

This morning's sunrise brought these memories back, filling my heart with beauty and peace.  I sat on the front steps just feeling the morning, taking in every sight and sound, storing it, and marveling at the beauty.  The birds were chirping, and then a Rooster made a few lonely crows...the world was awakening.

 

Ten years ago I was House Hunting, and the Agent had shown me probably 50 homes.... but nothing felt right.  There appeared to be just that one thing that I didn't like, that one thing, in each house that prevented a sale.  Of course I had criteria, my "wish list".... fireplace, large rooms, you know the usual things; but I couldn't find it.

 

The day before I was leaving town, disappointed and tired of looking, the phone rang; it was the Agent. Another house had just come on the Market and did I want to see it?  Well, what did I have to lose but a little time, so we made an appointment for that morning. 

We pulled up to the house, and the Agent unlocked the door. Within 5 minutes I knew this was it.....everything felt right.  I could see the mountains out of every window, and the large back yard was perfect. No, there wasn't a fireplace, instead there were flowers and trees.  I could hear the birds, and see the beauty of life.  This was my house, I could feel it. Oh the rooms were small, the whole house was small, and  nothing in it fit my "wish list." But I bought the house. I loved the yards, and the mountains. I loved the feeling of life, the majesty and beauty of the mountains, Sunrises to the East, and Sunsets to the West.Enjoying Life's Treasures This would be Home.

 

I would have to say I am very blessed right now.  No, I don't have enough Escrows to cover our expenses, and no I don't have money to buy Holiday Gifts. But that's not what's important to me.  What's more important are the sunrises, and the sunsets, and the beauty of choices life gives us. 

What's important is enjoying life....I will drive hours to a clients home and marvel at a blue sky, cloud formations, and just about everything around me. I am anticipating my drive to our office on the River tomorrow morning with pleasure.  The scenery calms me, and gives me uninterrupted time to think, to put everything into perspective. 

Nature brings balance to me.  Just sitting outside and watching the day awaken reminds me that no matter what happens, no matter how much money I may or may not have, that tomorrow the sun will rise again for all of us, rich and poor alike.

 

 

 Santas Key 

Optimism is more than a word, it is a feeling, a belief that all will be right in the world.  Negative attitudes are self-defeating, but an optimistic one brightens the day.  It is like a sunrise of the soul, and everyone can feel it around you. 

 Tomorrow, or sometime during this Holiday Season, I might just help someone find that new house;  the one that will come on the market.....The house that feels right for them. The House that will become their Home for the Holidays.

 

 

 

The Holidays are for Sharing, Caring, Family and Friends. It is a time for Love, and  It is a Time for Giving. What better to give than a Positive Attitude, and a Love for Life and all the Beauty in it. 

 

 These are the true gifts, the Gifts Worth Giving..... and all of us can give them no matter what our circumstances are..........

 

 

By: Kathy McGraw- CELLing Realty

Neal Bloom
Brokered by eXp Realty LLC - Weston, FL
Realtor CRS-Weston FL Real Estate
Nice photos..was that of the Grand Canyon?
Nov 07, 2007 05:07 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Tom- thank you very much for your comment....:) :) 

Neal-Yes, the first picture is of the Grand Canyon...I had watched the Red Sunrise, and saw this view later...so took the picture :)  My emotions at the time were like standing on top of the world.....and this picture fit the feeling of that moment.

Look very closely and you can see the Colorado River....on the Print version you can see it better, but web photos lose a lot :) :)

Nov 07, 2007 05:26 AM
Sharon "Toni" Brown
Exit Realty United - South Ozone Park, NY
South Ozone Park - New York City Real Estate

Sister Kate, as I now call you all the time in my prayers,  When you write you speak to my very heart.  It is truly the thought and the meaning behind a gift that counts.  It is too easy to throw money at a situation and we can always tell when someone thought about us in their choices. 

There is nothing like experiencing Love and Joy through the eyes of someone you love.   One of my best gifts from a friend was a coupon book that she made on her computer.  It had coupons for all kinds of stuff.  Little things that meant alot to me.  She even gave me one to "borrow" her kids for the weekend.  That was a great weekend, I pity those who don't take time to see life through their children's eyes.

I enjoy looking at life through your posts.  You always put me in the car next to you, or hiding in the closet when you write.  OK scoot over so I can watch the sunset with you later.  Ain't life grand?  

Nov 07, 2007 07:23 AM
Ryan Martin
Pacific Continental Realty, LLC - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham Commercial RE Broker
Kathy - Thanks for the positive message. I try to stay upbeat too, but it can be difficult with people grumbling around the office. When things are down I like to get out and take in some fresh air too.
Nov 07, 2007 08:57 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Toni- I love it when you come visit....you are all over the US, and never sure which State you're in...so when you come here it is that special  connection for me :) 

You talked about a coupon book.....my kids did that for me, and I loved it.. Toni my friend, thank you for the words, and any day......just close your eyes and visualize those Sunsets. When I left our River Office the other day, the sky was beautiful....and knowing how fast the sky turns, I crossed the bridge, drove down a side street and pulled over.  You would not believe the picture I got......all the colors in the sky were reflected in the aqueduct........natures Photo Shop we can say :) :)  OK friend, have to leave the sunset behind now....have a listing to get up, and pictures to fix.  you have a great day.

Ryan- I understand perfectly.....and sometimes we have to also watch our own self-talk to make sure it stays positive......Fresh Air can fix a weary spirit pretty much any day......if we just let it surround us, and clear our minds ( easier said than done) :) :)

 

Nov 07, 2007 10:46 AM
Mary Ann Grafft
Keller Williams Realty - Lubbock, TX

Kathy--you are truly a gifted writer.  As far as your comprimises to buy your current home....quoting from Dances with Wolves, "Good Trade!"

Thanks for making my day!

Nov 08, 2007 03:38 AM
Bobby Carroll
Jaclyn Smith Properties - Clayton, NC
Clayton NC New Home Happiness Coordinator
Hello Friend - It is so cool to witness people get better and better at their craft. Seems someone has be cultivating an attitude of gratitude! :>)
Nov 08, 2007 04:56 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Mary Ann- thank you and I agree,  it was a "Good Trade" :) :)

Hi Bobby-  Yes, I do have an Attitude of Gratitude :) :)  It sure makes the world a nicer place. Thanks  so much...loved your Post where you said this......You're going on vacation soon....enjoy :) :)

Nov 08, 2007 06:08 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Kathy, I love that the agent kept listening to you to find the right place. Great post on the "important" gifts in life. Described with lots of feeling.
Nov 08, 2007 08:49 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Gary- I too loved that the Agent took the time....I was a first time buyer (not in real Estate) and didn't know anything about the process.......she worked a lot for me, and I use my experience with her as a foundation of who I am today.....

Thank you for your comments :)

Nov 08, 2007 11:05 AM
Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC
Hi Kathy,
Just dropping by to say "Hi" and read all the comments you have gotten here.  I have read this post 4 times now and each time it just sinks deeper and deeper into my soul.  Thank you.
Nov 09, 2007 12:17 AM
Tucson Real Estate Experts Anne McKechnie
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Tucson, AZ
Previews Property Specialist

Great post Cathy

Do you believe in the laws of attraction and vibration and thanking God everyday that you are happy and grateful for your own personal goals?

Whenever I feel like I am getting in a negative frame of mind or around one, I really focus on the positive. I also affirm my goals everyday to myself and carry them around with me. Many of my goals are for my family.

Anne

Nov 09, 2007 01:00 AM
Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~
Agent Referral - Salt Lake City, UT
Kathy-What a beautiful post.  I so enjoyed this that I felt as though all my worries were taken away for that moment.  Thank you so much.  You truly showed every bit of your heart in this post.  Thank you for reaching out to all of us and giving that part of you that we all are very blessed by.  
Nov 09, 2007 03:44 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Cynthia-  I think I have read it a few times myself......:)  Thank you for coming back.....

Anne & Eddie-I learned a long time ago not to label anything.....I just live what is in my own heart, mind, and spirit.....but I have heard of that book, or philosophy.  I liked what you say about affirming to yourself, and concentrating on the Positives.....it is easy to see the negatives, they surround us every day, but when we look for the Positives, we can indeed find them.

Julie- thank you very much...I truly believe we are all blessed if we just take the time to appreciate what life has given us.

Nov 09, 2007 04:27 AM
Lola Audu
Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate - Grand Rapids, MI
Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI ~Welcome Home!
Kathy, this is a beautifully written post...just simply beautiful. Thank you.
Nov 12, 2007 08:28 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate
Lola- Thank you,  I appreciate it :)
Nov 12, 2007 09:00 AM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired

Hi Kathy,

I read your post right after you wrote it and I meant to come back and leave you a comment. Well, As I was going down through the posts, I recognised yours and sure enough I never made it back. So I re-read it and found it even more insightful about who are you then the first time I read it.

What I hope will be important to you is that you know, I already know. I know because we have have become friends and opened our hearts up to each other.

How I wish I could wave my magic wand and make this holiday your best ever. Perhaps I just did! For life and love , family and friends the best of the most gracious things that come into our lives is  because someone wanted to. I do and I did!

You are a very special being and one I am proud and honored to call "Friend"

Nov 14, 2007 05:55 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate
William-"Friends'  that is one of the best gifts in the world...to have and to be one.....thanks you.  I absolutely loved what you wrote above......it's special like you.......thanks for the Magic Wand, it must have worked because some very impossible things happened yesterday making my upcoming Holidays just that much brighter :)
Nov 14, 2007 04:17 PM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation

Good morning, Kathy - Thanks for entering the contest.  I enjoyed reading your entry and love your photos!

Nov 14, 2007 11:23 PM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate
Margaret- thanks :)
Nov 15, 2007 04:15 AM