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A Grateful Heart is a Happy Heart

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Home Stager with Elite Staging and Redesign, LLC

 A Grateful Heart is a Happy Heart

If this was your last day on earth would you feel like you lived a fulfilling and  meaningful life? Have you thought about the legacy you want to leave; what mark you made on the world and how you will be remembered?

At one point in my life I had to choose between having healthcare or putting oil in my tank for heat. I swore if I ever had life’s basic necessities I would never complain again.

Life did get better, a whole lot better, and I never forgot what it was like being afraid every day if I was going to make the rent. That experience (for which I am now grateful for) changed my thinking and gave me a whole new appreciation for life, nature, new experiences, challenges and quality time with my loved ones.

There’s not much I take for granted and when I get jammed up over something, I write a gratitude list. These days, if you have your health, food on the table, a job, a roof over your head and healthcare, you should count your blessings. Almost any other “problem” is of the high class variety.   

As we acquire more “things”, make more money we tend to raise the bar. Big mistake. When you keep your expectations realistic anything above having the basic necessities is gravy. There are millions of Americans who don’t.  We can get so caught up in keeping up with the Jones', we lose all perspective and don’t see the beauty all around us.

When was the last time you watched a beautiful sunset, laughed so hard  your face hurt, took a walk in the woods, played with your dog, looked at the stars or called a loved one just to say hi? These intangible gifts are yours for the taking and they are free!

Sometimes taking a step back and reviewing your life is the key to moving forward with a grateful heart.

Happiness is a perspective, it’s a choice on how you decide to view the world. Today I choose to count my blessings and live with a grateful heart.

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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Kristine, every day we are able to work in this industry we can be thankful!    I remember a few very scary times too, and prefer to look forward now!

Jan 15, 2012 08:00 AM
Eileen Hsu
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Manhattan, NY
LICENSED REAL ESTATE SALESPERSON

Lovely blog post. It sure is a perspective, we have to be grateful of what we have, on the daily and moment by moment basis to be happy.

Jan 15, 2012 08:39 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kristine,

What a lovely and inspiring post.  For Ron and myself all those "free" things represent life's ultimate luxuries. Stuff is temporary.  It needs to be dusted and sometimes insured, and later on disposed off.  Experience is in the heart and in the mind, no additional storage required. A

Jan 15, 2012 09:12 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Kristine~ After what I went through health-wise in 2011 I'm thankful for the small things and most days that's just the fact that I got up in the morning!

Jan 15, 2012 09:32 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I also suggested....what a beautiful reminder of what is really important in life.  Love the photos too!

Jan 15, 2012 10:28 AM
Brian L. Sirota, Esq.
Bristar Realty (Realtor/Attorney) - Orange, CA
For Solutions: (714) 501-7660

Kristine, I'm aching for someone to create The AR Classiest Member Award to cast my vote!    Brian

Jan 15, 2012 11:09 AM
Stacey Smith
Keller Williams Realty - Aliso Viejo, CA
Your Orange County Beach Cities Realtor

This is such a beautiful post Kristine.. Attitude  of gratitude is everything...If you have lifes basic necessities be grateful..

Jan 15, 2012 11:20 AM
Paul Peck
Peck Drywall and Painting serving Brevard County, Florida - Melbourne, FL
Licensed Drywall and Painting Contractor

"Happiness is a perspective. It's a choice on how you decide to view the world". Wow! What a quote and words to live by Kristine. Thanks for sharing this. :)

-Paul

Jan 15, 2012 12:06 PM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired

Hi Kristine, there was a time not long ago when I felt content and at peace. Thankfully I awoke from that dream to realize there is much to do and as time seems to speed by more quickly, no time to dawdle. 

Jan 15, 2012 01:40 PM
Kristine Ginsberg
Elite Staging and Redesign, LLC - Short Hills, NJ
NJ Home Stager

Thanks Li and it's something I need to remind myself every once in a while.

Anne - you got it and we are truly blessed!

Anita - we can get so caught up in the game of life we miss the point - love, laugh and be grateful!

John - great attitude and thanks for the suggest!

Thanks Nick and sometimes only when we have a real problem do we realize how we sweat the small stuff.

Thanks Debb - I don't think you need any reminding - you are always grateful, kind and giving!

Rob - we do the same, especially when we see a family have to move because they can't afford their mortgage or they lost their job. Then you really realize just how bless we are.

Joan - luckily those days are behind me, but I keep my memory green so as to never take anything or anyone for granted!

A - you make such a good point and it is the free things in life that truly matter - stuff comes and goes.

Donna - I am so happy to see you and have been praying for you since I heard you were ill. I'm so glad you're doing doing better and it made my night just seeing you back in the Rain - we've all missed you so much!

Thanks Sharon and I doubt you need much reminding of living with a grateful heart - that's who you are!

Brian - you are so sweet and right back at you! So nice to see you and I hope to see a blog of yours soon!

Thank you Stacy! Life and traveling to third world countries makes you so humble and realize just how great we have it compare to most of the world.

Thanks Paul and I truly believe it is a choice. Some people will always find something to complain about while other people far less fortunate are happier and never complain - needless to say the latter are my heroes!

William - I believe we are all here to evolve and wasting time isn't part of that plan. As we get older, time really does speed up so live right now because all we have is today!

Jan 15, 2012 02:06 PM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Oh, Kris, how beautiful is this!  One of the blessings that came out of the trauma of 2008 - 2010 is that I appreciate so much more what I DO have, and realize so much more what I DON'T need!  We are so amazingly blessed.  We have such abundance.  We just need to remember to give thanks for what we have.  To appreciate our blessings.  I LOVED this post, my friend.  And I hope you are wearing your shoes in joy and happiness, because you sure deserve them! :D LOL   *suggested*

Jan 15, 2012 02:11 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

The more I know about your the more I adore you.  And too, find we have walked the same path, although not at the same time.  I choose to look for good, no matter how dark the clouds are.  Yes, I choose a happy heart.

Jan 15, 2012 02:25 PM
Ellen Caruso
Daniel Gale Sotheby's International Realty - Glen Head, NY

Kristine, beautiful words and thoughts for this Sunday....and everyday! You'd be proud of me, just today I went to church, and after it instead of going home to wait on everyone else, I snuck off to the beach, sat in my car, listened to the wind, the ocean, the seagulls, and read a book. I felt renewed, that is until I went home! LOL

Jan 15, 2012 03:37 PM
Scott Hayes
(512) 786-8300 - Austin, TX
Realty Austin, Broker Associate

Kristine,

 

You know I love your perspective on life, overcoming obstacles and appreciation what one has. Very well written and thought provoking post. Not a bunch of cliches, but specific calls to appreciate what we have.

Jan 15, 2012 03:50 PM
Michael Thornton
RadnorLake Video - Nashville, TN
Nashville Area - Photography & Videography

Good morning, Little Scorpion. Yes, you are so right. Sometimes we need to step backward, get a handle and a different perspective on life so we can go forward with confidence...

Jan 15, 2012 08:24 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Forever grateful for the simple things in life and not all of the material things that really don't matter.  Excellent post from the heart Kristine.

Jan 15, 2012 09:56 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Very good reminder to be grateful for what we have.  Take time to enjoy a beautiful flower.

Have an outstanding week!

Dahlias at Brookside Gardens IMG_5902

 

Photograph by Roy Kelley

Roy and Dolores Kelley Photographs

Jan 16, 2012 02:07 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Hi Kristine, So glad that "those days" are behind you ~ Each time we visit you here is an inspiration for us, whether it's your kind thought out words or viewing one of your creative photos...glad you're here!

Jan 16, 2012 03:17 AM
Joni Bailey
101 Main St. Realty - Huntsville, TX
Your Huntsville / Lake Livingston Area REALTOR®
I just saw Brad White in concert at church. His wife was recently diagnosed with terminal cancer. He spoke of how he still has joy even with the pain. Talk about having a grateful heart! Wow! This is my 2nd reminder this week to have a grateful heart. I'm taking these reminders seriously. Thank you, girlfriend!
Jan 17, 2012 01:20 AM
Charles Ross - eXp Realty LLC
eXp Realty LLC Salina Group - Salina, KS
Love To Help People

Wow great blog. Thank you for sharing. Have a wonderful day and a blessed week.

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