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When a "Stranger" Calls, Do You Answer?

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Real Estate Agent with Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group S44645

The age old question of whether to answer the phone when you don't know who it is.  Whether it is blocked purposely, unknown as in a telemarketer, or from an area code that you don't know, how do you determine whether or not to answer the call? 

man answering a cell phone

Wait....let's add another factor to the decision....what if you are sitting in the office with a customer or client in front of you. 

Do you have exceptions to the rule? 

Do you only answer if it is someone that you know? 

What if you are expecting a call back on a counter offer or offer? 

Do you give your customer or client the backstory and apologize in advance?

Seems to be a hot topic....whether to excuse yourself and ALWAYS answer the phone or the NEVER answer the phone when you are with a client.  Or somewhere in between where there are acceptable reasons to answer the phone provided that you have gained permission from the customer or client in front of you.

Is is common courtesy to set these expectations when you first meet a client?  Let's face it, the phone rings and never stops some days.  Clients that are in front of you have a reasonable expectation that they should receive your undivided attention.  Wouldn't you expect the same of them?  What if your client was distracted and texting the entire homebuyer consultation?  Would you feel like you were wasting your time?  Would you feel like they listened to anything that you just told them?

On the other hand, what if this customer or client has had frustrating experiences with a previous agent or broker that never seemed to give them that needed attention?  Is it a case by case basis, or a business practice? 

To answer or not answer.....that is the question of the day.

There are those people that will tell me that the reason that they stay in business is BECAUSE they answer the phone when no one else does.  Okay, I can see the point.  But how about the client that is sitting in front of you?  If you are wanting to build a business of referrals, do you think that this client will refer you to others at the end of the transaction?  Have you asked them what their preferences are as far as their time and your communication strategies?  If they have been told that you will always answer your phone, you need to show them that when you are with them. 

The opposite is true if you tell them that their time is important to you and you will give them your undivided attention.  You need to demonstrate exactly that or you will not get referrals from those clients either.

So which is better?  Answer the "stranger's" call or your full attention to the client in front of you?  Two birds in a bush, one in the hand?  To me, I think that building a reputation that people can trust is more important that how you decide to run your phone. 

Do what you say you will do and there will be happy clients referring you more business than you can ever handle. 

Do the opposite of what you promise and prepare for unhappy clients and ALWAYS needing to answer the "stranger" call to get your next possible client!

Keep smiling!

Karen

 

 

 

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Karen Feltman, REALTOR®, ABR, AHS, CHMS,                                                                      CNE,CRS, e-Pro, green, GRI, SRES, TRC

Keller Williams Legacy Group

4850 Armar Drive SE Ste B

Cedar Rapids, Iowa 52403

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Kim Carlson 480-993-9384
www.NowSellingAZHomes.com - Mesa, AZ
Valley of the Sun Realtor, Seller Specialist

I agree with you. I say when you are with a client that is there time with you. Turn off your ringer so that your focus is only on them. Have a time when you return calls.

Jan 24, 2012 03:56 AM
Edward Gilmartin
CRE - Boston, MA

that is the beauty of voicemail box.  You can let the person leave a message and then determine if he she is worth the call back.

Jan 24, 2012 03:57 AM
John Howard
Century 21 LeMac Realty - Mountain Home, AR
GRI, Mountain Home, Arkansas 870-404-3614

I answer the phone unless I am on the phone, or in front of a live person....   I return all calls that are made by live people.  They might need my help, or I might need their help.  Good post!

Jan 24, 2012 04:02 AM
Karen Feltman
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group - Cedar Rapids, IA
Relocation Specialist in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

 

Thank you Kim!  I go so far as to not even take my phone inside with me, especially for a listing presentation.  The temptation to take a peek at my phone is too great.

I agree Edward!  Voicemail can be a blessing for those unwanted calls.  The argument may be that it could be a referral coming your way or an out of town prospect.  But, if you return your calls promptly, you probably won't miss out on their business.

Thank you for reading John!  Have a great day.

Jan 24, 2012 04:07 AM
Carolyn Roland- In Delaware and S. Chester County PA
Independent architectural histor'n - Wilmington, DE
Carolyn Roland, GRI, CRS

I agree that it's a good idea not to even bring your phone inside with you on an appointment unless you are in the middle of a negotiation and explain this to the client.

Jan 24, 2012 04:10 AM
John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Excellent post!  Leave me a voice-mail and I'll get back with you ASAP!  PROMISE!  Have a great day in all you do Karen!

Jan 24, 2012 04:21 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Karen....when I was actively working in the business, if I was with a client, I did not answer the phone....it went into voice mail....that client had my undivided attention....my office front desk would not interrupt my meetings either....

Jan 24, 2012 07:05 AM
Karen Feltman
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group - Cedar Rapids, IA
Relocation Specialist in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

Thank you Carolyn!  I agree that for a listing appointment, or a homebuyer consultation for that matter, the phone needs to be out of reach.  If you are negotiating a contract and expecting a call, you can just as easily let the other agent know that you will be out of pocket until after that appointment.   :)

Jan 24, 2012 07:06 AM
Karen Feltman
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group - Cedar Rapids, IA
Relocation Specialist in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

Thank you John!  You are right, for established clients, they KNOW that you will call back because you have demonstrated as such.  You have also set the expectation to your clients that you will give undivided attention to the person in front of you.  The question is when agents are too worried about losing the potential unknown caller on the caller id.  They believe that they get that extra business because no one else will answer the phone when it rings.

Thank you again for the mention in your recent blog post Barbara!  I think that there has to be boundaries with the phone.  I don't take it with me on listing or buyer appointments, it is shut off when I am in continuing education classes or meetings....it is just rude to not give your attention to the people that are trying to teach you or they took off an afternoon from work to see homes.  There are exceptions of course, but if they are explained ahead of time to all involved, you can still be focused on the person in front of you.

Jan 24, 2012 07:10 AM
Francine Viola
Coldwell Banker Evergreen Olympic Realty, Olympia WA - Olympia, WA
REALTOR®, In Tune with your Real Estate Needs

I called another agent and he had a creative voicemail message.  He said that if he couldn't get back to you within an hour, he would buy the caller a cup of coffee.  So the caller feels better and the agent doesn't have to take the call when a client is in front of him.

Jan 24, 2012 08:43 AM
Connie Harvey
Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN
Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Karen, if I'm expecting a call, I tell the person I'm with upfront so that they know we may be interupted. Besides that, I don't take calls when I'm with people. I try to give them my undivided attention. That goes for lunch out with a girlfriend too.

Jan 24, 2012 08:43 AM
Karen Feltman
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group - Cedar Rapids, IA
Relocation Specialist in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

Thank you Francine!  That is a unique way for someone to get his clients to leave a voicemail! 

Jan 24, 2012 01:57 PM
Karen Feltman
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group - Cedar Rapids, IA
Relocation Specialist in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

Thank you for reading Connie! I agree that we need to give the same attention and courtesy to our friends, partners and children. Their time is valuable as well and we need to be "present" no matter how informal the occasion may be. Great point!

Jan 24, 2012 01:59 PM
Melissa McKinney
Everything Pines Partners Fayetteville - Fayetteville, NC
Realtor, www.LivingFayetteville.com

Karen~ Tons of great points here and where do you draw the line...I typically do not answer the phone when I am with a client unless I have called to get some info for them and waiting for the return.  I also say to them you will only NOT get me on the phone when I am with another client but I will get back to you ASAP! 

The telemarketers are driving me CRAZY and I don't like it even more because it makes me second guess picking up the phone!

Jan 24, 2012 04:23 PM
Karen Feltman
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group - Cedar Rapids, IA
Relocation Specialist in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

Amen Melissa!  What s it about the first of the year that brings out all the people trying to sell you stuff?

Jan 25, 2012 04:47 AM
Tom Bailey
Margaret Rudd & Associates Inc. - Oak Island, NC

Karen, Thanks for the post. I do not answer when I am with a client, otherwise I answer every call. I am greedy and afraid the one I do not answer might lead to a big sale.

Jan 27, 2012 02:53 AM