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"The Road Less Traveled.....The Aloha"

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Real Estate Agent with Liberty Homes RS-#62825

The "Spirit of Aloha" means a 'sense of caring and kindness to those around me' and "Malama" means stewardship and when applying both of those in business we take care and give of ourselves with unselfishness in regards to human assets. This I wrote back in August 2007: Conducting Business in Hawaii: The "Spirit of Aloha" and "Malama" and again I am taken aback by the what "Aloha" means to me and what it can mean to you. 

On the news last night they did a story on "Where's the Aloha?". It got me to thinking about how life has changed in Hawaii. Or has it? 40 years ago (I was 10 years old) our family moved to Oahu, Hawaii. 1967 and life was so simple. Ahhhh, no big freeways, no thousands of cars and the only tall buildings were in downtown Honolulu. Everyone hugged each other hello and when someone needed a helping hand a hand was extended to grasp onto.

 Sometimes, we look at the cup as half empty and while contemplating the thought of "Where's the Aloha?" it immediately brought to my mind all the wars that transpired back in ancient Hawaii where thousands upon thousands were killed. And these wars and killings were against each other! 

In any event, the newsman went around Waikiki Beach to ask locals and visitors "Where's the Aloha?". While doing this Aloha Poll and on a scale of one to ten the local people averaged 6.7 when asked how they rated "Where's the Aloha?" and the visitors gave us a 9.3! Go figure.

Maybe we're not so bad after all, huh? I mean, Hawaii is ranked among the top ten most giving states and we donate nearly a billion dollars a year to charity.  

No matter what there are always going to be negative situations that arise in our lives and it is just part of human nature. Sometimes we glorify the negative instead of looking at the positive things. You know, it seems my radar for positivity doesn't always target those good things in life all the time either. It's human nature.

I am happy to report right along with the news last night that Aloha is all over the place in Hawaii. In Waikiki, they filmed the Japanese couple exchanging their wedding vows on the beach, the aloha given with volunteers helping stranded tourists or just in our school children singing songs while delivering gifts.

While bad things make headlines and good ones don't get recognized ..... We, the people, can make the Aloha happen no matter where we are. Now THAT IS a concept. 

Alas, things don't always appear to be as they seem... in my minds eye. It is what I make of it and all in the manner of how I handle the situation. Today, I will travel the Road of Aloha.

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Celeste "Sally" Cheeseman  is a Realtor-Associate® and Certified Residential Specialist (CRS) with Century 21 Liberty Homes in Mililani, Hawaii. With a sharp understanding that a listening ear is the key to a client's needs  she serves the island of Oahu (Honolulu County) and all Hawaii Military Relocations, Hawaii Retirees, Hawaii Job Transfers and Hawaii Residents, Home Buyers and Sellers.

 

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Comments(58)

Tom Plant
WINEormous.com - Murrieta, CA
Sally - I first visited Honolulu in the 60's with my mom and my sister. I remember how shocked I was by how much it had grown when I returned decades later. I'm glad to hear the spirit of aloha is alive and well. You are one of its finest ambassadors.
Nov 24, 2007 01:04 AM
Neal Bloom
Brokered by eXp Realty LLC - Weston, FL
Realtor CRS-Weston FL Real Estate
I don't care what anyone says...I would rather be on any beach in Hawaii with a bottle of suds and some tunes...just tuning out all the negs....just the sounds of the whispering winds:)
Nov 24, 2007 01:11 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Mathew: Thank Matt....I know you get it too :)

Tom: More than you know...I smile right back at you buddy :)

Tom P: It has been a shock watching it!  I am astounded at our traffic and hoping the rail system coming will alleviate some of it.

Neal: ......and listening to the Brady Bunch theme :)

 

Nov 24, 2007 04:02 AM
Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC
Hi Sally,
It is true the media does accentuate the negative but it is up to us personally to make the decision "do I want to look at life and my situation in a positive way or a negative way"?  I believe the decision and answer to that question makes a tremendous impact on our life.  A positive attitude attracts others with a positive attitude and the same with negativity.  
Nov 24, 2007 05:28 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Sally, I'm sneaking on here for a minute to say the Aloha is alive and well here in Hawaii.......As you are so fond of saying it's all starts within......and yesterday you shared so much of yourself with us that we had a very special time.....and Randy and Linda.....everyone of you took time from your own lives.....that is the essence of giving, isn't it :) :)

I will write more later, but just wanted to say Thanks, and the Aloha is alive and well in your own persona. 

*** Hey, I went through that tunnel yesterday :)

Nov 24, 2007 05:50 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Cynthia: Why of course!  We are human and experience different emotions....but as you said...it's up to us...I choose to spread some positivity around....woohoo!

Kathy: You sneak. :)  It does...it starts within....and boy did I have a good time....it was like old friends meeting up or something...thanks Kathy.  Friend :)

Nov 24, 2007 06:27 AM
Lola Audu
Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate - Grand Rapids, MI
Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI ~Welcome Home!
Interesting post & perspective on history Sally.  So often, we are harder on ourselves than others are.  Aloha is such a grace filled word...we have to choose to focus on it rather than negative issues.  Thanks for this post & hope you had a wonderful Celebration of Thanksgiving and Aloha with your family. :)
Nov 24, 2007 06:46 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Thanks Lola...and so true... keep focusing and throwing out positive energy ...and everything will be just fine!
Nov 24, 2007 07:02 AM
Midori Miller
Talk 2 Midori, LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Online Marketing For Real Estate Professionals
Sally-You are so right.  Aloha...to all!  We get what we give...we recieve what we put out and what goes around comes around.  Energy lots of positive energy....we just need more Aloha!  Will you come for a visit? :)
Nov 24, 2007 07:33 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Midori: I would like to one day....I haven't been to the mainland since 1997. Don't like airplanes....long trips and got doggie. Hmmm. Won't you come for a visit to grab a bunch of Aloha? :)
Nov 24, 2007 10:35 AM
Portland Oregon Real Estate | Alecia Barnes - Broker
Portland, OR
Sally- I have been lurking for awhile- always happy to read what you post. The spirit of Aloha is alive in you, this is evident by the way you carry yourself with character and dignity, and your positive attitude. To be honest, I have been lurking because I have watched you GROW so much as a blogger, and like others here on Active Rain, you have inspired me to become a better blogger.  I admire your spirit of Aloha, and I can always count on it -
Nov 25, 2007 04:13 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Hi Alecia! All of us have grown... and are able to give some insight to others. :) I wrote a sequel to this on my connection with other Active Rain members. I'm glad you were inspired by the positive people.
Nov 25, 2007 04:18 AM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public
Sally ~  This is beautiful.  Hawaii is beautiful, and much like a human being is pretty inside and out, so is your state.  I have always found the people to be genuinely caring and very sweet!  Thank you for sharing your Aloha spirit with us when we cannot get over to your gorgeous neck of the woods!  :)
Nov 25, 2007 05:38 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Sarah...when you decide you want to come here let me know...we'll go on an excursion!
Nov 25, 2007 05:46 AM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public
Hi Sally ~  I will let you know the next time I am able to venture over!  I would love that time we would be able to spend together!  Have a wonderful and restful Sunday...  :)
Nov 25, 2007 06:07 AM
Vickie Barrington
Bluewater Real Estate - Atlantic Beach, NC
Carteret County Real Estate
Sally, I never really knew what Aloha meant. I thought it meant hello. Now I know and I am going to try to put the Spirit of Aloha and Malama in my business and everyday life. We all need to include this in our lives because society has gotten to be a "Me" generation, like Jeff says. We all need to be stewards and look and see what we can do to help one another in our society, especially at this time of year.
Nov 25, 2007 09:41 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Sarah: Movie time!

Vickie: Oh, another gal who has somewhat same unvalues (is that a word for the ME thing? hehe) You are soooo on it. Support and teamwork is what we need...not all the other stuff. Thanks Vickie!

Nov 25, 2007 09:44 AM
Sarah Eubanks
Hill Valley Financial Services - Oregon City, OR
Preferred Oregon Loan Consultant & Notary Public
Sally ~  I am sooo looking forward to movies.  Are we watching chick flicks or action films?  I will bring the DVD's!  :)
Nov 25, 2007 04:11 PM
Katerina Gasset
The Gasset Group & Get It Done For Me Virtual Services - Provo, UT
Amplify Your Real Estate & Life Dreams!
Sally- You SO have the Aloha spirit! Oh, and there is a spirit that is only felt in Hawaii. No where on the mainland is that same Aloha spirit as you already know from your living on the mainland. You keep spreading the good side of Aloha and keep it there until I get there! Katerina
Nov 25, 2007 04:57 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Sarah: You're funny...I meant I was getting off the pc to watch a movie :)  We watched Shrek 3 and later on we watched Oceans 13.

Katerina: Oh...it'll be alive and well here...through all our islanders :)

Nov 26, 2007 04:24 AM