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I Miss My Friends Restaurant

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Real Estate Attorney

 A few years ago, a good friend of mine purchased a restaurant two miles from my house.  It was a great little breakfast/lunch place that had a really nice hot/cold buffet/salad bar, had good coffee and excellent sandwiches.

For him, it was his dream.  He had worked in the food industry for years as a salesman and always wanted a place of his own.  This restaurant was perfect for him because it had been established for years and it was only a few miles from his house.  The shop was also about a half a mile down the road from numerous large corporate offices and he soon increased his catering business to them.  The road was also a major route for locals to get to the main highway.  He had a large crowd come down from the offices during lunch time and often picked up business from travelers going to and from the highway.

It was good for me too because it gave me an opportunity to see him more often and to have somewhere to go during the day to get out of the house.  I would often bring my laptop and work while enjoying a cheesesteak for lunch or breakfast pizza with a cup of Joe in the morning.

Business was going well.  He was happy.

Then the road work started.  The town ripped up the entire road between his restaurant and the office complex.  For months.... it was a dirt road.  Soon, people started avoiding the area.  No one wanted to drive on that road if they could help it.  People started avoiding the area and finding new routes to the highway.

It was noticeable that the lunch time crowds were dwindling.  Within a few months, he informed me that he was going to have to shut the doors.  He no longer was getting the business he needed to keep the shop alive.

I remember his last day well.  I knew it was the end and went in for an early lunch.  When I got there, he told me that he informed his staff of the situation.... and they all left!  He still had a lunch time crowd coming in and no staff to help.

He is a good friend so I did what any friend would do and I donned an apron and hopped on the grill.  (Not litterally... that would hurt.)  For the next few hours, he and I worked together to get through his final lunch crowd.... then we shut and locked the doors.

I miss my friends restaurant.

Comments(19)

Charlie Ragonesi
AllMountainRealty.com - Big Canoe, GA
Homes - Big Canoe, Jasper, North Georgia Pros
This is a good post. It seems lately when government enters our lives it is for the worse
Jan 22, 2008 10:42 PM
Chris Griffith
Downing-Frye Realty, Bonita Springs, FL - Bonita Springs, FL
Bonita Springs Listing Specialist - Agent
This just happened to a few restaurants in our area.  My favorite restaurant closed and I miss it terribly.  I miss the people most, the culture.  Food was great, but the people make the restaurant.
Jan 22, 2008 10:43 PM
Scott Daniels Florida Real Estate 2.0. Agents Earn 100% Commission.
Florida List For Less Realty, Inc. Broker/Owner. - Cooper City, FL

martin,

Leave it to the Town Planners who don`t give a damn about anyone or anything! They expand for the sake of expansion. Many times a waste of Taxpayers moolah.

Jan 22, 2008 10:48 PM
Debra Gambill
Weichert Realtor's Southern Coast - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Realtor, N.C. / S.C

Thanks for sharing that story. I spent 33 years in my own restaurant business, and I can relate. It has it ups and downs- but can be rewarding too. Thanks for sharing

Jan 22, 2008 10:54 PM
Melissa Grant
A Serendipity World - Greenbackville, VA
The Law of Attraction In Life & Business
People make the businessesand its a shame the government tries to fix things that are not broken yet don't fix the broken things !
Jan 22, 2008 10:55 PM
BLR Guy
BLRGUY(Beach & Luxury Realty Inc) - Saint Pete Beach, FL

I have just lived through that construction with one of my offices...they do seem to take their sweet ass time with the construction not really caring who it affects.

I am sorry to hear about your friends restaurant..it really isn't fair to him.

Jan 22, 2008 11:25 PM
Jeanean Gendron
The Address Realty - Redding, CA
Specializing in Selling Unique Properties
Martin, we are saw our favorite restaurant close here in Redding, as well. They were not close friends as in your post, but I is always sad when we loose a familiar and favorite thing in our life. I hope your friend will go on to something better.  Thanks for sharing with us.
Jan 22, 2008 11:37 PM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Martin,

That's a sad story...I'm sorry he lost his restaurant.  Did he open up in another area?

It was nice of you to help him out on is final day.....you're a true friend.

Jo 

Jan 22, 2008 11:41 PM
South Austin Real Estate Blog
Sky Realty South Austin - Austin, TX
martin, this is so sad but it is a reality of how outside circumstances can affect our lives.. things we have no way to control..  not only did your friend lose his restaurant but the community lost a wonderful business .. makes one wonder if that road expansion was worth it... lost jobs, lost income, lost taxes ... hopefully your friend made a recovery and the road did prove to be worth it.
Jan 23, 2008 12:53 AM
Gayle Balaban
The Best Spot Realty/Waterfront Real Estate/Ooltewah Real E - Chattanooga, TN
E. TN Waterfront Real Estate
I have  seen this type of thing happen here and it is very sad.  I would prefer to patronize mom and pops over chains but that is becoming more an more difficult.
Jan 23, 2008 01:47 AM
Adam Waldman
Westcott Group Real Estate Company - Hauppauge, NY
Realtor - Long Island
MARTIN - It sucks that your friend has his dream taken away from him by a situation that was beyond his control.  You're a good friend for helping out.  It sounds like it was the type of place that makes you feel right at home.
Jan 23, 2008 02:36 AM
Elaine Hanson
Coldwell Banker Realty - Malibu | Topanga - Malibu, CA
REALTOR - Topanga, CA Real Estate Agent
That is so sad!  I hope he gets a chance to do it again.  He sounds like he had found his forte.
Jan 23, 2008 02:46 AM
Danny Thornton
R & D Art - Knoxville, TN
WordPress Guru
Martin, great story. And this goes to show you just how good of a person that you really are. I wonder why the staff would have left him.
Jan 23, 2008 03:51 AM
Debbie Malone
Londeree's Real Estate & Property Management - Lynchburg, VA
From Lynchburg To The Lake (434) 546-0369
Martin, this is such a shame. The time and effort it takes (not to mention money) to open and run a successful business, only to have 'progress' take it away. Just plain wrong.
Jan 23, 2008 01:41 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Martin, I always hate these stories that while roads are constructed or repaired they disrupt or close businesses. And it can take years to fix the road.
Jan 23, 2008 01:48 PM
Nancy Brenner
Referral Associates of Georgia, Inc. - Roswell, GA
Roswell Georgia Real Estate Agent

Was that his planned last day?  Or did the staff leaving  when he told them the situation, force him to make it his last day?  If the latter is the case, I wish the fleas of a thousand camels to attack them!

Sorry your friend lost his business.

Jan 23, 2008 06:16 PM
M A
Boston, MA

Charlie - It certainly does seem that way sometimes.

Chris - Peopel certainly do.  I used to know his staff.  I was kind of like Norm from Cheers when I walked into his place.

Scott - And this was so poorly planned.  They took so long... they ended up paving the road before it was ready to get through winter and then ripped it up again.

Debra - You're welcome and thanks for commenting.

Melissa - Well said.

BLR - And this was so poorly planned.  They took so long... they ended up paving the road before it was ready to get through winter and then ripped it up again.

Jeanean - He is now managing a local restaurant of a large chain of restaurants.  Thanks.

Jo-Anne - He would have done the same for me.

 

Jan 23, 2008 07:21 PM
M A
Boston, MA

Gail - The road construction was not worth it.  It was poorly done and poorly planned.

Gayle - I always try to use the mom & pops.  My dad owned a small local pharmacy growing up.  Now their all CVS & Walgreens.

Adam - It did make you feel at home and it did suck!  Thanks

Elaine - I don't think he'll get the chance to have his own.... unfortunately.

Deborah - I'm sorry that your Volta is under a high rise.  That stinks.

Danny & Deborah - They just decided they didn't want to work their last day.  I think they were also angry that they were losing their jobs.

Debbie - I agree... it was just plain wrong!

Gary - This road is going on four years.

Nancy - It was his last planned day.  The menu was fairly limited that day.

Jan 23, 2008 07:27 PM
Robert L. Brown
www.mrbrownsellsgr.com - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids Real Estate Bellabay Realty, West Mic
That's how they crush the "littleman". Oh BTW we need to put a road in here so they shut it down and the littleman gets crushed again. It's their way to keep their thumb on us.
Jan 28, 2008 02:08 AM