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ActiveRain's Hidden Gem: Time to Pay it Forward

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Real Estate Agent with Liberty Homes RS-#62825

It all starts with an idea to do something great for the new member of ActiveRain. Melissa Grant started a "Hidden Gems in the Rain" to give back to the community and help out a member who may be writing and going unnoticed.  Our dashboard is huge and it is not as easy for me to look at the same writer continuously like I used to when I first started to "get to know them" and their writing without subscribing. My subscribed list became too large to continue doing that so now I peruse a couple of my favorite groups.

POSITIVE ATTITUDE for the Weary Soul group was founded  in June of 2007. Since I love Industry members who have wonderful positive attitudes that I can see in their writing I am going to pick a member who has contributed to the group and does not get noticed much on our dashboard but ought to be in the spotlight if not just for the following:

      

 

                                                           The Hidden Gem is

Mirela "m&m" Monte!!!     

Her Meme I've Been Meme'd. Should I Disclose That I Was Born In Transylvania?  will give you a bit more information about this writer who was grew up in Romania and above all believes in 'serendipty'. Quote:  "I believe in serendipity and my life is a series of random events that are beautifully orchestrated to mean something". 

 

 

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It is without a doubt that I believe we can pay it forward by helping a newer or even an older member who has not gotten noticed with their writing by contributing to this Hidden Gem series. When I became a member on March 10, 2007 there were about 19,000 members. Now there are almost 70,000 members and though not all are active there are many who post MANY a day and the good posts get passed by.

So, in order to keep this going I picked the following two members ......to find the next hidden gems.  These members have come a long way since they started and surely will contribute more by paying it forward to find the next hidden gems as much as they have supported the community throughout their membership. 

 Diane Aurit  who founded the Newbies Again group for anyone starting over with another career, relocated to a new area or just plain starting over in life....this is a great group to tell your story. Diane has contributed a lot to this community and has become active in participating, paying it forward and just supporting other members. With a very positive outlook on her business and personal life too she has gone above and beyond in her quest for more knowledge and "starting over" in her real estate profession!

 Marlene Bridges  who founded the Adventures in Real Estate group in December of 2007 to tell our real estate stories...interesting, entertaining and regardless if it happened to us or someone else...this is the place to tell your stories. Marlene has been outstanding support for me and others in the ActiveRain Community and I had the pleasure to finally meet her in person last week at the 2008 First Hawaii ActiveRain Gathering that was a HUGE Success!  After all this time blogging, talking on the phone and so forth....we finally met face to face.

So, take it away gals...and pay it forward! 

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Celeste "Sally" Cheeseman  is a Realtor-Associate® and Certified Residential Specialist (CRS) with Century 21 Liberty Homes in Mililani, Hawaii. With a sharp understanding that a listening ear is the key to a client's needs  she serves the island of Oahu (Honolulu County) and all Hawaii Military Relocations, Hawaii Retirees, Hawaii Job Transfers and Hawaii Residents, Home Buyers and Sellers.

 

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Comments(53)

Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Lynda: Name one and pick two others to find gems :) thanks Lynda!

Neal: Hopefully the one gem I picked sees all her comments on her post :)

Dan: Mining hahaha...that was cute.

 

Feb 06, 2008 02:43 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Melissa: Thanks for starting this...it'll bring attention to some others that deserve a little spotlight :)

Diane:  great one diane!  Will look forward to seeing yours!

 

Feb 06, 2008 02:45 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Bill: It's hard for the moderators and top dogs to read through hundreds and hundreds of posts. In case you didn't notice the put up the feature option when you click on the flag.....put a reason why you think the post should be featured :)

Teri: Yup....with all these members gotta look for them as they go down the dashboard too quickly

Feb 06, 2008 02:56 AM
Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~
Agent Referral - Salt Lake City, UT
Boy that will teach me not to try to read and write with my 4 year old right by my side talking at the same time. Comprehension was definitely lacking here. It's a good thing that I come back to read the responses from the writer because you put me in my place. :)  Time to go back to the beginning of your post. Sorry about that my friend. 
Feb 06, 2008 04:20 AM
Julie Neerings~Lifting Hearts ♥ Building Dreams~
Agent Referral - Salt Lake City, UT
Sally~Now my dear friend whom has witnessed the pure neglect of my comprehension on my prior reading, now with my 4 year old absent from my side, I have read this thoroughly and even went in for the 3rd reading on it to make sure I don't make a fool out of myself again. Anyway, I read about Mirela and what an amazing story she has to tell and what a great choice for your hidden "gem". 
Feb 06, 2008 04:27 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Julie: No problem...just didn't want the comment section swaying that way again as it started out like that as well :)  Thanks Julie.
Feb 06, 2008 05:39 AM
Mesa, Arizona Real Estate Mesa Arizona Realtor
Homes Arizona Real Estate LLC - Mesa, AZ
AzLadyInRed

Sally, love your Hidden Gem. I had forgotten about Mirela.......I thought I had subscribed 'cause I liked her but had not. Now I have!! Thanks for reminding me.........miss "postive" ;-)

Pepper

Feb 06, 2008 06:50 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
I must have missed others of hers because I actually found her in the Positive Group.
Feb 06, 2008 07:25 AM
Mesa, Arizona Real Estate Mesa Arizona Realtor
Homes Arizona Real Estate LLC - Mesa, AZ
AzLadyInRed

Sally, check out some of her posts. They're great. AND I can't imagine just "why" you could have possibly missed her! ;-)  There are only 70K people here. ;-)

Pepper

Feb 06, 2008 07:47 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Yeah....it became a problem when the carpal tunnel syndrome struck. Now I force myself to get off...like right now.....going shopping :)
Feb 06, 2008 07:50 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Inertia is the most natural state of being for a human.  "Comfortably existing" is the most desirable condition and it has the strongest pull, one that I have consciously fought by throwing myself into the tumultuousness that comes by engaging in life fully, passionately and wholeheartedly.  The rewards have been many, the falls have been painful, and the lessons memorable...

I was hesitant to post this blog.  I found it entirely too revealing, too long, too risky; but as with everything else in my life, I went ahead and did it anyway.  I never expected this kind of response, and I am honored and grateful for it!  Thank you for your kind words, thank you for actually reading this long post!   Celeste, I thank you very much for putting this together!  You must have a love of reading and a curiosity and passion for life.

Most people have regrets about not having done something, for not taking the chance, for not living fully.  I have no such regrets.  I forgive myself for the mistakes and I give myself permission to fail again.  Fortunately, the successes far outweigh the abysses...

Enjoying the journey, while keeping the ship on course, yet understanding full well that the vast ocean of life is a grand adventure, no matter what GPS system you have on board...  

This is the mission... 

Happy Trails!

Sincerely - Mirela

 

 

Feb 06, 2008 09:27 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE
Mirela: I appreciate your passion as well ....and for giving a piece of you to the community. It's that kind of passion for life after overcoming obstacles that I can truly relate. I admire you for all you have done and want to do and no matter what...a learning lesson in everything I do has brought me to this point in my life as well. Happy Sailing to you!
Feb 06, 2008 09:53 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate
Well put, Celeste!  Thank you!
Feb 06, 2008 10:00 AM
Katerina Gasset
The Gasset Group & Get It Done For Me Virtual Services - Provo, UT
Amplify Your Real Estate & Life Dreams!
Sally- I like Mirela too. I found a gem a few weeks ago and just did a spotlight on her. It is fun going on the hunt to seek out new up and coming writers or like you said old timers who have not yet been discovered! 
Feb 06, 2008 03:42 PM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Sally... this is a great idea that Melissa started.... and you have mentioned 2 great people that I have had the chance to meet. I haven't heard of Mirela....   but you did a great job with this. But how come I have read a few of these and all of the hidden gems have been women?  Can't a man be a hidden gem also?  ;o)

jeff belonger
Feb 06, 2008 03:45 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Mirela: Thanks!

Katerina: I just saw her in the positive group which of course prompted me to use the tag on her. :)

Jeff: Hmmmm....I wasn't looking at men vs. women thing. I guess it just turned out that way. :)

Feb 07, 2008 04:03 AM
Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans
Sally....  hey, don't worry about it. I prefer the women gems anyhow....  ;o)
Feb 07, 2008 06:47 AM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor
Sally- you did indeed find some gems there - thanks for sharing!!!
Feb 11, 2008 12:13 PM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645
I did not know about the Adventures in real estate group.  Now that is a gem.
Feb 11, 2008 11:18 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Jeff: I'm sure you do :)

Barbara-Jo: you're welcome!

Randy: Good group....you have some great adventures too!

Feb 12, 2008 03:40 AM