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My Biggest Failure...Not Keeping My Mouth Shut and Overpricing Home

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway California Realty DRE #01492138

My Biggest Failure...Not Keeping My Mouth Shut and Overpricing Home

I had a listing appointment for a sweet little house and the couple owned it outright. So I showed up with all the comps and everything was fine until we got to the price. No they wanted to list it higher and if it didn’t within 30 days they would agree to reduce it.

 

I should have put my foot down and left right then and told them to get another agent. I wanted to list it for $205,000 which was really stretching it and they wanted $221,000 and reluctantly agreed to 6% Commission. I knew it would never get any offers for that price but I am not a quitter so I was sure I could convince them in time to lower it to a reasonable price.

 

My 2 Biggest Mistakes...Not Keeping My Mouth Shut and Overpricing Home30 days came and went and many showings but the agents wouldn’t call back with any feedback. I got them to reduce it but only $2,000. I knew this was going to be a long 6 months. Another 30 days and another $3,000 lower.  So it went like this for several more months and no offers. Then I made an appointment and went to talk with them rationally about lowering it to my original price of $205,000.  The husband sat and talked about being in the war and working hard. Then he asked me what I had done all my life? Had I been a Realtor for 25 years or more? No, I told him and opened my mouth and told him I had been a county employee for 28 years but had retired 10 years ago. He was amazed and said I must have started when I was young. Yes, I was 21 years old when I started. So he proceeds to tell me that the retirees are ruining the city. No, I didn’t work for the city but the county and they are in great financial shape.  So this conversation went downhill and all I wanted to was to just leave.

 

 

So he agreed to reduce the price to $205,000 but wants me to cut the commission to 5% and prefered 4%. I told him my brokerage doesn’t allow anything lower than 5% but that he was making a mistake as the Realtors will not show it.  He didn’t care as he said he would just keep it and rent it if it didn’t sell.

 

So I lower it to $205,000 and reduce the commission to 5%. Of course the property gets shown a lot now as it is priced right but the Realtors are all calling complaining of the low commission. But we finally get 3 offers and they accept one which is good but they are asking for $3500 in closing costs. Appraisal comes in on the FHA loan and it is for 205,000 but not for $208,500 including the closing costs. Just Great!

 

Seller gets mad and says he just wants to cancel. I talked myself blue in the face but he refused to sell it for less than $205,000 so if the buyers can proceed without closing costs…lets go for it or if not, I want to take it off the market. So finally I gave in and took it off the market and walked away.

 

Lessons Learned:

1.      Do not discuss your personal life and finances with your clients. I should have never discussed being retired as that just opened up a can of worms. He was retired too but was incensed that I had a good retirement.

 

2.      When he demanded I reduce the commission, I should have said “no” but thought I could rectify the issue. Frankly, I didn’t care about the commission in this one instance since I had already devoted 5 ½ months chasing the market until I got it at the right price but the other agents apparently did. It made it hard to sell and by keeping it on the market longer, the prices had gone way down in the 5 months.

 

3.      I should have never agreed to list it $16,000 over what it would appraise at. I had many good comps nearby and nothing more than $210,000 and it had more upgrades than subject home.

 

*I SHOULD HAVE WALKED AWAY. I am always game for a tough listing and I was sure I could convince this nice senior couple to listen to me. I provided. Unfortunately they thought they knew more than me and that was the problem. They didn’t care about the comps and thought the appraiser was an idiot.

 

Oh yes, he had one last option for me.  He said I could pay the $3500 buyer closing costs and he would proceed with the sale. I told him NO and that was it……………..

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My 2 Biggest Mistakes...Not Keeping My Mouth Shut and Overpricing Home Kristin Hamilton DRE #01492138 Keller Williams Realty

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Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Endre,

A feature would be nice and make me feel much better. Ha Ha. Thanks for stopping and putting it on paper, makes it look more in perspective and remind me what not to do.

Jun 15, 2013 12:12 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Sharon,

Yes it hurts when you are wrong about a person. I liked this couple and they seemed so nice as my first impression. I realized they thought they knew more than anyone else and could have moved on with their life but now they are again strapped with this home and put a renter into there instead.

Jun 15, 2013 12:26 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Roy,

A lesson learned in person is well learned for life. If I repeat this mistake in the future, give me the strenghth to walk away. Thanks for the camera advice as I always have it with me.

Jun 15, 2013 12:28 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Silvia,

That is nice to say but as the experienced Realtor, I should have been wise enough to walk away a lot sooner. It was a 6 month horror story. Luckily he had a option out as the appraisal came in a little low.

Jun 15, 2013 12:30 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Rebecca,

Yes I am sure you are right and that most of us have all experienced this situation. Some buyers just think their home is worth more that all the comps. If there had been some terrific upgrades but I didn't see any.

Jun 15, 2013 12:32 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Harry,

I once had a broker tell me that it is best to mirror the buyer's opinion. If he likes it then you do but if he doesn't, then you don't. Yes I try to not say anything really negative but I need to point out any red flags I see.

Jun 15, 2013 12:35 AM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

We all make mistakes and if we learn, then it was not in vain. 

As far as that regression, I was aware, in a hypnotic state but well aware of the world around me.

Jun 15, 2013 01:33 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Barbara-Jo,

Very good lesson learned and hopefully some Realtors will read this and not make the mistake I made. Yes, thanks for the info on the regression. It is fascinating and amazing that some have these memories. I never predict when something is going to happen or have past life memories. I must not be in tune with my past or maybe I don't have one?

Jun 15, 2013 01:50 AM
Gary Frimann, CRS, GRI, SRES
Eagle Ridge Realty / Signature Homes & Estates - Gilroy, CA
REALTOR and Broker

These are two of the biggest lessons agents must learn.  I wish Everyone would understand what a timewaster taking an overpriced listing is (especially if we know it WILL NOT appraise).  Live and learn.

Jun 15, 2013 04:45 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Gary,

You are so right and may I say I hope I never take an overpriced listing again but the odds are I will melt while sitting in their living room. But I usually only suggest a little wiggle room like $5000. Thanks for stopping and have a great weekend.

Jun 15, 2013 05:54 AM
Christine O'Shea
Christine E O'Shea Broker - Naples, FL

Wow, I did learn long ago to never talk too much about my past and personal life, also, some older people are just not nice, that is the way it is, they were not nice when they were younger and are the same when they are older... Wonder if it ever sold?

Jun 15, 2013 07:52 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Oh, Kristin, OUCH. Hopefully it only took once. In life, it has sometimes taken me longer to learn valuable lessons than just once. I recently learned one from a seller about not getting him to sign the d**ned paperwork, but took him at his word (a NEIGHBOR)...long story short he signed with an agent in the CITY and wouldn't even give me the courtesy of telling me until I CALLED HIM, three days later to check on how he was doing in getting his piece of crap home ready to list. The agent doesn't know this area AT ALL, but gave him an overpriced listing price and cut her commission (I'm sure she's counting on selling him another home in the city). I actually thanked him for teaching me a valuable lesson. I decided that there needed to be some closure so that is why I told him that! Then I went out and pruned my Japanese Maple to heal my spirit!!

Jun 15, 2013 10:05 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Christine,

No they took it off the market and rented it out. Plus they were confused and wanted me to go over all the escrow instructions. I had scheduled an appointment with the escrow officer and they didn't show up and then later in the day ask me to come and go over it with them. I stood my ground and said I am a Realtor and do not have the knowledge to discuss specifics of escrow documents. Plus it might be construed as legal advice. They just moved back to their old home and rented it and said I will wait 5 or 6 years which I still think is a mistake.

Jun 15, 2013 03:36 PM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Gayle,

My best friend had that happen recently. She had helped them get the contractors, pick paint colors, select carpeting style and color and so much more. Took them 8 months and they told to her come by Saturday to see it and when she arrived another agent from another firm was in the kitchen getting the contracts signed. People can be so screwed up sometimes. She said it was overpriced so hopefully it will not sell for a long time. Very sorry that  happened to you. Most everyone I have met is so nice and serious about selling or buying but there will always be a few jerks.

Jun 15, 2013 03:40 PM
Helen and Larry Prier- Re-Max Gateway - Residential Real Estate
RE-MAX Gateway- Residential Real Estate Sales - Anacortes, WA
Anacortes & surrounding Skagit & Island Counties

Kristin, It is the hardest thing in the world to walk away from a deal. I think we all have had that experience and regretted it. Thanks for sharing.

Jun 16, 2013 05:10 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Helen & Larry,

I am not a quitter and it was hard to deal with them and I really liked them. I like selling homes for seniors and think I communicate well with them. That was the frustrating thing because I liked them and knew they wanted to sell but still think their was something else going on like a child trying to get them to turn the house over to her.

Jun 17, 2013 12:29 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Kristin~ Some times we just hang on for too long hoping against hope that it will all turn out the right way.

Jun 20, 2013 03:32 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Donna,

That is exactly what I did was to hang on waiting for them to wise up and it just didn't happen. I hate to give up but sometimes you just have to face reality. Thanks for the kind words.

Jun 20, 2013 06:23 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

We've all dealt with a stubborn seller at one time or another and we definitely learn lessons from them.

Jun 25, 2013 10:09 AM
Kristin Hamilton CA REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway California Realty - Beaumont, CA
(909) 557-6966- Specialize 55+ Communties Banning

Hi Chris Ann,

I agree that we have difficulties and then we must move on and let go of the anger and frustration. I don't hold any animosity towards them but they made a big mistake and should of gone with the offer. It was not right for the buyers who were ready to move and for both agents (me and another lady) and we had worked hard.

Jun 25, 2013 01:23 PM