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"There's More Than 1 Way to Skin a Cat!"

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Mortgage and Lending with First Choice Mortgage Group

Child fishing at the lakeA few years ago, I took my family down to Franklin D. Roosevelt State Park, in Pine Mountain, Georgia to camp. We do this regularly, as it sits outside of Callaway Gardens, where we like to go on day trips. My oldest daughter, who was 5 at the time, asked me to take her fishing at the lake in the campground. While I'm not a big fisherman, I've lived my entire life in Georgia, so I know a little bit about hooking a fish. I grabbed my little Zebco, a bobber, a weight, a hook, a few end pieces from a loaf of bread, and my daughter, and we headed to the lake. When we got there, a man and his pre-teen son were out fishing by the lake, fully geared with their artificial lures, worms, and multiple rods. After exchanging pleasantries, I began to string the line for my daughter. After tying the hook and placing the bobber and weight, I showed my daughter how to make little dough balls with the bread, and chum the water. Afterwards, I placed a dough-ball on the hook, and looked over, noticing that we were being watched. The boy was asking his dad what we were doing. The man laughed, and told his son that I was "trying to teach my daughter how to fish". I asked the man how it'd been going, to which he replied that the fish just weren't biting, that they had no luck at all. I cast the dough-baited line out into the lake, and gave the rod to my girl, telling her to watch the bobber. The boy asked what we were thinking, fishing with bread. I told him that I found this worked well for catching Bream (Sun Perch to some), and I was hoping to let my girl catch a fish. The man laughed again, and told me that "bread was for breakfast, not for fishing"; that they'd been out all morning and not had a bite. About that time, the bobber bobbed and went under. I jumped towards the rod and helped my daughter set the hook, and within minutes, my daughter had her first fish. It was a little bream about the size of a person's hand. After about half an hour, and 8 or 9 fish later, the boy asked his dad if he could go back to their campsite and get some bread. There was a resounding, "no!", and shortly there-after, the father packed he and his son up and left.

The lesson I tried to help my daughter bring away from this was that there are multiple ways in which to accomplish tasks. When she see's somebody doing something a little different, don't pick at them or make fun of them; you might be able to learn something if you pay attention.

When someone has a unique way to market their service, product, etc., take note, evaluate the effectiveness, and maybe you'll be lucky enough to pick up a new trick. "Think outside the box"; "dare to be different", and don't let the masses of nay-sayers guide your actions.                                                                               

     After all..."there's more than 1 way to skin a cat!"       cat with hair standing up all over                                                                             

 

Have you ever had a unique marketing idea, that when you shared it, people told you that it'd never work? Share it here, in your comments. Thank you for reading my blog.

Bo Hunt
First Choice Mortgage Group - Douglasville, GA
Metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional

~  Very punny, Duane! Thanks for the comments! Our real estate friends have got to get/stay creative to stay afloat today. Otherwise, we'll be fighting for jobs at our local Ace Hardware or Home Depot!

~  Thanks, Debbie, I try to do my best for my kids, and hopefully I'll always be a big part of their lives. I am a lover of gardens, and try to visit beautiful places on all of my journeys...You might call me a true Renaissance Man! LOL! Thanks for reading my stories, thoughts and anecdotes. I've always found myself rambling on about something my entire life. It's great fun sitting around by the campfire in the evening sharing different "remember whens..." with my friends and family.

Mar 10, 2008 04:24 AM
* Rate A Home
Rate A Home - Saugatuck, MI
Bo, LOL, good use of words! I agree with getting creative, it's so important in this economy.
Mar 10, 2008 04:31 AM
Linda Futral
Newnan, GA
Bo this is an excellent post and wow look at the response it has gotten already.  Dad and I still fish in our little pond and yes we use dough balls for bait. 
Mar 10, 2008 05:05 AM
Bo Hunt
First Choice Mortgage Group - Douglasville, GA
Metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional
~ Thanks Linda, it's funny how those things work, isn't it? I really thought it was just a silly little thought I had last night. My daughter was visiting (I'm at my in-laws right now for recovery time), and she was asking about taking her fishing when I got better. That conversation sparked the memory, and I almost didn't post it. Strange what hits home with people...just never know. I just hope I am able to maintain the same level of relationship with my babies as they grow up that you and your dad sound like you have. Thanks!
Mar 10, 2008 05:25 AM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro
BO, I LOVED this story.  There are a lot of different ways to skin a cat you just have to find the one that works best for you. 
Mar 10, 2008 06:52 AM
Bo Hunt
First Choice Mortgage Group - Douglasville, GA
Metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional

~  Hey Marchel... Thanks! You are exactly right. I try several methods of accomplishing tasks, so that should one not be the most efficient, becomes outdated, or doesn't work for whatever reason, I've usually got a "plan B" on hand...I find that in this line of work, a "plan B" is a necessity, and a "plan C", and "plan D"... (you get the picture). LOL...

btw, Thank you for sending me the video thing from your blog, "If I had to live my life over...", this is a very wonderful gift that I plan to share with those close to me.

Mar 10, 2008 07:57 AM
Kate Elim
Dockside Realty - Spotsylvania, VA
Realtor 540-226-1964, Selling Homes & Land a

Bo...At Linda's suggestion I got to read your post.  Keep taking that daughter fishing and you will be rewarded many times over.  It's great when they grow up and ask you to go places with them.

Cheers,

Kathleen

Mar 10, 2008 01:55 PM
Bo Hunt
First Choice Mortgage Group - Douglasville, GA
Metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional
Thanks, Kathleen, I plan to continue taking my little girl (and her little brother and sister), fishing, camping, hiking, canoeing and exploring in general. We have great adventures together, and it's my kids that help keep me young... even though they do wear me out at times! When I see them gaze in wonder and awe at a "new discovery", it fills my heart with joy, and I find myself rediscovering right along beside them. Thanks for reading my post, and your comments!
Mar 10, 2008 04:57 PM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor
 Bo... I went for that one 'hook line and sinker'...! I just went straight back down that time tunnel to when I was  3-4 years old and my dad used to take me fishing to some of the lakes in North of Winnipeg, Manitoba.........Apart from the 4 am start time and the slathering of mosquito repelent...the one on one time we spent together, replays in my memory over and over again.......45 years later........i'm now 50 and he is 75....those times were so precious....he taught me about the sounds of silence........communing with nature.........I think it was his way of meditating.......His calm and steady voice.....He'd pass the rod over to me to hold......(so he could get something) just as the fish was hooked.!.....He made me feel like the best!    His 'fishy' princess...!  You never know when a pricesless unforgetable moment is going to happen!
Mar 30, 2008 06:57 PM
Rod Rich
Atlanta Communities Real Estate - Atlanta, GA
Atlanta- Associate Broker
There is a fine line between trying to think outside the box and trying to reinvent the wheel.
Mar 30, 2008 11:49 PM
Bo Hunt
First Choice Mortgage Group - Douglasville, GA
Metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional

~  Liz... That is an awesome memory! I hope my kids are able to hold onto memories such as that over the years. Our fast paced world, with constant bombardment of stimulus makes me worry a little. Maybe I'm just getting older; I find that I worry over the silliest stuff now that I never used to even think about! LOL

~   Rod... I agree with your comment, I think, but I'm struggling a little with the connection to the blog. No offense, by any means; it's my own connection issue, but thanks for commenting! Who knows, maybe a little "wheel reinvention" may be needed at times. We, as humans, seem to have short attention spans, and "old ideas", when presented in new context or a new way, may open new doors! Thanks again!

Mar 31, 2008 12:32 PM
Benjamin Smith
Apex Appraisals & Consulting - Powder Springs, GA
Atlanta Area Appraiser

Bo, great post! I have been breaking my daughter into the world of fishin for a couple of years now. She is about to turn 7 this spring and we are looking forward to another big trip around memorial day. Those special times are absolutely priceless. I learned the bread idea from my grandfather when I was young and it seems to be my daughters preference as well. She doesn't like to touch the worms!

I am all for great new ideas that work, especially when they don't cost much. Of course on my side of the business, nothing works best than the old fashioned face to face marketing.

Apr 01, 2008 04:48 AM
S J
Pittsburgh, PA
Great post, thanks for sharing
Apr 01, 2008 04:49 AM
Bo Hunt
First Choice Mortgage Group - Douglasville, GA
Metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional

Benjamin,  Thanks for your comments! Its funny; my kids love to play with the worms, but get grossed out about putting them on the line!

Chadd, Thanks!

 

 

Apr 02, 2008 06:56 AM
Keith Perry
Coldwell Banker - Hiram, GA
REALTOR - West Metro Atlanta
Sounds like you all had a great time. Great post Bo!!
Apr 02, 2008 01:04 PM
Bo Hunt
First Choice Mortgage Group - Douglasville, GA
Metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional

Hey Keith and Robin... I've always had a blast taking my babies fishing, camping, and hiking. Sitting around the campfire, making up stories and going on "blind" night hikes have been a way of life for the family since my oldest was 6 months old! We've done some light backpacking, when my oldest was still an only child; she rode in a baby backpack while I carried the gear. Once the second (and 3rd) came, that put an end to those days for a little while.

Apr 02, 2008 02:19 PM
L. Wayne Denton
Denton Properties, Inc. - Loganville, GA
I have a handle on your market!!!

My dad used to take my brother and Myself out with him when he had to travel.  He would find a stream in the Rocky Mountains back away from the main road, drop us off while he called on a client, come back, check our catch, fish with us for a while, then we would clean the fish and take them to someone he knew in the area who would cook them for us and we would sit down for dinner with them.  Little did I know at the time that this was his way of providing for some others who may not have had enough without giving them money.  My dad taught us so many of life's truths through these subtle lessons they still pop up. 

 Thanks for the memories.

Apr 16, 2008 02:31 PM
Bo Hunt
First Choice Mortgage Group - Douglasville, GA
Metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional
Hey, Wayne... Those are some awesome memories. Trout fishing is such fun, isn't it. I never had the pleasure of fishing in Colorado or Wyoming when I travelled out that way, but as a boy, my dad, my uncle and I would trout fish in the Chattahoochee down below Buford Dam. We had light action, closed face Zebcos, wade the river (COLD!), and trout fish in the early morning while the mist was still coming off the water. Watch a nice Brown or Brookie come up from the depths to take the lure, pop it off the top of the water, and the fight was on! Heaven lies in these memories. I'm glad this post brought back good ones for you as well! Thanks for sharing! 
Apr 16, 2008 03:24 PM
Rod Rich
Atlanta Communities Real Estate - Atlanta, GA
Atlanta- Associate Broker
Bo I thought the message was " enough Dough will beat out BS every time"
Apr 18, 2008 06:26 AM
Bo Hunt
First Choice Mortgage Group - Douglasville, GA
Metro-Atlanta Mortgage Professional

Hey, Rod... I like it! Very punny!

Apr 18, 2008 04:21 PM