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I Feel Like I Already Know You

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty of California, Inc. CA DRE #01490977

I Feel Like I Already Know You

This was a comment made upon first meeting, and shaking the hand of, a relocating buyer some time ago.

Getting to know you before I meet you via emailIt was a wonderful compliment, and in many ways we had already met.

There were posts I had written, and a video or two.

And there was a long string of emails over several weeks responding to questions and providing much needed information about the area this client was moving to, among other matters of interest.

We had never even talked on the phone as email was the preferred communication method for this very busy buyer.

The email conversations we had provided a way to get to know each other in advance of a face to face encounter, and to reach a level of comfort in terms of style and personality, but also gaining a broad perspective on the issues that were particularly important.

emailcan be a great way to get to know someone before you meet themFeeling like you already know the other person allow you to quickly move on to the business at hand, since you are already “well acquainted.”

Not everyone feels the same level of comfort meeting via blog posts, video and email for a variety of reasons (generational, habit, personal preference) but they can work so well in this technology age for enabling others to get to know us. Face to face, though, remains the most powerful means to take the relationship to a new level.

Responding quickly, thoroughly, honestly, and offering more information than requested will help others get to know you and your personality.

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Jeff Dowler, CRS
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Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Jeff, blogging on ActiveRain means we 'expose' ourselves to an extent that almost everyone knows us!

(I met Juli Vosmik at Phoenix for the first time while I am at KWFR - and we felt we knew each other for long time!)

Feb 18, 2014 02:37 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Jeff - I believe there are no better customers than those who have been reading our blog for months, and then contacted us. Of course, they feel like they personally know us...

Feb 18, 2014 02:48 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Praful - so true. And having email conversations takes it even a step further. I suspect when you and I finally get to meet IRL  on one of my trips back east it will be the same as with Julie!

Jon - agreed. It's so nice to have that relationship already in place

Jeff

Feb 18, 2014 03:16 PM
Rob Marken
Bend River Realty - Bend, OR
25+ years experience in Bend

Great point, sometimes it does feel like you can get to know someone over shared e-mails/social media/blogs etc.  

Feb 19, 2014 12:30 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Bob

It's happened to me multiple times with buyers and sellers.

Jeff

Feb 19, 2014 01:55 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good afternoon Jeff. This is a terrific testament to you and your communication and easy attitude. I suggested this. Have a great day.

Feb 19, 2014 03:31 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Jeff, I have also had this happen. It sure makes things easier when you first meet. It feels you already know each other.

Feb 19, 2014 03:44 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Thank you Sheila. I suspect there are many or our friends here on AR who have had this happen at least once!

Tammie - it is a wonderful compliment and a nice way to get started on a home search or the selling process.

Jeff

Feb 19, 2014 09:21 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Jeff, It's a pretty good starting point with a client relationship when they're already at that point before ever meeting you!

Feb 19, 2014 07:28 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

BLiz

Agreed. Then you don't have to worry about the "getting to know you" stuff and can focus on helping them. And they are already committeed to you emotionally

Jeff

Feb 20, 2014 03:57 AM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Jeff, don't you love that response!  Of course, face to face relationships are built quickly, but you certainly can build a relationship through blogs and emails....people learn who you are through your writings.

Feb 20, 2014 08:27 AM