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The Other Victims of Money Mischief

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Real Estate Agent with Leigh Brown & Associates, RE/MAX Executive

It's so easy to cast blame in this world of loan fraud and straw buyers and inflated appraisals...I've certainly been one to shake a finger at the ones who have caused so much trauma in the economy.

But when a dear friend's family life is completely shaken up because of mistakes that her spouse made, it changes your perception.  He made his errors and will pay the price-and I can't say that I feel sorry for him since we all make choices in life-some good, some bad. 

It's his kids that I feel for.  They're small, had nothing to do with his mischief-and no matter what, they love their daddy to pieces.  He's not a bad guy-he made mistakes and got involved in what looked like easy money.  He's a great dad, a loving husband, and devoted as heck.

My heart is broken for all of them, as they figure out what damage the past is going to cause to the future.  If you have faith, please say a prayer for this family.  And remember that no matter what the folks in the newspaper story did (or are accused of), there are other lives at stake (so perhaps curb that tongue).

 

Randy "Lazarus" McAtee
Lazarus Realty - Fresno, CA
Owner/Broker, Lazarus Realty, Fresno California
Leigh, loan fraud was so rampant that only the worst of the worst will be prosecuted. Like you said, they are just people who did dumb things.  If all the buyers who lied on their apps (fraud) for one reason or another (like to get a lower interest rate) were prosecuted for their crimes WHERE WOULD WE PUT THEM ALL?
Apr 01, 2008 01:08 PM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area
Sounds like that family will suffer...all of them for the actions of one. I hope they get through it all intact.
Apr 01, 2008 01:37 PM
Eric Bouler
Gardner Realtors, Licensed in La. - New Orleans, LA
Listening to your Needs
The standards were so lax, this was bound to happen. You take right and wrong out of society this is what we can expect. Many youths lose their lives because they do not know. However people can be forgiven after the punishment. Maybe we could have an updated chain gang. In Louisiana you go to the prison farm and work your ass of in the fields and there is no A/C.
Apr 01, 2008 04:05 PM
Randy L. Prothero
eXp Realty - Hollister, MO
Missouri REALTOR, (808) 384-5645
I am with you, I do not feel sorry for those who made poor decisions.  I do feel sorry for their children.
Apr 01, 2008 04:30 PM
Sandy McAlpine
RE/MAX EXECUTIVE - Cornelius, NC
Search Lake Norman Homes For Sale - Lake Norman NC

What's happened to our morals and ethics? It seems like every time you turn around, a client or someone you know is trying to take advantage of a situation, etc. Everyone is looking for an easy buck these days. I worry about who I am surrounded with at times. It doesn't set a good example for the kids either. It's tough....

Apr 02, 2008 03:28 AM
Leigh Brown
Leigh Brown & Associates, RE/MAX Executive - Charlotte, NC
CEO, Dream Maker - Charlotte, NC
Morals and ethics?  What about personal responsibility?  They're all dying out, it seems.  We have taken right and wrong out of society-i mean, look at the 3rd graders in the news-can't hardly blame them, they were obviously never parented properly....and this guy, who's actually a great dad but a lousy business decision-maker, is going to hurt more than himself going down.
Apr 02, 2008 03:41 AM
Sasha Miletic - Windsor Real Estate
RE/MAX Preferred Realty Ltd. - Windsor, ON

My Prayers are there for their children. God bless them and save them..

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Apr 02, 2008 01:46 PM
Robin Dampier REALTOR®
Coldwell Banker King - Hendersonville, NC
Hendersonville & Western NC Real Estate Source
It just seems that more and more folks think the world owes them a living and any mistakes are some one else's fault.  Many, many just don't seem to want to be responsible for anything they do!  The country seems to be falling into a morose of debauchery and it's getting harder and harder to believe that there are still more good people than bad!!  I still believe, but, it's getting tougher!!

Sue
Apr 17, 2008 05:30 PM