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All Work And No Play Makes Me A Grumpy Guy

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Greenville Upstate

I'll be the first one to admit that I am not a work-a-holic.  Oh, don't get me wrong - if you poll the people in my office, or if you ask my family, they'll tell you that I'm the guy who is up on the computer at midnight sending emails, or at the office until the wee hours working on this project or that.  What I can't do is completely shut out the other facets of my life to concentrate on real estate.

I have to play.  If I don't play, I get grumpy.  If I get grumpy, I tend to make others grumpy, and that's a bad cycle that just doesn't need to play out if all possible.

How do I keep from being grumpy?  I do my best to keep Sunday free. 

I say my best, because it would be lying to say that I always took Sunday off.  I make a concerted effort to do so, but sometimes I give in - if I have an out-of-state client, for example. 

Sundays are family days, spiritual days, and baseball days.  Sunday is the time to enrich the spirit, relax the mind, and enjoy my beautiful family.  I play and umpire baseball, which, for some, would be hectic, but it relaxes me and allows me to release a lot of the week's frustrations or pent-up energies.

My wisdom is this:  Whether Sunday, Thursday, or whatever day you choose, keep a day for yourself.  If you're a work-a-holic, don't let yourself burn out.  Remember, you'll burn out much faster if you constantly burn the candle at both ends.

Relax.  Chill.  Catch a fly ball.  It works for me!

Comments(4)

Eric Bouler
Gardner Realtors, Licensed in La. - New Orleans, LA
Listening to your Needs
When business is good I work hard and can play tennis early. When business is slow I can enjoy the fruits of my labor. Its hard to pass up sales.
Apr 19, 2008 04:09 PM
Kirk Westervelt
Van West Realty - Greenville, SC Realtor -Short Sale Expert! - Greenville, SC
Kirk Westervelt, Broker In Charge, Van West Realty - CDPE - Short Sale Agent - Home for Sale - Greenville, Simpsonvil...
You have inspired me to lock up my home office and enjoy this Sunday! I think I'll drive my boys up to Tryon and maybe Ashville, NC to see their cousins. Enjoy your Sunday and thanks for the inspirational blog!
Apr 19, 2008 05:26 PM
Anonymous
Joy Worthy -
In our line of work I always expected to have to work when other people don't, EX: weekends.  14 years ago I should have started my business out like another Realtor I know (and you) and that is by declaring Sunday as a day off.  Maybe it's not too late!  :-)  
Apr 22, 2008 06:26 AM
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Geoff Scowcroft
Coldwell Banker - Studio City, CA

Why are you working? Is it to make a better life for you and your family? 

A proper balance in life is very important. It won't matter if you're a great success in business if your spouse leaves you and your kids resent you because you never spend time with them.

One of the best tools is to use a good time management system to schedule out your day. This will help you focus on work when it is time to work and life the rest of the time.

Ultimately, happiness isn't the balance in your bank account. It is being able to enjoy life and the people around you. Yes, in our world that includes having a balance in the bank account, but it is not the only important point to happiness.

Apr 22, 2008 06:37 AM