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Listing Agents Are Confident And Paranoid Prior To A Presentation

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Paranoia is a delusional belief that most real estate agents deal with as each listing appointment is addressed.  That paranoia is a personality disorder that results in the urgency of closing each seller to list in a timely fashion. Paranoia can be the fear of a seller who verbally commits to you suddenly calling another agent.

We are all paranoid.  In a business that’s as competitive as real estate and with a pay check that only appears when you close a deal, there is always a reason to be paranoid. 

Agents need to overcome this sense of panic.  Confidence in your ability to control the situation and close the seller is the focus.  A lack of self-confidence results in that paranoid mental state. 

If your presentation is thorough and detailed; if you have prepared your presentation with sufficient research; if you offer a presentation that is professionally delivered, then you can’t lose, and there’s no reason for paranoia.

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Comments(17)

Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I am unfamiliar with this paranoia, thank goodness. Confidence is something I am more familiar with.  If you list with me, great.  If not, your loss.

Jan 16, 2016 04:06 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Hi Chris Ann..... every agent should have the same mindset that you do....however, most attempt to be confident but have a degree of paranoia for fear of losing to another agent....seasoned agents who are well-versed with listing presentations are less likely to experience this paranoia....

Jan 16, 2016 04:14 AM
LUXURYSOCALREALTY COMPASS La Jolla
Compass - La Jolla, CA
San Diego Partner - The Private Client Network

Hi Barbara many years of experience help with paramoia, fear, and anxiety.

Jan 16, 2016 04:19 AM
Barbara Todaro

yes.... well-versed, seasoned listing agents have self-confidence and there's no reason for paranoia.... everyone loses one for one reason or another....


when one train leaves, there's another right behind it.... it's never going to be your last listing....

Jan 16, 2016 04:33 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Barbara,

No paranoia here, either you are a match or you are not.  And you train sentence reminds that my grandfather always said that.  During the Russian Revolution, the train he missed with my grandmother infant father was blown up.  Have a great weekend.  A

Jan 16, 2016 04:56 AM
Barbara Todaro

when an agent is well versed, the listing calls come in consistently and the confidence is always there....there is no paranoia because they know there will be more business.... "green" agents are always concerned about someone else's presentation trumping theirs....

Jan 16, 2016 05:04 AM
Joan Dickie
Keller Williams Premier Realty - La Crosse, WI
Keller Williams Premier Realty

I call it performance anxiety.  I usually calm down once we start conversing. I don't do a formal presentation like most.  I just get people talking by asking a lot of questions first.

Jan 16, 2016 05:04 AM
Barbara Todaro

in my area, everyone does a two visit presentation....the first one, for us, is to collect information and leave a binder that tells the homeowner "who we are; what we do; and how well we do it".... there are probably 40 pages in the brochure....we leave it for them to keep....and we always want them to share it with their friends who may be thinking of selling....

Jan 16, 2016 05:12 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Paranoia is not in my vocabulary...confidence is the key to success

Jan 16, 2016 09:18 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

You hit on an important point, Barbara!  I've been licensed since 1981, yet I can't remember a single listing presentation that I didn't have at least a little stage fright!

Jan 16, 2016 10:53 AM
Marte Cliff

Stage fright (just a little) is said to be healthy - it keeps you on your toes! 

Jan 21, 2016 05:26 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

Let the paranoia begin! I am my own worst critic and I always second guess my listing performance. I appreciate your insight Barbara Todaro !

Jan 16, 2016 11:11 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

No matter how positive or down we might feel the constant keel is important.  Always have to show a professional front regardless of the internal mess going on

Jan 16, 2016 11:29 AM
Linda Guess
Keller Williams Tri-Lakes Branson, MO - Branson, MO
Branson area real estate sales.

I go to listing appointments prepared with all the data.  Being new in Branson I went to one that turned out to be more valuable than I had expected.  The comps I used were wrong.  I didn't leave them with the client.  I knew after seeing the home that their asking price was correct.  The owners are wonderful and good people.  I got the listing and then on the renewal gave them a much better package.  Paranoia set in that time.  I like being prepared with correct information, then I am confident.

Jan 16, 2016 12:51 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Good morning Barbara.   With my past job experience I don't believe I've ever approached a potential client where I haven't been prepared.  I've been broadsided a couple of times.  Being confident shows just as much as not being confident.  Clients pick up on your paranoia, it shows.

Jan 16, 2016 07:47 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

At our last Broker, we  heard 2 "seasoned" agents "rehearse" different scenarios for a presentation they were going on. They sounded so unprofessional and lacking of confidence. I wondered if the homeowner thought the same. Luckily we have never felt this paranoia...

Jan 16, 2016 08:19 PM
Barbara Todaro

what you heard was a rehearsal by agents who were not properly mentored and must have felt like they were walking a tight rope with net below....

Jan 16, 2016 10:06 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

Good morning Barbara. Confidence, once you have it, look out world. You lack none of it!

Jan 16, 2016 08:49 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Barbara Todaro,  I had this problem a long time ago but got over it, then someone gave me a complex and it took awhile to get over it but not I am back on my game!

Jan 17, 2016 12:59 AM
Barbara Todaro

never allow anyone to do that to you.... anyone who does is threatened by you and that's the person's defense method.... 


good luck to the Broncos today....I'll be watching...

Jan 17, 2016 01:04 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Barbara -- I'm in agreement with Alexandra Ron and Alexandra Seigel regarding a presentation akin to finding the right match -- agent and seller.   Sometimes it clicks, sometimes it doesn't.    Of course the best results come from those clicks that are based on confidence, experience and a thoughtful course of achieving the goal at hand -- successfully closing the transaction.   

Jan 17, 2016 02:53 AM
Barbara Todaro

a top shelf salesperson should be a chameleon and mesh with 99% of the people they are attempting to close....the good, the bad and ugly.... 

Jan 17, 2016 07:16 AM
Ginny Gorman
RI Real Estate Services ~ 401-529-7849~ RI Waterfront Real Estate - North Kingstown, RI
Homes for Sale in Southern RI and beyond

Barbara, if you don't have confidence then bring an associate with you who does I say...

Jan 17, 2016 06:48 AM
Barbara Todaro

that would be the best decision.....but how many agents make good decisions?? that's why they are not confident about closing...they have no confidence in their decisions....

Jan 17, 2016 07:18 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Put knowledge and preparation together and you have no reason for paranoia. Unfortunately, too many people have that little voice in their heads saying "You're not good enough."

It's a shame that friends and family work so hard to install that voice in some people. 

Jan 21, 2016 05:30 AM