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Why, Oh Why Didn't You Listen to Me?

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Being in the business of assisting Buyers for nearly 20 years, I have been known to make suggestions, from time-to-time.  I offer advice, coaching, hand holding and the myriad of other business-related duties of the real estate kind.

While I can lead a horse to water . . . I can not make them drink.

I can offer my suggestions on pricing, what to offer, and what to ask for in concessions, or buyer repair requests, etc.  But, it's always the client from whom I take instructions.

What we do in our representation of our clients is many-fold, and can play out in a variety of ways.  In this particular case, the buyers were insisteant on looking in one area,  and one area alone. Period.

The area is small.  Inventory being relative.  

When I suggested they EXPAND THEIR SEARCH to include the abutting cities, I was met with resistance. "We want to buy in CANDYLAND."

Okay, but Candyland has a population of 33,000.  In the overall Portland Metro market, pickings are slim to begin with.  PLEASE CONSIDER the other areas near Candyland . . .that have 150K in population . . . more people, more houses! 

I begged, I applied reason, but was met with dogged resistance.

And then . . . just this Monday the email came . . . "We're going to expand the search to include . . . " the areas I had implored them to consider . . . SIX WEEKS AGO.

Now, those houses are gone.  They are PENDING.  They are not available.

Prices are creeping upwards and the wonderful houses that could have been . . . HOME . . . are now under contract to other buyers.

Keep options open!

 

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Carla Muss-Jacobs has RETIRED effective May 1, 2018

Representing Buyers in the Portland Metro Real Estate Market | Clackamas Multnomah and Washington Counties | Since 1999

Carla Muss-Jacobs, REALTOR®, ABR, CEBA, ePro
Principal Broker/Owner ~~ INACTIVE

Carla Muss-Jacobs' retirement became effective May 1, 2018

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Beth and Richard Witt
New York, NY
The best Retired Brokers !!!!

Carla... what can I say except welcome to the wonderful world of real estate...

Oct 06, 2016 06:19 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED

Richard and Beth Witt when I look at the ones that got away, I feel really sad for them.  

Oct 06, 2016 08:50 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Carla

Everyone has to go through a process when searching for a home, and for some being more flexible (price, area, wants and needs) is tough and hard to change. After a while reality sets in, perhaps after some frustrations. The best we can do is be as helpful as possible, suggest alternatives and be there when the time is right.

Jeff

Oct 06, 2016 06:24 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED

Jeff Dowler trust me, I listened to the reasons, and I understand.  Shopping in Candyland would have ADDED 30 more mins. to the commute each day -- one way (an entire HOUR/daily).  I listened to them, and I'm very glad they are now listening to me.  Hopefully, something swell will hit the market, just right for them!!

Oct 06, 2016 08:53 AM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Carla, Good luck in helping  them find a home . They will listen to you.

Oct 06, 2016 07:55 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

If I had a dime for everytime someone should have listened to me. Ugh

Oct 06, 2016 08:00 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED

Due to inflation, I will make that $10, Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner 

Oct 06, 2016 08:54 AM
Kathy Stoltman
Ventura, CA
RETIRED

Carla, it is a very frustrating aspect of our business.  So many questions why folks won't listen with so few solutions to get folks to really hear what we are saying and to believe it is in their best interest to heed our advice.

Oct 06, 2016 10:05 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED

I was pleading with them to look at other areas to open up the search . . . they would not even consider it.  There were so many nice properties they could have "BROWSED" . . . they didn't have to buy.  But they didn't want to.  Pity.  Kathy Stoltman 

Oct 06, 2016 12:23 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

It is important for buyers to keep an open mind.  I remember years ago I said I only wanted a house with a separate family room.  I hunted and hunted, and then out of the blue while driving around I saw a house on a large pie shaped cul-de-sac lot.  It had no family room, but had so many other amenities to offer that I didn't miss it.

Oct 06, 2016 10:14 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED

Expand the possibilities!!  

Oct 06, 2016 12:24 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Many buyers get into he market with the big wish list and then the reality of their finances catch them and take the back to reality

Oct 06, 2016 12:06 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

It is sad when they have to learn the lesson the hard way. Those missed opprtunities... 

Oct 06, 2016 01:51 PM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED

Tammy Lankford, -- I was almost tempted to ask if I could use your placard . . . I forget exactly how it reads, but something like he who hesitates has no lake front home!  

Oct 07, 2016 04:25 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Carla, I have actually had similar situations in my market area. That was a hard lesson that caused them delays in finding their next home. I am sure they will accept any future suggestions from you.

Oct 06, 2016 10:14 PM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED

I'm sure they came to you for your expert service AND advise.  When they don't take it . . . pity!  Thanks for the comment Jerry Newman 

Oct 07, 2016 04:26 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Coldwell Banker Realty

One can only do one's best to encourage others to take advice Carla Muss-Jacobs, Principal Broker (503) 810-7192 - Buyers and Sellers would do well by taking your advice!

Oct 06, 2016 11:30 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I'm going through this with a client now.  Fifteen minutes down the road is "just too far."  Meanwhile, it would save them $100K in prices and there is so much more available.

Oct 07, 2016 06:59 AM