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Why I Can't Always Tell You What the Buyer (or Their Agent) Will Do

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Real Estate Agent with Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 228209

I Can't Always Tell You What the Buyer (or Their Agent) Will Do. Why?

Human Behavior!

Human behavior
Really, it's that simple! If you've sold a home in the last year, you know that things in the housing market have changed considerably. You also know that one thing that we will never be able to change is human behavior!

 

 

One of my buyers had an unusual request yesterday and I explained the 'probable' reason for the request. My client honored their request for a second showing and today, they are under Contract with those buyers!
 


 

There are some buyers who are understanding, get-it-done-smoothly types of people who make getting through a home sale, a dream.  Then, there are those who put their foot down to EVERYTHING! Those people expect you to do everything THEIR way or you may even be given the old, "I'll just take our football and go home!" response if you don't. 

 

There are others who appear to be wonderful but, really, they want what they want and when they get it, they seem to savor in making everyone's lives miserable afterwards. This type, I'll never truly understand but, we do have to deal with these types of buyers on occasion.


Here are some of the 'beyond-my-control' items that we may face during the listing of your home:

 

  • FEEDBACK & BUSINESS CARDS: I absolutely cannot force every single agent who tours your home with their buyers to provide feedback to you OR leave a business card. As much as I firmly believe in this practice, all agents just don't. They may be lazy, they don't care or perhaps they're bringing an Offer from their buyer and don't want to play any of their cards. Believe me, I try - I send them reminder emails and I phone them to get that feedback for you. I understand how very important it is to you and I do my best to get it from all of your showings. Sometimes, it just doesn't happen. The best feedback a buyer can give you is an Offer - so, keep that in mind! 

 

  • LOCKED DOORS: I remind every agent showing your home to lock all doors and turn out all lights. I believe that we have a rash of agents who are not paying attention and leaving doors unlocked - I've heard several agents complaining about this locally of recent. This again - human behavior! When you are out of town or if the home is vacant, I do have someone check your home at the end of business each day in order to assure that doors were not left unlocked. However, if you are in town and find that your doors are unlocked following a showing, please let me know.

 

  • Rush appointmentsSHOWING NOTICE: All showing agents do not know 2-3 days in advance when a buyer wants to tour your home. Like you, how I wish they did too! Sometimes they phone us and want to show the buyer your home within the hour. We do our best to set limitations on touring homes without sufficient notice but, we also want to be sure to allow all prospective buyers into your home.


I agree, a 15-minute notice is unacceptable and we do have the showing service require a lead time but, still, they may have the showing service notify you to ask. I hear complaints from buyers' agents: "My buyer is headed to the airport and JUST saw this home and HAS to see it before leaving town!" or "We were looking in the area and my buyer is making a decison this afternoon on a home - I need to get them in your home because I really think this is THE one!"  


You get the manipulation, right?! The thing is, when you really want to sell your home, you will do what it takes, if it's at all humanly possible for you to get out of your home in 15 minutes - you almost have to! Just know that I cannot control these demands - it's solely up to you as to whether or not you are able accomodate their demands.

Buyerzilla
Again, these are things that are beyond my control; I have no control over the other party when it comes to their behavior or their seemingly bizarre requests.

 

I CAN tell you how they are likely going to respond but, as in every aspect of our lives, sometimes people will simply surprise you!

 

My hope during your entire transaction is, of course, that you'll be surprised in a good way - not a negative one. 

 

Making you aware of those darned humans I can't control is part of helping you understand the selling process! You may not experience any of these issues but, at least you'll be prepared if you do!

 

If you're thinking of selling your Charlotte home, let’s talk! As with everything in life, preparation is key and I will equip you with what you'll need to get you as seamlessly as possible, through the home-selling process...regardless of the buyer behavior. Call or text (704) 491-3310 and let’s get started!

 

Hiring the RIGHT Charlotte Realtor® is critical to your home selling success!

 

© Debe Maxwell | The Maxwell House Group | CharlotteBroker@icloud.com | Why I Can't Always Tell You What the Buyer (or Their Agent) Will Do

Comments(30)

Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Isn't that the truth, Dörte Engel?!! I used to joke with one of my boys that I wish I could just open up his brain and pour in a little motivation! 

Oct 19, 2018 07:13 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Ego is something we deal with on a daily basis, isn't it, Endre Barath, Jr.?! And, like you, I've never understood how agents & their clients feel that this helps their cause in any way, shape or form!

Oct 19, 2018 07:22 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi James Dray! The airport story is probably the most used one I've heard! There's always an excuse for forgetting to schedule appointments! LOL

Oct 19, 2018 07:23 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

LOL I'm thinkin of starting a Buyer-Zilla blog series as there is something that comes up quite often in that department! LOL

Kat Palmiotti 

Oct 19, 2018 07:24 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, same here, Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400! I will admit to forgetting to leave a card on occasion but, when I realize it, I notify the listing agent...sometimes in the feedback I'll apologize for that as well. But, one thing is for certain, I never forget to leave feedback - like you, I know what it's like on the other end, waiting and waiting for it!

Oct 19, 2018 07:26 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

No, you're so right, Gabe Sanders! I just always hope that my sellers realize that too! Agents and their buyers are beyond our control!

Oct 19, 2018 07:27 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR! I'm still on my mad 'review' of systems - making sure that all clients are WELL informed and know what to expect upfront. These things we mention casually but, in writing, it's more impactful, I believe.

Happy Friday!

Oct 19, 2018 07:30 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Boy, that's a mouthful, Brian England! Without those challenges, life would have little excitement, right?!

Hope you have a fabulous Friday!  

Oct 19, 2018 07:31 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Ha, I was shaking my head in agreement as I read your post, Debe. So very true, we can't control others behavior, but we can control how we respond. And sadly, if you want to sell a home, it's best to try to honor requests when you can...

Oct 19, 2018 07:42 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Yes, just be prepared for a few days of craziness and they'll be fine, Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD! Sometimes I do wish we could control the other side a bit better but, such is life!  

Oct 19, 2018 08:00 AM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

People choose to do or not do...and many feel it to ibe thei "power position"...

Oct 19, 2018 06:42 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

You could have a degree in human behavior/psychology, Sally K. & David L. Hanson - with your clientele! 

Oct 19, 2018 06:50 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Thankfully most agents will do the right things and secure the house but then there are those buyers that think they are entitled. It makes the transaction a very long one.

Oct 19, 2018 09:11 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

Well, we are not mind readers. We expect other people to do things and follow our advice, but people are people. They always have their own reason to follow their logic.

Oct 20, 2018 01:35 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Debe- anytime we humans are involved, you never know what will happen. Expect the unexpected!  You have to be flexible because if you want to sell your house, you may have to put up with some of these situations like the ones you mentioned. 

Oct 20, 2018 05:10 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

The entitled ones (in any situations, including buyers) always seem to drive me nuts, Debbie Reynolds - there's just no getting through to them that perhaps they are inconveniencing someone! They want what they want, when they want it! ;-) 

Oct 20, 2018 10:56 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

So true, Inna Ivchenko - we can only lead a horse to water, right?!

Happy Saturday!

Oct 20, 2018 10:56 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Flexibility is something that we start teaching when listing property, right out of the gate...Expect the unexpected is also something they need to be aware of!

Happy Sunday now, Kathy Streib!  

Oct 20, 2018 10:58 PM
Karen Feltman
Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group - Cedar Rapids, IA
Relocation Specialist in Cedar Rapids, Iowa

Great points!  It is always better to prepare for the reality of human nature.  Although people can be difficult and unreasonable about showing the home with little to no notice, most of the time it is not that way!  And I hear you on the leaving of a card and feedback.  It is like pulling teeth from some agents.  I send an email upon the confirmation of the showing with the property disclosure, covenants, utilities, and any other pertinent disclosures for the property.  I also ask for timely feedback in this initial email so that the agent knows that I will continue to ask for it.  After the showing, I will email them again to thank them for their showing and encourage them to complete the online feedback through Showing Time.  If I have not heard from the agent within 24 hours of showing the listing, I will call and text them for feedback.  I feel that 4-5 contacts is enough and is considered a good effort to receive feedback for my sellers.  There is always that agent that sends feedback a week later and it is less than helpful.  Beyond our control and as you said, the best feedback is an offer!

Oct 22, 2018 04:53 PM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Debe, So true...agents and their buyers are beyond our control and the best feedback is definitely an OFFER!

Oct 30, 2018 03:03 PM